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23 Oct 2010, 4:44 am

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I don't wish to "date" anyone, but I guess I'd want to date an Aspie if I ever felt the want to date someone.


Grab 'em while they're young. An older male Aspie who has been permanently single or has had a few relationships that didn't end well is likely to be an incorrigible prick you'd regret dating.


So, for example, I wouldn't be worth dating because I'm likely to be an "incorrigible prick". How wonderful.


No, actually judging by your post, you are likely to have low self esteem :)



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23 Oct 2010, 4:51 am

Wow euphoria_revisited , you have just discovered the gunpowder.



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23 Oct 2010, 5:15 am

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I don't wish to "date" anyone, but I guess I'd want to date an Aspie if I ever felt the want to date someone.


Grab 'em while they're young. An older male Aspie who has been permanently single or has had a few relationships that didn't end well is likely to be an incorrigible prick you'd regret dating.


So, for example, I wouldn't be worth dating because I'm likely to be an "incorrigible prick". How wonderful.


Let yourself be the judge of that. Don't let people like that get under your skin - especially, since MenInTights probably didn't even have you in mind when she posted that (I highly doubt she even meant that to be offensive).


MenInTights's statement was clear enough, according to her warning, Jono is included in the group that women should avoid dating.

Typical. They penalise us for having been rejected in the past, then wonder why you get George Sodini-type scenarios. But of course, they can get away with such blatantly-expressed prejudices, but if we say anything like that we'll be branded "sexist," and whatever other shaming terms!

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I dare say the only thing less attractive would be a proclivity for domestic violence.

Where I live, a proclivity for domestic violence is a huge turn-on for them!


Aww shut up. You sound as bitter as, well you just sound bitter. What's with all the "they" vs "we" talk. Are you in this little secret club of jaded guys who can't accept the fact you are incapable and inept at seeing and knowing what females truly want/need. Yet you shift blame over to them for your own shortcomings and self sabataging behaviors? Own up to things and try to be a better person inside. No not for someone else, but for yourself. If you aren't happy with you, how is anyone else going to be?



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23 Oct 2010, 5:26 am

hale_bopp wrote:
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I don't wish to "date" anyone, but I guess I'd want to date an Aspie if I ever felt the want to date someone.


Grab 'em while they're young. An older male Aspie who has been permanently single or has had a few relationships that didn't end well is likely to be an incorrigible prick you'd regret dating.


So, for example, I wouldn't be worth dating because I'm likely to be an "incorrigible prick". How wonderful.


Let yourself be the judge of that. Don't let people like that get under your skin - especially, since MenInTights probably didn't even have you in mind when she posted that (I highly doubt she even meant that to be offensive).


MenInTights's statement was clear enough, according to her warning, Jono is included in the group that women should avoid dating.

Typical. They penalise us for having been rejected in the past


I have a lot of respect for guys or people who can get rejected loads of times and still retain a healthy attitude towards the opposite sex. A lot of respect.
I think you will find guys like you get "penalised" because of your sh*t attitude towards women. No woman wants to date a sexist woman hater, end of story. Even if you portray being a "nice guy" when all you're thinking is sexist hate, people can see through the "nice guy" act and thats the only reason "nice guys" finish last.


I don't see him being a "nice guy". Just simply a jaded and failed as*hole. But he can change, if he works on self esteem, respecting himself.. Projecting that respect and newfound self confidence onto others. And then actually listening and responding to what females want. If that is at all possible in his case. There's too much of an "us vs them" attitude where he is going to get nowhere with fast. I guess I wasn't as eloquent in my response as you. I don't think sexist hate is somehting anyone would be able to cover up or hide, but he can try :)



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23 Oct 2010, 5:32 am

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No woman wants to date a sexist woman hater, end of story.

You're wrong. You see them get together with sexist, misogyinst pigs all the time. Recently someone moved into the share house where I live, and you'd constantly hear him verbally abusing his girlfriend, talking to her worse than you'd talk to a dog. (Thankfully he moved back out a week or two ago.) Was he forced to stay single? You bet he wasn't. So the "Misogyny's what's driving them away" line is a furphy.


Ok, i'll elaborate further. Sorry to say, but some people might put up with alpha pigs, but noone is going to put up with a sexist pig on the bottom of the social ladder. Thats the worst guy you can get in many womans eyes. (I'm not talking about myself, im talking about many women)


Alpha pig? Lol more like alpha tool. Sexist tools, they are all one and the same. Just because one puts on a better facade and hides himself just a little better doesn't make him any more successful in the long run. I think what some of these guys fail to realize is you really can't hide your true colors for too long. You have to be more honest and sincere with yourself, and therefore will make you that way with others as well.



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23 Oct 2010, 5:34 am

euphoria_revisited, quit quadruple posting, I'm sure there's a rule against that somewhere. The edit button exists for a reason.



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23 Oct 2010, 5:38 am

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euphoria_revisited, quit quadruple posting, I'm sure there's a rule against that somewhere. The edit button exists for a reason.


