Qualities you DON'T want in a guy/girl?

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14 Jul 2010, 6:30 pm

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For all the men in here that would take a germ freak over a clean freak made me feel so much better about myself. 8) My family often tell me they can't understand how someone with my germ issues can vacuum and dust so infrequently, heck it's my dust! :D I think my allowing my dust to stick around a bit is some subconscious way of paying my OCD back...

The biggest for me:
- Ego
- Lack of respect
- Lazy
- Smokers (chemical sensitive, people who use those 'bursts of fragrance throughout the day' laundry crap kill me too)
- Jokes in poor taste about animals and or hunts them. Huge turn-off.
- Someone who doesn't notice details


does it matter if occaisonal cigars are smoked?


The smell of cigars actually reminds me of the holidays of my youth. Smoking cigars out with the boys wouldn't bother me so much, so long as the person was driven home riding in the flatbed of a truck, to air out. :D



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15 Jul 2010, 7:21 pm

I do not want a girl if she happens to do the following:

-Smoke.
-Do illegal drugs.
-Have children from a past relationship.
-Is intolerant of my Asperger's or any shortcomings brought on by my Asperger's (IMO any girl put off by an inability to drive or find/keep a job must be pretty shallow. I do happen to have an income, albeit from monthly disability benefits)
-Is intolerant of my hobbies (i.e. hates video games and the music I like).
-has a rude, shallow or stuck-up personality
*Also I prefer if a girl didn't have breast implants. I believe that a girl with a natural 30AA cup can be more attractive than one with an artificially-enhanced 44DD rack...

Tim (aka the Slipperman)



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15 Jul 2010, 8:23 pm

Wrackspurt wrote:
bewarethebob wrote:
Wrackspurt wrote:
For all the men in here that would take a germ freak over a clean freak made me feel so much better about myself. 8) My family often tell me they can't understand how someone with my germ issues can vacuum and dust so infrequently, heck it's my dust! :D I think my allowing my dust to stick around a bit is some subconscious way of paying my OCD back...

The biggest for me:
- Ego
- Lack of respect
- Lazy
- Smokers (chemical sensitive, people who use those 'bursts of fragrance throughout the day' laundry crap kill me too)
- Jokes in poor taste about animals and or hunts them. Huge turn-off.
- Someone who doesn't notice details


does it matter if occaisonal cigars are smoked?


The smell of cigars actually reminds me of the holidays of my youth. Smoking cigars out with the boys wouldn't bother me so much, so long as the person was driven home riding in the flatbed of a truck, to air out. :D



HAHAHAH! Well, for me cigars sorta smell the same. But more so reminds me of my father, who always had a faint smell of it on his clothes.
seems reasonable enough to not come round smelling like that if you ask for it not to hahaha



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20 Jul 2010, 7:15 am

I'll add another to my list: bizarre piercing. I don't want my girlfriend having a huge nose ring that makes her look like a bull. End of story.



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26 Jul 2010, 5:22 pm

-Pizza face
-Overly skinny, i like some meat on my guys bones
-emo kid
-hates animals
-religious
-someone who fakes and pretends to like my intrest
-hits on other girls
-cheater
-liar
-Sexist
-pervert
-Ghetto/gangsta



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26 Jul 2010, 6:54 pm

no fatties



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26 Jul 2010, 7:01 pm

Dishonesty
Double Standards/Blindness to their own Hypocrisy
Fake-Feminism
Bi-Sexual
Constantly needing approval on everything.


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26 Jul 2010, 9:01 pm

These may make me sound like a chauvinist, but I am traditional when it comes to girls, so try not to get too offended:

I would not date a practicing Catholic, except maybe if they're Hispanic or Italian. I'm a neutral agnostic, with Czech Hussite roots, so you can imagine why I'm not a fan. But I also have strong beliefs that go against the Vatican. Other than that, I would pretty much date any a girl of any religion, as long as they aren't overly religious or overly atheist.
Wears black makeup or is into anything dark like emo/goth/whatever...I prefer a clean, all natural look like I myself maintain.
Is an obsessive fangirl.
Weighs more than me, I'm skinny myself and can't go for a fat girl.
Smokes anything or drinks heavily. Pills are OK though.
Does not maintain proper hygiene
Absolutely no piercings or tattoos, only pretty earrings and nothing else...again, clean and natural look is the only kind I am attracted to.

