Do women simply just dislike Aspie men?

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31 May 2020, 1:28 am

I am not sure if this advice is ever given, but I think most women that have ever approached me did so because I was able to make them laugh. The humor should not insult or offend them, but it should be something they can relate to and understand so be sure it's not a niche topic. I mostly used self deprecating humor as a mask only because it came natural to me.


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31 May 2020, 1:35 am

^^

Drive reverse in your black car without spilling her coffee from the cup holder. Whisper sweet Benacerrafs in her ear, and discuss the trisection of angles. You'll find your soulmate.


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31 May 2020, 1:39 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:
^^

Drive reverse in your black car without spilling her coffee from the cup holder. Whisper sweet Benacerrafs in her ear, and discuss the trisection of angles. You'll find your soulmate.


That or perhaps you might run them over. Either way you found them.


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31 May 2020, 1:41 am

blackicmenace wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
^^

Drive reverse in your black car without spilling her coffee from the cup holder. Whisper sweet Benacerrafs in her ear, and discuss the trisection of angles. You'll find your soulmate.


That or perhaps you might run them over. Either way you found them.



At least he could eliminate a few.


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31 May 2020, 2:59 am

blackicmenace wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
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Drive reverse in your black car without spilling her coffee from the cup holder. Whisper sweet Benacerrafs in her ear, and discuss the trisection of angles. You'll find your soulmate.


That or perhaps you might run them over. Either way you found them.


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31 May 2020, 3:07 am

I deleted a tasteless mathematically uninformed post in there. It's a long story involving a new insider preview Windows build & lots of time in my basement watching a small Linux LCD touchscreen that isn't changing.

Also beer.


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31 May 2020, 3:18 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:
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Drive reverse in your black car without spilling her coffee from the cup holder. Whisper sweet Benacerrafs in her ear, and discuss the trisection of angles. You'll find your soulmate.

:heart:

Astronomy is good because in order to point at stars, you need to get really close to each other ;)


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31 May 2020, 3:32 am

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I wouldn't want my guy to drive a flashy sports car, especially in a stand-out colour (yellow, bright green, red, etc).

I'd be mortified that everyone was staring at me / us, thinking I was into material status.

A car with power is good though, and most definitely you need to drive like a man.

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I absolutely love the idea and can't think of many things better. I'm totally OK with people thinking I was into material status, and I would totally boast about it.


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31 May 2020, 3:38 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:
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Drive reverse in your black car without spilling her coffee from the cup holder. Whisper sweet Benacerrafs in her ear, and discuss the trisection of angles. You'll find your soulmate.


Or...have hot boiling coffee poured over your lap :lol:



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31 May 2020, 3:41 am

I still maintain the idea that us aspie women just want something more than a potato. Like you have to at least have a personality aside from...' I am nice potato date meeeeee!' because a lot of times those nice potatoes turn out to be bad potatoes. LIke if you have an S.O and you ignore them constantly for games or basement time or whatever...they will leave. You are probably a potato if the gf leaves due to neglect and you never spending time with her, because you are always in a game or have some other excuse why you cannot spend any time with them. Then finally the girl leaves and some guys are like...'whaaaa i only just barley got acknowledged here while doing a 7 day video game binge, the least she could do is stick around and have sex whenever i feel like it.'

Its like no, sorry potato but you don't just get to get connections with people, end said connections by ignoring people and then b***h when a female acquaintance from the days of old just simply doesn't want to have sex with you, because you turned up after they moved on. LIke don't be a potato if you are in a LTR, both people need to participate a lot to make an long term relationship work...if one of you is a potato it doesn't work. LIke seriously both people have to participate or it ends in a divorce.


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31 May 2020, 3:49 am

Sweetleaf wrote:
I still maintain the idea that us aspie women just want something more than a potato. Like you have to at least have a personality aside from...' I am nice potato date meeeeee!' because a lot of times those nice potatoes turn out to be bad potatoes. LIke if you have an S.O and you ignore them constantly for games or basement time or whatever...they will leave. You are probably a potato if the gf leaves due to neglect and you never spending time with her, because you are always in a game or have some other excuse why you cannot spend any time with them. Then finally the girl leaves and some guys are like...'whaaaa i only just barley got acknowledged here while doing a 7 day video game binge, the least she could do is stick around and have sex whenever i feel like it.'

Its like no, sorry potato but you don't just get to get connections with people, end said connections by ignoring people and then b***h when a female acquaintance from the days of old just simply doesn't want to have sex with you, because you turned up after they moved on. LIke don't be a potato if you are in a LTR, both people need to participate a lot to make an long term relationship work...if one of you is a potato it doesn't work. LIke seriously both people have to participate or it ends in a divorce.


Ok! shots fired (takes a seat to watch the battle commence opens a bag of potato chips...oh wait..._)



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31 May 2020, 4:09 am

I'm not even sure if I'm a root vegetable.


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31 May 2020, 4:12 am

Potatoes are stem tubers.


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31 May 2020, 4:19 am

I feel like a cannibal eating potato chips :lol:



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31 May 2020, 4:22 am

:shameonyou: That’s racism against potatoes.



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31 May 2020, 4:28 am

Yes it's turning into a hot potato :lol: