Has anyone never had a GF/BF before?

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Never had one ever. Some people would joke with it.

Never been in a proper relationship. I've been on a few dates and even ended up in bed with a girl, but it didn't occur to me to do anything. She didn't return my calls after that.
More recently I met someone who I felt a genuine affection for, for the first time in my life, but it was a complete disaster. In fact, that was what put me on the road to getting a diagnosis: Something was so obviously wrong.
I'd like to be in a relationship, though it's only recently that it's started playing on my mind.

I've never had a girlfriend, and at my age it's almost time to give up hope. When you get past 30, women have a list of about 100 points they want a man to have, and if a man fails on more than 2 he's not even considered. I probably fail on at least 50.

At 20 I wasn't seen as 'fun'. At 25, I wasn't seen as 'stable', and at 30 I wasn't seen as 'successful'. As I've never been what a woman wants, none have ever been interested.

Never had a girlfriend, never have been on a date, I had been with a prostitute once, although the sex wasn't what it was suppose to be, which I wonder, under current social trends, wether I am still a virgin or not.

no your not

CONGRATS



suppose you should try and get a date then?

I believe I am in the same situation, but I don't see nothing wrong with it in the end. First, if a woman has 100 points of what they would want of a man, I would definitely not bother with her. I probably would end up alone or perhaps I would not, I don't know, but given that I am very asocial (social anxiety, clumsiness, and mild misanthropy) seems very difficult for me to be in a relationship, which I find it hard to imagine myself in one.

you gonna let that stop you guys?

Never had one, never will because I'm not interested in wanting a girlfriend.

I had my first at about 11. We even french-kissed on the same day we met but back at that age, girls wanted to hurry more often than they do now.

When she gave me her address, her writing was pretty illegible so that's also why I didn't write back.

If only I was born in the year 2000; by that age we'd just exchange emails.

You're one sad individual.

Why? I don't want a boyfriend. I guess I'm sad, too.

You should know he is only talking from his own desires
From what i've seen, he is desperate, and "hot" girls seem to be what he wants the most




And back on topic
Only had 1 gf before, ended in the middle of this august.
She was an aspie to lol, but dont talk to her more (have my damn good reasons)

I think Aspies can say they're desperate to one another, and I never said I was.

I was just inebriated on melatonin recently; can cause bad judgment calls.

Forget the hot girls unless their personalities are just as "hot." (just as matchworthy, that is.)

that is the lamest excuse I've heard in a *while*

Ever thought about being a stand up comedian?
i bet you would do good ^^

I have never had a girlfriend.