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Still waiting for a reply from Kay_Zee

Thank you i need to take some time out, i had A-Level exams and family thngs to do, so i had to take a break, but there was no way i could leave this place for good. It's too important to me.

no longer looking

You never know if you don't try.

29, Asian, New Westminster, BC. I make a point of keeping physically active and fit -- in other words, I don't take life sitting down. I got my diagnosis a few months ago, but whatever. It's not what we are, it's what we do that defines us. I try to find a balance between geeky and social interests (martial arts, cooking, puzzle solving, guitar, writing, art) and am always looking to try something new. Just as long as it's legal. Or, you know how we can avoid getting caught or convicted.

Hi I am a 27 year old mother of one, also single, I love in good old Wilson, NC, you do notice that I'm being sarcastic right, well if anyone here lives in or near Wilson pm me.

29, straight Canadian male, -My interests are lots of dark 80s music, all types of philosophy, culture (or counterculture) theory, daily news, other forums, technology, hiking, travelling, surfing internet, well thats pretty much it

Searching for females 20-30 having some sort of similar interests...um something like that...

As I have been and will be saying yes I'm am single but not in a postive way. I don't want to be single. I want some body to love. I guess I'll be still waiting.

Guess it can't do any harm to post here...

17, straight, male, UK (hertfordshire).

Likes: Music, especially metal, especially prog, especially Dream Theater... Forums... Computers... Guitars... Hugs... Purple... Reading good books... Ambigrams... Getting drunk... Some other stuff...

This is me.


Only really interested in relationships with people I can meet up with in real life i.e. living in England.

Anyone interested? *Flutters eyelashes*

Oh well what the hell..

I'm a 21 year old male who lives in the Midlands, England. My interests include philosophy (any old debate will get me fired up and ready to rock), biology, Live action roleplaying, roleplay, Terry Pratchett, computer games, general reading, good nights drinking in the pub and whatnot.

You could call me as having a polar personality. Some times i'm a bouncing bomb (especially at 6FT 2 and weighing a fair bit), jumping around, being crazy and generally making a fool out of myself, but other times i'm calmer, more contemplative and with a serious streak. Once a friend you're a friend for life, i'm quite the emotional sorta guy who enjoys watching a good film (yes.. even so called chick flicks.. hell i watched Mrs Potter so sue me :p).

Oh, and did i mentioned i'm a diagnosed aspergers nut?

I'll give this online dating thing one more shot

name: richard benson
age: 26
sex: yes please! (sorry i couldnt resist
occupation: overnite stocker
attracted to: girls. hot ones.
intrests: rocks, old civilizations, loooooooooooong walks, romatic chit-chat lol. maybe i'll let you teach me how to drive if yer good at it.

now for a recent picture, it wasnt taken with the best camera, so any wierd colors are the cameras fault. you can also see what the backside of me looks like in my avatar.

Hi, I'm a 17 year old aspie guy, I am a junior in Highschool, I live in The U.S, Dumfires, VA
i need an aspie girl : ]

For the wonderful Aspie women:

Oh how I've tried. My poetry has wooed the most beautiful neurotypicals, and other charms I've learned to fake have enchanted the hearts of woman doctors, waitresses, and many in between. I've dated, even been married once, but all those things kept crashing down, and I never understood why. Betrayed, rejected, outcast, scorned, misunderstood- many things have I experienced, but still I tried. I tried too hard, and found only pain. Only after my diagnosis and re-examining my past, did I allow myself to recognize and accept the futility of maintaining a relationship which could only be sustained by being something less than fully myself.

Learning of my AS just this last year, it is quite a new enthusiasm to realize that I may actually find a woman out there with whom i can be just me, relax, stim, shake a little sometimes (helps me think), not worry about the constant social faux pas, and finally for the first time in my life feel truly accepted and loved. A young 37 with no children, I am tall, slim, handsome (other's words, not mine), periodically successful (when I can calm my brain enough to concentrate on my company's business activities), very well educated, somewhat cultured, romantic, calm, rational, level-headed, and through a life of forced entrepreneurship, have learned enough coping mechanisms to mimic a neurotypical quite well for a short period of time. Since recently beginning to embrace my autistic quirks, however, I have begun to uncover a variety of newfound abilities, which may augment and assist my future goals.

In short, I now have a much more clear understanding of who I am, and my best functioning modes. On the romantic side, I had given up trying until I realized that I could actually find women who think like me- Aspie women. Now I am enthused at the potential of finally having a recipient for all the love, on so many levels, which I have had to hold inside lo these many years. To imagine the incredible feeling of acceptance, true Oneness with another human being (who is a woman) with whom I can share my most intimate and vulnerable feelings, brings the start of tears of joy welling up in my eyes even now...

I can imagine your soft cheek on my palm, tracing your lips slowly with my thumb, feeling open to look deep into your eyes and feel innate comfort. As you gaze into mine, you see the swirls of ancient empires and budding galaxies, of a multidimensional man who has saved the best of himself for you- only you. And as i watch you completely relax, a thousand past lessons of pain fall from your body like rusted chains to a cold stone floor, and your heart is free to soar.

I can feel your newfound glow like a torch blazing deep into my chest, calling out to my soul to embrace you forever, and in that moment our last hesitations and worries fall away to never return. Our hearts entwine and we finally feel what it is like to be One heart, One mind. In that moment, we wish to remain, and know we will protect and cherish our love as the most precious gift we have ever known.

This I wish to find, and hope that you are out there, somewhere, reading this. And though I know that the chances are rare, and I may have to wait for years before she appears, I must try; I must open myself to whatever lessons are ready for me to learn; I must give love a chance, though it has failed me before; I now know that I need never settle again- trust that she is there, waiting for me to appear as I am for her. And I must make myself worthy of love, for in that we become the greatest of beings, at peace with the knowledge that we can only do our best, for love.

Sowing the seeds, we become the beacon for them to find us, when we are ready, for love. Prepared and fresh, we become, the one thing we sought all this time, the great joy of becoming... is to search the world over, and finally find that the answer was here all along, waiting for us to recognize within ourselves, and therein become worthy of the beautiful gift ripe to appear in our lives. I've learned my lessons, given freely of myself to help friends the world over, earned the patience and respect of many a wonderful person who needed my guidance, help, or advice. I've become a beacon, and an apprentice to further growth of the heart.

And now I shine my light so that all among you may see. I am here, fair maiden. Sitting here... patiently... waiting for you... to... find me.

-letsstartourowncountry

name: Terry Newman
age:28
attracted to: usually nothing
interests: article writing, writing my own philosophies, photography, studying religions
looking for: i'm sure i'll know if i see it

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