For all you 'just friends' men out there...

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I always said don't limit yourself to 1% but I never said you're only compatible with 1% , what did you eat this morning to be hallucinating like this?

In fact, with your actual weight you are compatible with way less than 1% , so if you want a gf that bad then focus on losing your weight before anything else. (Whispering: Don't ever listen to those who say :awww you're not fat and please don't tell me again about this fat friend who got a hot gf, he doesn't have social impairments..remember that.).

You are religious and that's a plus btw since most ppl of your American community are religious , don't limit yourself to your sect though .

You can chant and sing and that's a plus too,

"I like you, want to go out some time?"

My brain could never produce this line on it's own. Go figure.

I, the prince , grant you the Knight title. You can stand now.


No seriously now.... girls can hardly believe you when you list about your qualities like that because those qualities are unseen and can only be seen after spending some time with you. They won't take your words for granted now, one might claim that he's nice and decent and blabla but he might be in reality a coward and as*hole.

That's why looks ,social status and social skills are more important qualities for the first impressions, because those are instantly visible qualities.

...you can now count me in your circle. And I'm a woman.

Yes, it does happen to women, too. It's happened to me every single time. Do I question myself? Of course. But for me, it's no real mystery what causes this to happen; if you don't have the look, the moves, and the ability to give a person everything they want, you're ousted.

In this case, it's seems to have been a constellation of problems. I can't help but feel bad about myself in some ways, especially now that I'm out in the cold, but in other ways, I realize this was a joint issue. The worst part is, after two years of being sexual together, he's more or less decided he's gay and always has been. Oof, if that doesn't hurt, what the f**k does?

I met this guy initially, I swear to you all, through dreams. I have each dream documented and even drew pictures him. Upon finding out it was him, it matched up. He has had a lot of family problems that have played a big role in this downfall. I still love him with intensity I have never felt for anyone else, and I always will. I basically felt, and still feel, he and I were 'soul mates,' in a manner of speaking. It feels like what stops us is problems that could be overcome, but that doesn't mean he wants to overcome them.

There is so little true love, sense of family, or deep, bonding caring in this species that this is a huge blow to me. I've always been quality over quantity, and I work all sorts of things out with my family and keep them close for life. It doesn't seem other people feel that way, and that is devastating.

Do I feel bitter toward him? Oddly, not quite. I do feel he's potentially making a big mistake, and has made many in the past, too, but I can't feel that resentment so many scorned people seem to for their exes. I almost wish I could feel it, but I love too intensely. Everyone seems to be telling me he's done some very bad things to me that make him a pretty foul person, but I don't know how to take that. I feel like I love everyone on some level, how am I supposed to feel anything but for someone who's felt like my other half?

It will likely end up that I'll never find another person, another match, and that seems to be a trend in my family -- once we lose who we feel is our other half, if we ever get them in the first place, we never do it again. So, here I go again on my own, going down the only road I've ever known.

But, I digress. This may lend some insight into how it goes with these sorts of things, and how many people suffer. You men are hardly alone, and everyone suffers in their own way from a combination of their own problems and the loveless, animal individualism that pervades our species, as it does so many others. It's a shame many of us have the brains to know what's going on; the pain from this knowledge has sent me into several existential crises over the course of my life.

Here's to hoping there can be self improvement and that we may all find someone with whom we can really share a true, deep bond and acceptance, and start a family. And for those forever loners, I'm right there with you. The man who brought me to this forum initially is now gone, but I don't know what of my time here now. We'll see.

I also hate to really sting you on this, but I'm also hoping your true love didn't just claim he was gay to get rid of you.

soulmates are not necessily sex mates and there is not only one soulmate per person.

Uhm...yeah there is; there's the right one, and there are "substitutes"; but with the substitutes, one has to work harder to make it last...most folks don't have the drive or patience, though.