22 Oct 2009, 8:34 pm
Dealbreakers for me,
lying, cheating, bad hygiene, drug use, extreme heavy drinking, being a rascist, lack of compassion and humor. I don't think these should be much to ask for.
I've been involved with an overly aggressive guy, and one who was so passive that I wondered if he did in fact have a spine.
Someone in the middle would be nice for a change. Yes, a nice guy!!
I was referring to the manipulation.
Shastania
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23 Oct 2009, 9:12 am
Good topic of discussion. 
For me, my deal breakers would be:
-Smoking
-Drug taking/dealing
-Binge drinking
-Manipulative
-Selfish in bed
-Overbearing family/friends
-Still lives with said overbearing family
-No ambitions or drive to self-fufillment
-Doesn't like dogs or cats
-Insulting
-Lazy
-Lack of intellectual thought (I want to be able to have a smart conversation with someone)
-Misogynistic
-Sexist
-Racist
-Unemployed
-No sense of humor
-No sense of adventure
-Arrogance
-Mean to his mother
-Doesn't want children
-Doesn't want to get married
-Bad with children
-Constantly talks about ex-girlfriends/is in regular contact with exes
-Doesn't want to talk through problems
-Immature
-Jesus freak
-Homophobic
-Football thug
-Chaviness
I'm sure there's more but that's all I can think of for now.
23 Oct 2009, 9:24 am
For me, my deal breakers would be:
-Smoking
-Drug taking/dealing
-Binge drinking
-Manipulative
-Selfish in bed
-Overbearing family/friends
-Still lives with said overbearing family
-No ambitions or drive to self-fufillment
-Doesn't like dogs or cats
-Insulting
-Lazy
-Lack of intellectual thought (I want to be able to have a smart conversation with someone)
-Misogynistic
-Sexist
-Racist
-Unemployed
-No sense of humor
-No sense of adventure
-Arrogance
-Mean to his mother
-Doesn't want children
-Doesn't want to get married
-Bad with children
-Constantly talks about ex-girlfriends/is in regular contact with exes
-Doesn't want to talk through problems
-Immature
-Jesus freak
-Homophobic
-Football thug
-Chaviness
I'm sure there's more but that's all I can think of for now.
I would probably be a good match, then.
Too bad you're on the other side of the Atlantic.
23 Oct 2009, 9:37 am
For me, my deal breakers would be:
--Chaviness
I'm sure there's more but that's all I can think of for now.
What does "chaviness" mean???? I've never heard that word before.
23 Oct 2009, 10:02 am
For me, my deal breakers would be:
--Chaviness
I'm sure there's more but that's all I can think of for now.
What does "chaviness" mean???? I've never heard that word before.
It's a British term - link
From my time in the UK I was left with the impression it's used in a similar way as the American "white thrash" with the respective cultural specifics.
23 Oct 2009, 10:04 am
23 Oct 2009, 10:43 am
23 Oct 2009, 10:59 am
"The chav" seems to be strictly city-based. Might actually be more like a ghetto stereotype? My friends seemed to use the word for young poor ignorant uneducated punks that have a specific dress code and like to hang around in groups, binge drink, attack or verbally abuse passers, vandalise cars or property and generally making a nuisance out of themselves. They are portrayed as violent, hateful and intolerant. The term has very negative connotations. I've never heard it used outside the city.
I'm neither British or American so I've probably just stepped on everybody's toes - sorry, I'm just a clueless foreigner!
Now I'll just wait for a Brit to tell me how bad I've messed this up
23 Oct 2009, 12:05 pm
hmm, I suppose it would have to be someone whom does not have a sense of honor or should I rather say someone whom does not regard honesty and faithfulness as being quite realistic..
23 Oct 2009, 12:58 pm
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