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21 Dec 2010, 9:22 pm

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Nice guys.... The first thing that pops into my mind is a guy with no personality that lives to please his girl. Lame.


yeah bubba. You've gotta beat that b***h. Show her who's boss. :lol:



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23 Dec 2010, 9:16 am

jamieboy wrote:
TheInfamousArgyle wrote:
Nice guys.... The first thing that pops into my mind is a guy with no personality that lives to please his girl. Lame.


yeah bubba. You've gotta beat that b***h. Show her who's boss. :lol:


Works for me. ;)
Oh wait. :lol:



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23 Dec 2010, 11:43 am

emlion wrote:
jamieboy wrote:
TheInfamousArgyle wrote:
Nice guys.... The first thing that pops into my mind is a guy with no personality that lives to please his girl. Lame.


yeah bubba. You've gotta beat that b***h. Show her who's boss. :lol:


Works for me. ;)
Oh wait. :lol:


That is quite hot but still very wrong. What does he beat you with anyway... :lol: ?



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23 Dec 2010, 11:46 am

jamieboy wrote:
emlion wrote:
jamieboy wrote:
TheInfamousArgyle wrote:
Nice guys.... The first thing that pops into my mind is a guy with no personality that lives to please his girl. Lame.


yeah bubba. You've gotta beat that b***h. Show her who's boss. :lol:


Works for me. ;)
Oh wait. :lol:


That is quite hot but still very wrong. What does he beat you with anyway... :lol: ?


Anything he can get his hands on. Rawr.



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23 Dec 2010, 11:56 am

emlion wrote:
jamieboy wrote:
emlion wrote:
jamieboy wrote:
TheInfamousArgyle wrote:
Nice guys.... The first thing that pops into my mind is a guy with no personality that lives to please his girl. Lame.


yeah bubba. You've gotta beat that b***h. Show her who's boss. :lol:


Works for me. ;)
Oh wait. :lol:


That is quite hot but still very wrong. What does he beat you with anyway... :lol: ?


Anything he can get his hands on. Rawr.


Do you like biting also? I like to be bitten and have a girlshape bite me. Maybe i need to get a full live in spankathon going on like you? Put a permanent smile on my face. I did think about going to see a dominatrix once but i found that it increased my social anxiety quite a bit.

Horny aspies :D



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23 Dec 2010, 12:10 pm

Oh my god; i know, right?
I never really told him until recently what I reeeeally like- and he's happy to oblige. :lol:
He's such a nice guy it's suprising he's okay with some of it. haha.

I prefer biting to being bitten oddly enough. Although if Stef does leave yummy bite marks my work mates always laugh and joke with me about it. :oops:



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28 Dec 2010, 8:47 pm

TheInfamousArgyle wrote:
Nice guys.... The first thing that pops into my mind is a guy with no personality that lives to please his girl. Lame.


I can see the 'no personality' being a huge red flag, but 'living to please his girl'?!?! What's wrong with that?

I swear, too many girls don't like gentlemen anymore. They grow up reading Cinderella and all about 'Prince Charming', and then choose the opposite of that!

(I know not all girls are the same, but geez!)



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28 Dec 2010, 9:10 pm

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zPTblJlTUX4

:P 8)



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29 Dec 2010, 1:11 am

Dantac wrote:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zPTblJlTUX4

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Cool song! :D


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01 Jan 2011, 4:07 am

i love nice guys,except a lot of the times theyre really boring because theyre the stuffy type but not all of them are.that and its always the nice guys who really are nce who i let be the gentleman b/c they enjoy it and theyre not a player so its ok. :) and theyre not as intimidating to approach.too bad those arent the types that are usually attracted to me... :(



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02 Jan 2011, 9:23 am

In my experience, a woman says "You're a nice guy." right before she dumps you. Interpretation, "I don't want to have sex with you or even date you anymore.". They find a better looking man who is a jerk or immature and choose him.
I find that attractive women like men who are either aggressive jerks or they like men who act immature and childish. Not to be stereotypical, but not all women are "gold diggers". I have seen them dump "a nice guy with a good job" then chase some childish man who doesn't have a job. They are even willing to pay for a "man child" lover.
Attractive, hot women are impossible to date if you have AS, unless you learn to mimic what they want. I find "being myself" repells women whether I am nice or not. Since I am programmed to want sex with attractive women I have to hit the clubs and put on one of my many "faces". I have to be phony and a jerk. I am too old and ugly to try to play the "man child" routine.



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02 Jan 2011, 8:11 pm

Ugh. This thread reminds me of why I'm going to be single for life. v_v



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02 Jan 2011, 8:52 pm

Well said, Jonsi! Ugghh!



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02 Jan 2011, 10:13 pm

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Well said, Jonsi! Ugghh!

I speak caveman. :)



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03 Jan 2011, 2:03 am

Nice guys have issues just like the bad ones do. It's just whether they want to work through them or not that makes the difference to me. If he's a nice guy, but he can't deal with his baggage, I'm still not going to be into him - even though I really do like nice guys :)


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03 Jan 2011, 10:41 pm

Nice guys don't get chosen, because they are TOO GOOD for women. :D


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