I'm sure there's a rule against being an idiot as well. So please don't break it :) Sorry you left yourself wide open... Anyway, who's quadruple positng, I'm no computer genius like said idiot (you) but I have editted every post of mine to look all neat, shiny, and proper so they can be critiqued by you oh omnipotent forum watcher :)



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23 Oct 2010, 5:39 am

euphoria_revisited wrote:
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euphoria_revisited, quit quadruple posting, I'm sure there's a rule against that somewhere. The edit button exists for a reason.


I'm sure there's a rule against being an idiot as well. So please don't break it :) Sorry you left yourself wide open... Anyway, who's quadruple positng, I'm no computer genius like said idiot (you) but I have editted every post of mine to look all neat, shiny, and proper so they can be critique by you oh wise forum watcher :)


I refuse to bring myself down to your level by dignifying this trolling with a response.



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23 Oct 2010, 5:41 am

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Sorry to say, but some people might put up with alpha pigs, but noone is going to put up with a sexist pig on the bottom of the social ladder. Thats the worst guy you can get in many womans eyes. (I'm not talking about myself, im talking about many women)

So it's OK for alpha males to be sexist, but not other males, eh?


OK? No. It's not ok. But their alpha-ness is a sufficiently huge positive that it offsets the huge negative of being a sexist pig in the minds of some women (not any women on WP-that's pretty clear). Any giant negative needs to be offset with a giant positive. Putting two giant negatives together leads to no interest from women.


This.

Be sexist if you want, but don't expect to get anyone. I'm just telling you the facts. Alpha is a positive trait, Sexism Negative. For a lot of women that positive overpowers the negative.

Some butthurt guy with aspergers?

Two negatives.

You may want to stop challenging me and accept I'm trying to show you how a lot of women think. I am not saying this on behalf of my own beliefs.

Both guys sound like twats to me in said example. :lol:


I think they should challenge you some more actually. I'm quite enjoying their male stupidity :p



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23 Oct 2010, 5:55 am

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What makes you think elsewhere is any different from where you live? Unless you mean people of extremely different cultures, any white western english speaking country is the same in terms of culture.

Yes and no. You'll find massive differences if you venture to London, the American South, or Cape Town's Southern Suburbs.


Why don't you move there then?


Actually I wish he'd move somewhere where he can't post on this forum anymore :))))))



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23 Oct 2010, 6:00 am

Gonna make me?



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23 Oct 2010, 6:03 am

I've reported euphoria_revisited to the mods, BTW, BPalmer. If you go to the moderator attention thread and just say he/she/it has been insulting you too, you'll increase the chance that something will be done about he/she/it's trolling of the forum :)



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23 Oct 2010, 7:13 am

Why do the sexist remarks get more attention than positive, good advice?


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23 Oct 2010, 7:23 am

euphoria_revisited wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
BPalmer wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Ambrose_Rotten wrote:
Jono wrote:
menintights wrote:
jmnixon95 wrote:
I don't wish to "date" anyone, but I guess I'd want to date an Aspie if I ever felt the want to date someone.


Grab 'em while they're young. An older male Aspie who has been permanently single or has had a few relationships that didn't end well is likely to be an incorrigible prick you'd regret dating.


So, for example, I wouldn't be worth dating because I'm likely to be an "incorrigible prick". How wonderful.


Let yourself be the judge of that. Don't let people like that get under your skin - especially, since MenInTights probably didn't even have you in mind when she posted that (I highly doubt she even meant that to be offensive).


MenInTights's statement was clear enough, according to her warning, Jono is included in the group that women should avoid dating.

Typical. They penalise us for having been rejected in the past


I have a lot of respect for guys or people who can get rejected loads of times and still retain a healthy attitude towards the opposite sex. A lot of respect.
I think you will find guys like you get "penalised" because of your sh*t attitude towards women. No woman wants to date a sexist woman hater, end of story. Even if you portray being a "nice guy" when all you're thinking is sexist hate, people can see through the "nice guy" act and thats the only reason "nice guys" finish last.


I don't see him being a "nice guy". Just simply a jaded and failed as*hole. But he can change, if he works on self esteem, respecting himself.. Projecting that respect and newfound self confidence onto others. And then actually listening and responding to what females want. If that is at all possible in his case. There's too much of an "us vs them" attitude where he is going to get nowhere with fast. I guess I wasn't as eloquent in my response as you. I don't think sexist hate is somehting anyone would be able to cover up or hide, but he can try :)


I said Nice guy in inverted commas. Basically a "nice guy" is a jaded and failed a***hole. Jaded and failed a***holes finish last. Not truly nice men.



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Grab 'em while they're young. An older male Aspie who has been permanently single or has had a few relationships that didn't end well is likely to be an incorrigible prick you'd regret dating.


OK, I know this post was two years ago but I just happened to find it in a Google search.

I find it highly offensive.

I've upped this post after 2 years simply to make an example of it; seeing this post actually made me physically twitch - I just couldn't go past this post without saying something.