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14 Nov 2010, 1:02 am

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You're way too nice for this forum.

weren't we all, when we first came here? well, i wasn't that nice, but i was definitely more patient with certain nastiness. now i am way harsher and jump on crap right away.


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14 Nov 2010, 6:12 am

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menintights wrote:
You're way too nice for this forum.

weren't we all, when we first came here? well, i wasn't that nice, but i was definitely more patient with certain nastiness. now i am way harsher and jump on crap right away.


Alas, that is what the internet does to you if you don't get away quickly enough. :roll:



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14 Nov 2010, 6:49 am

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Aw MR20 that's really sad!! !! !

I hope things work out for you, I really do. We all have our problems, it just seems like you've got a little more to deal with than most. You can pull through this, it's gonna be okay. Don't give up on life! I know that's the most cheeseball thing in the world but just hang in there. :) I'll pray for you!!

Also from your posts it seems like your conversational skills aren't as bad as you make them sound. Join a club or a group, get some practice on people!! ! That's what I do. :) There's a niche for everyone, you just have to do some searching.

Best of luck!! !!


Indeed, I hope you'll find a girlfriend that has not took a bath for 4 months and that you'll both change your mind then.

Don't try to be yourself at all cost, because you're partially wrong.


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14 Nov 2010, 7:00 am

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Don't try to be yourself at all cost, because you're partially wrong.


:lol: That made me laugh. I want that on a T-shirt.


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14 Nov 2010, 9:29 am

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Don't try to be yourself at all cost, because you're partially wrong.


:lol: That made me laugh. I want that on a T-shirt.


:duh: LOL WTF?!

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14 Nov 2010, 10:08 am

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Moog wrote:
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Don't try to be yourself at all cost, because you're partially wrong.


:lol: That made me laugh. I want that on a T-shirt.


:duh: LOL WTF?!

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DAY: 13140
LOCATION: Still on board, left part of SuperAspie head.
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MEMO: The annoying neighboring hemisphere succeeded again to pass some sensitive material that might compromise the credibility, therefore the safety and consequentially the success of the whole operation "SuperApsie" cover-up.
Substances abuse detection by standard body motions procedure has been reported negative on all counts, I strongly suggest a full checkup of the integrity of the language sub-section and some exhaustive tests on iteration and recursivity in the logic sub-section.
Message forwarded to anybody who thinks is in control in this damn moving thing

that is freaking hilarious!! !! +1000000000!! !!!11!! !! !! !!


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14 Nov 2010, 10:12 am

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hyperlexian wrote:
menintights wrote:
You're way too nice for this forum.

weren't we all, when we first came here? well, i wasn't that nice, but i was definitely more patient with certain nastiness. now i am way harsher and jump on crap right away.


Alas, that is what the internet does to you if you don't get away quickly enough. :roll:

gawd i think you are right. this is my first real forum experience. i had been a member at other sites that happened to have forums (i.e. Etsy), but i would just read answers to professional questions there. on WP it's teh real interwebz, isn't it? with trolls and sock puppets and general nastiness. there's a whole lot of good amazing stuff too, which is why i stay. but i've already cut my WP time in half and i think i will continue trending in that direction.


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14 Nov 2010, 11:29 am

lkathryn wrote:
Aw MR20 that's really sad!! !! !

I hope things work out for you, I really do. We all have our problems, it just seems like you've got a little more to deal with than most. You can pull through this, it's gonna be okay. Don't give up on life! I know that's the most cheeseball thing in the world but just hang in there. :) I'll pray for you!!

Also from your posts it seems like your conversational skills aren't as bad as you make them sound. Join a club or a group, get some practice on people!! ! That's what I do. :) There's a niche for everyone, you just have to do some searching.

Best of luck!! !!


:roll: psst Optimists..



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14 Nov 2010, 3:14 pm

MR20 wrote:
lkathryn wrote:
Aw MR20 that's really sad!! !! !

I hope things work out for you, I really do. We all have our problems, it just seems like you've got a little more to deal with than most. You can pull through this, it's gonna be okay. Don't give up on life! I know that's the most cheeseball thing in the world but just hang in there. :) I'll pray for you!!

Also from your posts it seems like your conversational skills aren't as bad as you make them sound. Join a club or a group, get some practice on people!! ! That's what I do. :) There's a niche for everyone, you just have to do some searching.

Best of luck!! !!


:roll: psst Optimists..

You need professional help.



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14 Nov 2010, 3:32 pm

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lkathryn wrote:
Aw MR20 that's really sad!! !! !

I hope things work out for you, I really do. We all have our problems, it just seems like you've got a little more to deal with than most. You can pull through this, it's gonna be okay. Don't give up on life! I know that's the most cheeseball thing in the world but just hang in there. :) I'll pray for you!!

