I Have Given Up.

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I wish I had a way to fix it.

I notice that nobody comments on this.



QFT. Just because the success rate of an approach isn't strictly zero, doesn't mean it's a good approach. For males, this applies to dating websites and the friends-first route. Some people do win the lottery, but that doesn't mean buying lottery tickets is a sensible way to make a living.



LPP is right, there are stages in any society and very few women will so much as give the time of the day to a man substantially less experienced than themselves - there are evolutionary reasons for women to want a man that other women find desirable. If you're male and your experience is way below average for your age and society, your chances are slim to none. So I'm trying to make the most of celibacy, since I'm way behind in experience of women from my home country, let alone the West.

My ancestry is from south Europe. Everyone in my family is tall.

I like SFUS. Can I use it?
(S) I'm 6-2 which isn't that tall and yet I only know a couple of guys taller than me. So yes we are short, on average?

(F) Americans today weigh on average 25 pounds more than they did in 1960. Holy cow!! !

(U) Well I think we are ugly because we are fat? Very few people are unattractive, unless they are fat. Everyone is beautiful in their own way, unless they stuff hamburgers down their pieholes.

(S) Few people here read books or are interested in history (real history, not history channel) or arts or film (not Hollywood movies). The exception are, of course, hugely popular works like Da Vinci Code. Everyone had read that, because TV had told them to read it, or because their friends read it so it must be a trendy thing to do. And don't get me started on the American public school system. Gawd.

But to get back on topic, yes: tall+smart = (sexy and desirable) and (alienated from most of the society). See what I did there with the brackets?

There you go again, making up your version of reality without checking the facts. Case in point I am an avid history buff and read the Da Vinci Code because I studied the history of the Knights Templar and the Masons and Scotland, etc. ON MY OWN, before anbody else cared!!

And you above all should know that Aspies do NOT follow trends. We are allergic to that.

Go back to school, dunce, and come back when you have something to say that you did not make up from a dream.

I know some Latvians at my church, the Pugasevich's. The daughter of that family I had a crush on once. She is as tall as me, about 6 foot. Unfortunately, I didn't know she was only 15, the height was confusing. The crush only lasted two months and I didn't let her know, though my girlfriend knew about it at that time (which was before she became my girlfriend of course, not while).

I'm 6'6". I'd love to meet an attractive woman around 6' that shared similar interests. Yeah, like that will ever happen . . .

Dude, you're welcome to disagree with any or all of us, but that ad hominem attack was out of line.

No.

You've just made a typical aspie faux pas. You read my line, saw the word "here", assumed it referred to the people in this forum, assumed it referred to you specifically, you took it personally, got angry, and lashed out.

I used to do that as well, before I was (self) diagnosed. Now I know better.

It is pretty obvious from the context that "here" referred to the United States of America. Almost no one here reads unless they've been told by Oprah or somesuch to read some trendy book. And even then half the readers would opt for an audio "book" or cliffs notes.... anything to avoid putting in any extra effort such as turning the pages.