Why does everyone hate me? Why am I unable to find someone?

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16 Feb 2011, 3:08 pm

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Too funny! :)

I don't like feeding trolls but (and this is for the OP)...
The reason everyone hates you is that you are a troll.
The reason you can't find someone...well trolls shouldn't breed.
Keep taking your placebos, it might cure your troll traits.


I am sorry you feel the need to be horrible to me.


I agree. That was uncalled for.


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16 Feb 2011, 4:01 pm

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When I was 7 years old I had an IQ of 140 on the Wechsler Scale, I come from a very good background, I have perfect manners, I don't wear brown in town, I stand up when women come or leave the table etc... Yet all the girls I have come across thought I was an arrogant matcho. What have I done to deserve this? Sure I set a line between me and those of lesser intelligence or manners, sure I think that I am better than them but that is because I am. And there is no way I can change that because I behave the way I was born. As long as I am courteous and treat these girls properly, why would they be angry at me for treating a stranger poorly? A man runs into me in the middle of the street, why am I not allowed to call him what he is, a worthless scumbag and throw him against a wall for daring to bump into ME? These people are inferior, have no manners and descend from nameless peasants for the most part, why should they have a right to be rude to me, when I am so much more superior to them?

I know this will sound arrogant to some people but I can not change the way I think and I am only saying what is true; that I am superior to 99% of the world population. I always treat women with the greatest respect but yet they hate me because I despise those who are inferior to me. What am I doing wrong? My first and only almost girlfriend told me I was a psychopath. Am I a psychopath for being different and superior?


A lot of people here are accusing you of being a troll. Maybe you are, maybe you are just a bit misguided. In any case I don't think you deserve to be treated poorly.
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I stand up when women come or leave the table etc..

That is polite, I guess, but we aren't living in Victorian-era Britain, so I don't know if any women will appreciate the gesture. Some women really dislike that kind of courtesy as well. Not even kidding, I have been given a sour look for holding the door open for a young woman. I wasn't trying to 'positively discriminate' by helping her or thinking she is 'delicate', I just tend to hold the door open for the next person behind me..
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Sure I set a line between me and those of lesser intelligence or manners, sure I think that I am better than them but that is because I am

This kind of pompous attitude is not appealing to most women. I don't mean to insult you here, but nobody likes someone who looks down their noses at people. I also have a high IQ and I also get frustrated with people of low intellect but I make an effort to either treat them nicely or not deal with them at all. It is much simpler to do the latter then to hate, isn't it?
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And there is no way I can change that because I behave the way I was born. As long as I am courteous and treat these girls properly, why would they be angry at me for treating a stranger poorly?

Nobody is born the same way they are 15 years later or whatever, you grow as a person, and if you don't, you get stuck.. Do you only judge people on how they treat you, or on how they also treat others? Because most women, or people in general, think this is important. Ted Bundy was a serial killer noted for his charisma. But he was also a serial killer. Many couldn't understand how someone who seemed so charming and intelligent was also so brutally psychotic. Would you be willing to look past that and hang out with him? Perhaps an extreme example but I think it illustrates my point.
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A man runs into me in the middle of the street, why am I not allowed to call him what he is, a worthless scumbag and throw him against a wall for daring to bump into ME? These people are inferior, have no manners and descend from nameless peasants for the most part, why should they have a right to be rude to me, when I am so much more superior to them?

Because it was likely an accident and by doing so you look like a pathetic fool. Also you might one day shove the wrong person and end up with a knife in your guts. For your own sake don't assault strangers. I don't know what your physical prowess is but there is always somebody out there bigger and meaner then you. Additionally its illegal to assault people and you could get arrested and charged for those actions. Do you want a criminal record? It stands in the way of getting a good job in many cases...
I suppose your family must be descended from aristocracy if you see everyone as peasants. All I can say is get with the times. The only aristocrats we have now are sitting on the top stories of high rise office buildings, and in general they don't act like 19th century aristocrats.
You're not a psychopath but perhaps you have antisocial personality disorder or narcissistic personality disorder. There are ways you can manage it. Or maybe you have lived a difficult life at the hands of others. I don't know. But you can always change for the better.
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I was bullied a lot and so I promised to myself that from now on I would be the one who would humiliate and crush people

That is definitely not the right road to go down. People can only make you feel worthless with your consent. There is no reason to spread the pain
Good luck man


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17 Feb 2011, 6:17 pm

Dude, my trolling totally $hits on your trolling. Admit it, amateur.


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17 Feb 2011, 6:59 pm

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Am I a psychopath for being different and superior?