Also from your posts it seems like your conversational skills aren't as bad as you make them sound. Join a club or a group, get some practice on people!! ! That's what I do. :) There's a niche for everyone, you just have to do some searching.

Best of luck!! !!


:roll: psst Optimists..

You need professional help.


In order to get the "help" (which I don't believe I need) you people claim I have to have, I need money.... Which I don't have. I'm poor, remember? And it's not like they'll listen to me and my nonsensical rants and problem. They'd probably just prescribe me medicine for some stupid s**t they think I might have.



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14 Nov 2010, 3:50 pm

MR20 wrote:
nthach wrote:
MR20 wrote:
lkathryn wrote:
Aw MR20 that's really sad!! !! !

I hope things work out for you, I really do. We all have our problems, it just seems like you've got a little more to deal with than most. You can pull through this, it's gonna be okay. Don't give up on life! I know that's the most cheeseball thing in the world but just hang in there. :) I'll pray for you!!

Also from your posts it seems like your conversational skills aren't as bad as you make them sound. Join a club or a group, get some practice on people!! ! That's what I do. :) There's a niche for everyone, you just have to do some searching.

Best of luck!! !!


:roll: psst Optimists..

You need professional help.


In order to get the "help" (which I don't believe I need) you people claim I have to have, I need money.... Which I don't have. I'm poor, remember? And it's not like they'll listen to me and my nonsensical rants and problem. They'd probably just prescribe me medicine for some stupid sh** they think I might have.

Then take matters into your own hands. Clean up, shower up. Power off the Xbox. Cancel your WoW membership(or better yet just put all your anime or video came crap under the wheels of a bus or a Hummer H2). Dress socially "acceptable". Learn how to like yourself first. Then work on the basics.

For you, if gently prodding you won't work, I guess what me and hale_bopp suggested will be one of the only ways to get the point across that you're a self-loathing individual that is marinating in self-pity.

Man, if you lived near me, I'll come over to your house like a drill sergeant and cajole you to change. Even if I have to make a bonfire of your anime mags and take a hammer to your game consoles.



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14 Nov 2010, 3:59 pm

hey anime isn't always a cause for alienation...it usually is but not always! lol



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14 Nov 2010, 4:06 pm

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Cancel your WoW membership


FFS I don't have a wow membership, I thought I told you that earlier in the thread

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(or better yet just put all your anime or video came crap under the wheels of a bus or a Hummer H2).


NO! I will not get rid of the things that brings me fun and happiness just because the idiots out there in the world and society think it's "not cool"

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Dress socially "acceptable"


No. I don't want to spend money on expensive, tacky (imo) clothes just to impress people. I dress how I want to dress and people should accept me regardless of how I look.



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14 Nov 2010, 4:16 pm

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NO! I will not get rid of the things that brings me fun and happiness just because the idiots out there in the world and society think it's "not cool"

Then you're truly hopeless IMO. The things you enjoy are the things that are isolating you.



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14 Nov 2010, 4:16 pm

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In order to get the "help" (which I don't believe I need) you people claim I have to have, I need money.... Which I don't have. I'm poor, remember? And it's not like they'll listen to me and my nonsensical rants and problem. They'd probably just prescribe me medicine for some stupid sh** they think I might have.

have you tried to get counselling, either free or at low cost? there are free support lines and some psychological services i can get where i live, but i don't know about your area. also, some professionals only require payment on a sliding scale, so if your income is low, then lower payment is required. you don't have to see a psychiatrist who may prescribe meds - there are lots of other mental health professionals that don't even have the license to prescribe any.


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14 Nov 2010, 4:17 pm

MR20 wrote:
nthach wrote:
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lkathryn wrote:
Aw MR20 that's really sad!! !! !

I hope things work out for you, I really do. We all have our problems, it just seems like you've got a little more to deal with than most. You can pull through this, it's gonna be okay. Don't give up on life! I know that's the most cheeseball thing in the world but just hang in there. :) I'll pray for you!!

Also from your posts it seems like your conversational skills aren't as bad as you make them sound. Join a club or a group, get some practice on people!! ! That's what I do. :) There's a niche for everyone, you just have to do some searching.

Best of luck!! !!


:roll: psst Optimists..

You need professional help.


In order to get the "help" (which I don't believe I need) you people claim I have to have, I need money.... Which I don't have. I'm poor, remember? And it's not like they'll listen to me and my nonsensical rants and problem. They'd probably just prescribe me medicine for some stupid sh** they think I might have.


If you can't get help without money, your country is seriously f****d up. Emigrate ASAP and move to a civilized part of the world. Seriously.