Do you feel unattractive?

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I'll be attractive once I get a tan.

No, a tan will make you more wrinkly.

I don't feel unattractive, but when it comes to being in a social setting, I feel awkward.
Being awkward is probably not very attractive. However, I find it difficult for me to "feel" something about myself. I usually just try to devise ways to get away from the people as soon as possible when I'm faced with them.

Men gain value with age, or what appears to be age.

I don't feel attractive at all. I think I'm ugly. The nickname I give to myself is Frankenstein. Strangely, some women have said that I'm cute. I still don't get it.

Physically Im ok, Im not a particularly attractive person, I'd have to put a bit more work into my apperance to get there but Im often too lazy. Mentally and emotionally yeah. Generally people are attracted to others with good personalities and confidence not someone whos confidence is not there and has a slew of emotional problems. But Im trying to learn how to have a better emotional handle on myself.
This brings me back to this conversation that I had with a friend about being unsexualized. Theirs certain people that you just cant look at in a sexual way, or its just really disgusting. I feel like Im on the edge of one of those people. I dont completely feel like an unattractive person I just think that most of the people that know me would probably perfer to think of me as asexual.

Dhp, I think women say you're cute because you have round, childlike facial features and you have a kind, non-threatening looking face.
You're not super masculine, but not all women prefer that anyway.

Truth be told I am reasonably sure I'm attractive, I think I'm pretty, and other women tell me I'm pretty, even suggested that I should model (I'm 5'7" and a size 10, which is basically morbidly obese in the modeling industry) but I've never had a man tell me I was pretty, in direct language. Which is rather disheartening, because I'm all for self esteem and inner beauty and all that jazz, but I'm not sure whether I'm pretty to men but have an off-putting personality, or whether I have a nice personality but am simply not that physically attractive to guys.
IT IS FRUSTRATING.

I think I am very physically attractive. But my personality and aspie quirks makes me unattractive.

First of all I'm too honest and too truthful. I point out biased views whether it be sexist, racist, or just bullying. I dont talk about the same thing most guys talk about. i talk about politics, foreign languages, and so on. I usually let girls know how they are first hand. I usually tell them that they date jerks. dont get me wrong, girls do like me, and I can keep a girl liking me forever, but those are the girls who like me for me, and they are not attractive at all. Girls who like me, i am never attracted to. but the ones I am attracted to, they dont like me. i usually tell them how they are, and they hate it. But it dont matter cuz they dont like me anyways.

if i didnt have asperger's would the opposite sex think im attractive. Sure they would, definately. But I probably wouldnt be the straight A student I am, about to go off to a good college, because I'd be too busy in girls pants and being a jerk.

Often girls like my physical appearance, and think im something im not. They usually think Im a jerk because I look good. but when I dont act like a jerk, they go the other way. They just wanna be treated badly. This is why guys bring unattractive girls to prom because they know that what they see is what they get, and that girl is more approachable and down to earth. Unlike the as*hole insecure girls who cake themselves with makeup, because they are just as ugly on the inside as the out.

tell me about it. I feel you. I met this girl last week, who seemed to like me. she wasnt a dimepiece but she was cute enough and she always asked to touch my hair. I treated her like a queen or a greek goddess. I treated her like she was number one. and guess what. she still liked me. She asked me "so i heard you have a foot fetish" and i said "yes I do" and I picked up her dirty little foot, took her feet out of her dirty little sandals and gave it a huge kiss and she laughed and asked me to come in her room.
But another thing. She was very weird. She acted kinda like me. She was always mimicking some famous person or talking with a british accent. i was offput by her for like 2 minutes, and then I thought, why am i being such a stupid closed minded as*hole right now, this girl is a weirdo and she's cute, and she also likes me, whos a complete weirdo. So yes I like her and i got her email. she's so cute. I wish i could have talked to her longer, but it was a trip in spain and she lives in North dakota, and I live in another state. But shes my friend on facebook.

so....maybe you do offput guys, but there will be on who likes you. he just has to be open minded enough to accept your quirks

Yes, I do feel very unattractive physically, although I feel like I am more than equally attractive personality wise and intellectually. I'm intelligent and I can be very flirtatious and suggestive in a playful, harmless manner. I'm also well articulated and funny as well, so my personality makes up for my somewhat lacking physical attractiveness.

Well in truth, I don't think I'm bad looking at all. I'm more or less average. However, how this all pertains to the opposite sex, I feel like the opposite sex doesn't really care about me enough to give me a chance. Call me hypocritical if I claim the majority of them tend to be arrogant, aloof, and silly, for I have somewhat similar characteristics, but I honestly do think women really don't care about me or give me any notice.

The last girl I became friends with, I had to practically force myself upon her with charm, intelligence, and humor. She didn't take the slightest interest when I was some bub she met, but afterwards, she liked me a lot.

I believe the truth of the matter is simply this, unless you are deemed "physically attractive" by women, they will never give you time or effort on their part. Call me a misogynist, a male chauvinist, a malcontent, or whatever else. But I honestly believe that if women don't find you physically attractive, they won't give you the time of day. The only way to change that is to be playful and charismatic to change their opinion of you as exciting and fun loving.

It is too bad that we have to force ourselves to try and charm most women, whom under any other circumstance, would not give us the time of day, in order to alleviate our own personal loneliness.

not unattractive, i just wear a key to the tardis with low levels of perception filtering supported by the 15 archangel satelites

Daleks have no concept of "elegance."

I think I might have already answered this, but I know I am not unattractive to others - but to my own standards I am to myself, if that makes any sense.

Yes. There's always something wrong.

I don't think I am any less physically attractive than the average guy out there. I am thin, but I don't work out, I could be physically attractive if I wanted to be, but I just don't care. My personality is not attractive to women though. I've never had a girlfriend, and I doubt thats going to change. I just don't get along with the opposite sex at all. When it comes to the female gender, there are very few of them that I even want around me, due to bad experiences in the past. Most women flat out annoy me, so I prefer the company of guys. A lot of people think I am gay because I think this way, which I am not. I don't care if people think I am gay, since there is nothing wrong with being gay.

Wow! There's more than one of them out there....crazy...