A "grandiose sense of self-worth" is only one sign of psychopathy; you'd need many more to fit the diagnostic profile, including lying, manipulation, lack of empathy, poor impulse control (especially anger control), a superficially pleasant interpersonal style to cover an acquisitive nature, etc. Arrogance and an insistence on your ideas of politeness may come closer to the personality disorders of narcissism (which also requires a need for others' admiration or attention) and the obsessive-compulsive type (emphasizing a very high degree of the personality trait of conscientiousness). Psychopaths are more typically careless and uncouth, being very low on the personality trait of conscientiousness.



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17 Feb 2011, 7:03 pm

I wonder if this person is trolling :roll:



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17 Feb 2011, 7:20 pm

I think whining babies crying "troll" is more annoying than an actual troll. If this person is trolling, its actually very funny. If they're not, then you're the ones in the wrong.


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17 Feb 2011, 7:23 pm

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I think whining babies crying "troll" is more annoying than an actual troll. If this person is trolling, its actually very funny. If they're not, then you're the ones in the wrong.


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17 Feb 2011, 7:38 pm

haha


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17 Feb 2011, 8:01 pm

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I want to change but it is hard, my education, added to my status and my pride makes things bad. When I was little I was bullied a lot and so I promised to myself that from now on I would be the one who would humiliate and crush people. But I am a worse person now...


hey i have a great education even though i go to a public school most people assume i go to a private its because most of what i know is self taught and im very prideful but that dont make me arrogant and i have terrible Inferiority Complex because i used to be bullied a lot as a kid so i feel that even though my i do have a Superior Intelligence i assume everyone is better than me at everything at first i said it would never happen again and i even went as far as becoming Communist and idolizing Joseph Stalin but then i realized no one is more important to me than me and the last thing i want to do is f**k with the wrong person and have him kill me and my family after all due to my Atheistic beliefs dying is the LAST thing i want to do

i suggest you get your head out of your ass, look around at the world and see that not everything is in black and white there are a LARGE variety of people in this world not just divided into this or that from my own observations people, especially girls, dont like you because you are a jerk to most people you meet and women especially dont like that even if you are nice to women

and part of what you just said contradicted your original post when you claimed to have perfect manners

oh yeah i forgot to mention i spent most my life either on welfare in the lower lower lower class or just in the lower class now my family is in the lower middle class and yet i fit your definition as the supposed 1% you claim to be in and is better than everyone else yet im not in it hmm strange, or maybe its because the statistics you claim to be a part of dont exist anywhere outside your own ignorant mind.

honestly your ignorance and your arrogance are your biggest problems fix those and im crtain you can get any woman you want

my problem with women is that im long term relationship material but no girl my age wants a long term relationship, well at least none ive met, most girls my age are looking for Mr. Right-Now instead of Mr. Right


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18 Feb 2011, 3:41 pm

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You mean someone else under a new account?
Isn't that not allowed?


Aspocrat is my sock puppet account. :wink:


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18 Feb 2011, 3:45 pm

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This guy sounds like he's from the early 19th century.


Seconded. I read the part about getting up when women walk in and thought "WTF?"

This thread is obviously a pathetically lame attempt at emulating my "Why don't women like me?" satire thread.


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20 Feb 2011, 3:04 am

Aspocrat wrote:
When I was 7 years old I had an IQ of 140 on the Wechsler Scale, I come from a very good background, I have perfect manners, I don't wear brown in town, I stand up when women come or leave the table etc... Yet all the girls I have come across thought I was an arrogant matcho. What have I done to deserve this? Sure I set a line between me and those of lesser intelligence or manners, sure I think that I am better than them but that is because I am. And there is no way I can change that because I behave the way I was born. As long as I am courteous and treat these girls properly, why would they be angry at me for treating a stranger poorly? A man runs into me in the middle of the street, why am I not allowed to call him what he is, a worthless scumbag and throw him against a wall for daring to bump into ME? These people are inferior, have no manners and descend from nameless peasants for the most part, why should they have a right to be rude to me, when I am so much more superior to them?

I know this will sound arrogant to some people but I can not change the way I think and I am only saying what is true; that I am superior to 99% of the world population. I always treat women with the greatest respect but yet they hate me because I despise those who are inferior to me. What am I doing wrong? My first and only almost girlfriend told me I was a psychopath. Am I a psychopath for being different and superior?


I would like to point out that you have defeated your own claim of being superior to 99% if the world by the contents of this post and the problems which your ideas, philosophies, and way of thinking cause you.



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20 Feb 2011, 4:12 am

LordoftheMonkeys wrote:
emlion wrote:
You mean someone else under a new account?
Isn't that not allowed?


Aspocrat is my sock puppet account. :wink:



Really?



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20 Feb 2011, 6:44 am

This thread is still going? Let it go, guys. No one can help him here.