""Who is the MOST ATTRACTIVE Aspie woman you've ever seen""
I was just thinking over this headline, its late and
i`m just looking around before going to bed -
and its kinda ruff to say, maybe i`ve met girls that
had AS but i dont know that for sure. And come to
think of it, i dont remember ever meeting/seeing a
girl offline that i knew had AS and i have already
mentioned my opinion on the pics i'`ve seen here.
But something else hit me, for me "most attractive" is
so much more then just looks - and i have to admit its
been hard not to feel a little attracted to some and that
after just reading their stuff and getting to know them
a tiny bit that way, whats inside the person, i dont really
know what they look like for real so that has little weight in
on it, and i kinda like that thats what i`m attrached to the
most - of course i`m attrached to looks also but if a beautiful
girl open her mouth and shows to be a total..distaster in every
way, then those looks fade away for me, she just suddenly
looks less....appealing, something changes. - looking at it like
that inside is a huge part of it, no way could i be with some-
one because i thought they looked hot and that was the main
part of it, i really need a full package for it to work and the
inside is such a big part of that package- it makes the outside
for me, not the other way around. And this make alot of sense
to me since i have been attrached to completly different looking
girls over the years, theres no favourite when it comes to hair
color or those kind of things, could not be more random looking
if you lined them up. So i might have a favourite "most attractive"
if i base it on my rules for what attractive is
...not mentioning any names though
Knowing myself i`m pretty sure that if i got
to know someone good, thought she was great
and met her afterwards, theres just no way
i could look at that person and think "omg,
looking aweful", no way, not if i had gotten
to know her, know who she was and liked it,
i look much deeper then just the skin to find
what i like. So inside makes the outside for
me, definitely. Would i take the opportunity
to get laid if a beautiful girl tried to, one of
those popular ones you see everywhere
that everyone agrees "looks hot"? but i didnt
like her that much as a person/whats inside?
No i wouldn`t, not in a milion years for several
reasons., that is not interesting and leaves me
with nothing.
And if its the dumbest thing someone have heard in
a while, then i have to remind them that people are
different and this is how i am wired, its not like i
decided to be this way myself or anything so theres
little i can do about it even if i wanted to, i`m just
along for the ride.