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25 Mar 2013, 12:21 am

BlueMax wrote:

^^^ That's how I felt about my ex-wife... although I'll admit she blew my mind from the moment I laid eyes on her, even now as she's aging, shock-white hair and getting chubby like me.

I'd still love to take a bite out of that sexy heinie... :twisted:

Many people wouldn't give her a second look... I don't seem to want anyone else.

There's gotta be someone else out there that'll knock your socks off...

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25 Mar 2013, 12:41 am

IlovemyAspie wrote:

There's gotta be someone else out there that'll knock your socks off...

There's been one or two I was blown away by but it was either impossible or not reciprocated. [shrug]
One or two have been crazy about ME but... same deal.

One day I'll find someone again where, just like my ex, we look in each others eyes and .... well...
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25 Mar 2013, 1:08 am

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There's gotta be someone else out there that'll knock your socks off...

So what exactly had you "blown away"?

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25 Mar 2013, 1:12 am

When I first met my ex-fiance I was blown away, I literally went blind when I first saw her, like a head rush of energy.
There was a girl I saw recently on the bus that had my head spinning quite a lot too. She had to stand really close to me, right in front of me (I was sitting down), and she looked down and smiled. If I were an old man I would have had a heart attack.

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25 Mar 2013, 1:27 am

IlovemyAspie wrote:

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IlovemyAspie wrote:

There's gotta be someone else out there that'll knock your socks off...

So what exactly had you "blown away"?

That's tough... really tough! 15 years ago... it was so total and instant... the fall of her shoulder length dark hair? Her sensual curves? Her face, lips, cheeks... even her glasses! It was so intangible and indescribable! Apparently she felt a similar attraction for me...

I couldn't possibly describe it adequately, since other people with curves and dark hair do NOT have the same effect that she did.

I guess that's what the few gals I dated off OKCupid were looking for but didn't feel... (could've said so BEFORE the $25 dinner, lady!)

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25 Mar 2013, 1:38 am

BlueMax wrote:

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There's gotta be someone else out there that'll knock your socks off...

So what exactly had you "blown away"?

I don't think it's about any of their particular attributes, I know what you're saying... and really it's just everything about them... just hits you all at once really fast.

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25 Mar 2013, 10:46 am

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=siFtM7MpDgs[/youtube]Hehe the narrarator must be an aspie with her robotic voice!

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27 Mar 2013, 7:35 pm

My friend just posted this status on facebook and I FEEL IT RELATES TO THIS THREAD

"- Drink every time Pitbull does a stupid half-laugh in one of his songs
- Die quickly"

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28 Mar 2013, 2:08 am

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I always thought the key to forever love and happiness is that the man or woman have to be good looking. Who wants to date a ugly person, right? The looks is what gets you attention whether you are a celebrity or not. It was always the prettiest girls in high school that had boyfriends. It was the jocks like football players that had girlfriends. That probably continues in college and so on. I don't know. I thought about plastic surgery to improve my appearance.

I am not all that pretty and I managed to get boyfriends when I was younger...just ones I was not all that compatible with (we were into very different things) or who could tolerate my quirks unfortunately. Even with my presently carrying a bit too much weight (medication I used to take caused me to gain some) I can still find men for sex sometimes. My neighbour asked me to go round and have sex with him earlier (and he is the second neighbour to do that in the last few years), I just don't like casual sex is all so I decided not to go.

As for love, men have loved me but I didn't love them and vice versa. I am still looking for that 'mutual love' thing to happen.

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28 Mar 2013, 10:16 am

meems wrote:

My friend just posted this status on facebook and I FEEL IT RELATES TO THIS THREAD

"- Drink every time Pitbull does a stupid half-laugh in one of his songs
- Die quickly"

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28 Mar 2013, 12:10 pm

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I dunno. Men are really easy to get. Much easier than women.

I disagree.

I disagree as a second.

I disagree with the disagreements and second 1000Knives' assertion.

Are you gay? Have you tried picking up a decent man?

Define 'decent man'.

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[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=siFtM7MpDgs[/youtube]Hehe the narrarator must be an aspie with her robotic voice!

That lady looks like Kate Winslet.

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03 Apr 2013, 8:47 pm

Lots of NT guys like those things but us Aspies tend to be different. Lots of us aren't into partying & would avoid bars & other social places where drinking tends to occur. We tend to be shy & would be kind of nervous at the thought of sex on a 1st date.
I personally am straight-edge so & I wouldn't require my partner to be but I'd worry about my partner getting drunk; my 1st girlfriend liked getting drunk & got into some trouble & I worried. I'm also not social so I avoid he typical party/club scene & woman who's into it wouldn't work for me. I think women who dress like you described OP are slu*ty; into having flings, using sex to get things from guys, focus on sexual attraction instead of focusing on deeper aspects. I'm shy & sort of on the asexuality spectrum & wanted something aLOT more serious than a sex. I never done the typical dating thing; I'd rather do more personal things with my girlfriends than go out like having conversation, watching TV together while being affectionate.

I think lots of guys would want this thou~

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04 Apr 2013, 6:43 pm

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I like smart, hilarious girls who aren't afraid to act silly in a large group, and have a good sense of honor and respect, and are kind and forgiving, but will show eyes full of fire if someone does something cruel to tick them off.

I also like girls who are musical, book worms, gamers, and like sci-fi/fantasy.

As for physical appearance, I prefer to have slim/healthy looking women who are at least 5 feet since I am very tall,

I'd just like to say.. I wish there were more men like you. Your description fits me almost perfectly. I'm sure there are more men like you but they are just so very hard to find. Sorry. I found this post while searching for random stuff across the site and I just had to say something. Also, I know this is about what men want and I am not a man so uh.. leaving this thread now.. heh.

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07 Apr 2013, 6:53 pm

To be so repulsive to women none of them even acknowledge my existence. I'll start with this site.

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08 Apr 2013, 9:54 am

drunk girls are funny to watch but not date. i dont want an alcoholic for a gf nor do i want someone who drinks socially. i kissed a drunk girl at a club and it wasnt pleasant bc her breath wreaked of alcohol. me personally, the only things that matter to me are that she doesnt use me or lead me on. of course she has to look good but looks doesnt mean she's good on the inside. i also dont want a liar and alot of girls tend to do that nowadays to get what they want.

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