The angry virgin thread

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Such as? ^

Well there's being nice in a passive, doormatty, flippy floppy way, letting a woman behave exactly how she wants whenever she likes. But that's not very fair to her or you. And then there's being respectful of her and her needs and her desires, whilst respecting your own.

There's also paying lip service to being 'nice', rather than actually being 'nice'. Being 'nice' (I really dislike this word) means being respectful to yourself and her equally and whole heartedly.

Without observing how you really behave with people, it's difficult to establish what you could be doing 'wrong' or differently. I think the main thing is to experiment. If your current approach isn't working, try some new moves.

I do not believe it's true that being loving and caring and respectful is wrong. That goes for family, friendships, love, dating, or work relationships. I think the problem is that many people don't know what those things really mean. You need to establish how to be nice and caring in a way that gets what you want, and also gives the other party what they want.

I have found that developing a baseline level of kindness to all is a good basis for developing strong relationships all round.

Yep, this sounds like me. I tend to show affection by just agreeing with everything a woman says, being nice, paying compliments, doing favours, etc. I tend to put myself last.

So you're saying you can be nice without being a pushover? I need to work on this.

Exactly! You know, I wish I'd just wrote that instead of doing all that typing now.

Well, as long as it helped.

But you can still be complimentary and do her favours. Nothing wrong with that, as long as it's not taken to excess. It's mainly the first one. You have to butt heads with her, to an extent. Women tend to like men who have their own minds and can put across what they think in a strong minded, honest, and respectful way.

Thanks, you seem like a sweetheart yourself. I don't plan on giving it away to whomever asks me to. If I did, I would have lost my virginity loooooooooong ago.

Yes. Moog gave one example of a wrong way. I'll give another example:

A wrong way to be "nice and caring" is to use it as a form of currency that buys affection. I've seen this IRL and on this board. A man will be "nice and caring" to a woman in order to "buy" her affection. When this does not work, he gets mad at her (and at women in general) because she doesn't give him the product he thinks he has purchased with his "niceness". A genuinely nice person will be nice because that's the right way to treat people (all people, not just women you are attracted to), not because it because it buys something.

I just said "less likely." It makes sense in that if you're not bedding every little skank that comes your way, you're more likely to catch something. You can catch something from the one you love but less likely if both people aren't whores.

lol. So true KaiG.

I find it ridiculous that i,23 years old that handsome never had sex,even though many girls were positive to me,like watching me or being friendly in a more sexual way(i am not sure if many know that i am different though).

I am way too handsome never tool had a relationship,i got many girls staring at me while i was not knowing,then i saw that they were looking at me.

old thread is old.

It is kind of funny to read my own old posts though.

Yes, I understand where you're coming from with this. What would be worse, being a virgin or being such a loser that you had to pay a prostitute to lose your virginity? Especially as there are lots of women that like virgins…

Good for angry people:

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hahahhaha I needed a good laugh.

Let's see:

Bang a hot 20 year old who needs some cash for new purse?

or

Have awkward drunk pity sex with a fat girl you've built a "friendship" with over 2.5 years?

or

Bang a 39 year old who settling for you because the hot guys dont want her anymore?

BIGGEST LIE EVER.