27 May 2020, 6:45 am
sly279 wrote:
Pepe wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Teach51 wrote:
If I was an aspie man here's what I would do:
I would go and volunteer in an animal shelter, or if I was religious I would do something to help the needy that was affiliated to my place of worship or some other cause I was passionate about requiring compassion and empathy . I would express my compassion in a practical sense if I couldn't verbalize it. I would think there would be a fair amount of smart, caring women volunteering also who I could get to know more than superficially for a lengthy period of interaction who would grow to love, my aspie attributes.
That's what I would do.
I would go and volunteer in an animal shelter, or if I was religious I would do something to help the needy that was affiliated to my place of worship or some other cause I was passionate about requiring compassion and empathy . I would express my compassion in a practical sense if I couldn't verbalize it. I would think there would be a fair amount of smart, caring women volunteering also who I could get to know more than superficially for a lengthy period of interaction who would grow to love, my aspie attributes.
That's what I would do.
Yup,
Religious women may be easier pickings.
My first "girlfriend" was driven by compassion, through her religious indoctrination.
I would also recommend hobby courses and interest groups such as logic classes, bushwalking or arts and crafts, etc, after the CV event.
In the past, I have recommended local autism groups.
Joining an activity which is of interest to "you" is a possible win-win situation.
Hobby courses are expensive. I’d rather spend $300 on console I can use for years then on one pot making class.
I totally agree.
A console is a much better investment than an erky perky girl-germ infested girlfriend.
Much, much, much cheaper also.
Eh I didn’t say that. But paying $300 for hobby class won’t lead to a gf. Any women there would likely see I work min wage and pass. So I’d be throwing money away.
I see you have a defeatist attitude.
*That's* the spirit!
Gurlies like to dance.
Have you considered investing in a pink tutu and white pantyhose?
I don't think that costs anywhere near $US300.
There are other activities that don't cost a lot on money.
Bushwalking, for instance.
Join Extinction Rebellion and wear some "Puppy Dog" eyes, while saving the planet.
The progressive women luv that sort of thing.
Or, as 51(?) said, help out at a soup kitchen for homless people.
Easy peasy.
27 May 2020, 6:46 am
Pepe wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
I’m an “outlier.” It doesn’t mean I haven’t had success.
There happen to be many odd people out there.
There happen to be many odd people out there.
Are we talking about belly buttons?
I'm sure I'm missing some idiomatic meaning but:
My younger daughter's belly button looks like Debian logo
27 May 2020, 6:58 am
Teach51 wrote:
This all demands a great investment of time, effort and determination to achieve your goal but it will assist you in every interpersonal interaction. Nothing suddenly materializes just because we want it, learn how to make the emotional connection in your own unique way, if you can.
Hence, rational people realising "The Prize" is not worth the effort.
In my day,
Things were much simpler:
27 May 2020, 7:08 am
magz wrote:
Pepe wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
I’m an “outlier.” It doesn’t mean I haven’t had success.
There happen to be many odd people out there.
There happen to be many odd people out there.
Are we talking about belly buttons?
I'm sure I'm missing some idiomatic meaning but:
My younger daughter's belly button looks like Debian logo
I thought "Outlier" was a high falutin way of saying "Outie".
Outies and innies:
Quote:
How Normal Is Your Navel? Belly Button Facts and Figures You Probably Didn't Know
Do you have an innie or outie? How germy is your belly button? Do you get belly button lint? We investigated this oft-overlooked body part and found out everything you need to know. How does your navel compare? https://www.everydayhealth.com/healthy- ... utton.aspx
Do you have an innie or outie? How germy is your belly button? Do you get belly button lint? We investigated this oft-overlooked body part and found out everything you need to know. How does your navel compare? https://www.everydayhealth.com/healthy- ... utton.aspx
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27 May 2020, 7:19 am
Pepe wrote:
Teach51 wrote:
This all demands a great investment of time, effort and determination to achieve your goal but it will assist you in every interpersonal interaction. Nothing suddenly materializes just because we want it, learn how to make the emotional connection in your own unique way, if you can.
Hence, rational people realising "The Prize" is not worth the effort.
In my day,
Things were much simpler:
I thought you're a dinosaur.
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27 May 2020, 7:24 am
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It suddenly dawned on me what is lacking in these threads.
It lacks nudes and cat pics.
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The common denominator that the married aspies or those in a long term relationship share here, K, Bender, Kraftie, Fnord, you know who they all are, they all have the capacity to project their caring on to others, relate to others lives, express empathy in their own way, overcome difficulties and maintain a long term intimate relationship.
The only common denominator is their age/generation actually.
Fnord is caring, empathic and relatable to others?
Sorry.....that was rude but...
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27 May 2020, 7:31 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Teach51 wrote:
This all demands a great investment of time, effort and determination to achieve your goal but it will assist you in every interpersonal interaction. Nothing suddenly materializes just because we want it, learn how to make the emotional connection in your own unique way, if you can.
Hence, rational people realising "The Prize" is not worth the effort.
In my day,
Things were much simpler:
I thought you're a dinosaur.
Lol
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27 May 2020, 7:33 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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It suddenly dawned on me what is lacking in these threads.
It lacks nudes and cat pics.
Quote:
The common denominator that the married aspies or those in a long term relationship share here, K, Bender, Kraftie, Fnord, you know who they all are, they all have the capacity to project their caring on to others, relate to others lives, express empathy in their own way, overcome difficulties and maintain a long term intimate relationship.
The only common denominator is their age/generation actually.
Fnord is caring, empathic and relatable to others?
Sorry.....that was rude but...
I was anticipating that
I see his good intentions on occasion. Btw Karamazov is your age .
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27 May 2020, 7:36 am
Teach51 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Quote:
It suddenly dawned on me what is lacking in these threads.
It lacks nudes and cat pics.
Quote:
The common denominator that the married aspies or those in a long term relationship share here, K, Bender, Kraftie, Fnord, you know who they all are, they all have the capacity to project their caring on to others, relate to others lives, express empathy in their own way, overcome difficulties and maintain a long term intimate relationship.
The only common denominator is their age/generation actually.
Fnord is caring, empathic and relatable to others?
Sorry.....that was rude but...
I was anticipating that
I see his good intentions on occasion. Btw Karamazov is your age .Who's Karamazov btw?
Come on, we all know Fnord.
If Fnord sees a dying young man (not woman) on the street, he would lecture him to man up and how in their days men were used to drag themselves while injured in the Vietnam's battlefields.
27 May 2020, 7:45 am
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27 May 2020, 7:55 am
27 May 2020, 9:42 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Who's Karamazov btw?
Dunno mate
I don’t like the sound of him.
I mean, what type of pretentious weirdo goes round naming themselves after nineteenth century novels?
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Thanks for kind words teach
... think I may have to blush for a spot.
27 May 2020, 9:47 am
Karamazov wrote:
I mean, what type of pretentious weirdo goes round naming themselves after nineteenth century novels?
At least one other WP member coming to my mind...
27 May 2020, 9:55 am
magz wrote:
Karamazov wrote:
I mean, what type of pretentious weirdo goes round naming themselves after nineteenth century novels?
At least one other WP member coming to my mind...
Hmmm, yes.
Too busy taking the mick out of myself to think that it could be applied as a slur upon other...
27 May 2020, 9:58 am
I'm sure she's smart enough to recognize your sense of humor 
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