As I grow older I would not date a woman who...
makes more $ than me. I would rather date a poor immigrant (preferably from Eastern Europe :) ) than a career woman, partially because of my traditional beliefs and because I want to buy her things and treat her well, and usually poor women appreciate that better and deserve it more.
Wants to have kids with me...I don't want to have kids. Kids from a previous relationship are OK because they aren't mine and aren't dependent on me. I am too self centered and will never have kids, but I'm glad I have come to that realization.
Does not want to travel and isn't cultured
Has had plastic surgery or breast implants. Sure, in a Victoria's Secret ad you have to be busty but I agree with the post by Slipperman. Again, I will only date women who treat their body like a temple.

Other than that, I'm pretty much open to anything. I know I may sound picky but the girls I know and like being around meet those standards.



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26 Jul 2010, 9:12 pm

I want to be the ONLY one in the relationship to have the penis :D

Must be alive, and old enough to fit in my ever slightly variable terms and conditions.... 18-21 MINIMUM 8)



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27 Jul 2010, 10:19 am

Moog wrote:
-enormous feet.

-beard

-pointy lungs.

-secretly is an android

-lives in hades half the year

-has no physical body

Maybe a girl could get away with one of these if she was totally banging in other ways.


:lol:

But if she's "secretly" an android, how would you know?



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27 Jul 2010, 11:25 am

-Equality lover

-Wants me to pay everything

_Nags me


-Demands I leave the seat down


-Bossy

-Intimidated by real men (like me)


-Fat


-Uses sex to get what she wants


-Daddy issues


-Smacks me when I look at other women


-Doesn't love my farts (therefore not me)






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27 Jul 2010, 1:15 pm

- Clingy-ness. I need my personal space sometimes. Even if I am madly in love. Its the biggest thing, the rest can be debated..

- Obsessed with keeping order in thing. I am a messy person and I will always be.
- Too overweight. I can deal with a few extra kilo's but, 30 kilos too much? No thank you. Its not cause I want to be rude, its just not attractive for me.
- Doesn't appreciate me for who I am.
- Liars. I want the truth.
- Smokes. I'm allergic to smoke.
- Does any type of drug.
- Gets violent whilst drunk and drinks alot despite it.
- Is afraid of deciding. I want a man with some good thoughts on what he wants to do. But he shouldnt be too stubborn either.



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27 Jul 2010, 8:12 pm

xxZeromancerlovexx wrote:
-Pizza face
-Overly skinny, i like some meat on my guys bones
-emo kid
-hates animals
-religious
-someone who fakes and pretends to like my intrest
-hits on other girls
-cheater
-liar
-Sexist
-pervert
-Ghetto/gangsta

I'll add anthoner thing: Sex fiend. I'm quite uncomortable when it comes to sex. Just the thought of it makes me cringe.



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27 Jul 2010, 10:52 pm

My anti-soulmate:
conservative
theist
misogynist
rabid meat-eater
sex-crazed
shallow
druggie
alcoholic

I'm the exact opposite of these things, so my mate should be, too!



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28 Jul 2010, 11:45 am

Hits on other guys {1 or 2 other guys is OK with me}

Overtly conservative

Smokes

Drinks alcohol

Bossy

Overtly vegetarian/vegan/is rabid meat-eater


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28 Jul 2010, 12:39 pm

Smokes
Lies
Too hypocritical
Alcoholic (they can drink but if your coming home drunk your locked out)
Drugs
Hardcore religious
Anti sports


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