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06 Apr 2011, 1:47 pm

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Men often judge women based on their looks when discussing them.


Think I'll pass on those men.


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06 Apr 2011, 6:15 pm

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all guys care about looks, if he told you he didn't care he was lying because he knew that is what you wanted to hear, kinda like how women say money isn't important but we all know it is


are you serious? all guys only care about looks.......if thats not a load of bs I am not sure what is. maybe its true for you but I can think of plenty of guys I know that care about a lot more then looks.


It should be most, not all...


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06 Apr 2011, 6:17 pm

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It's like you said; looks can help a lot with initial attraction, but they're useless at any stages beyond that. Plus looks can often be counter-productive, because if you happen to naturally look like a certain stereotype that your personality may not match (I think this may happen often for aspies as we tend to have very unconventional personalities) then you may end up attracting the wrong people and actually turning off the right ones!


Dumb blond :)


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06 Apr 2011, 10:00 pm

aussiebloke wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
albertwesker wrote:
all guys care about looks, if he told you he didn't care he was lying because he knew that is what you wanted to hear, kinda like how women say money isn't important but we all know it is


are you serious? all guys only care about looks.......if thats not a load of bs I am not sure what is. maybe its true for you but I can think of plenty of guys I know that care about a lot more then looks.


It should be most, not all...


that makes a little more sense...I mean most people in general tend to be a tad bit shallow, girls and guys.



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07 Apr 2011, 8:03 pm

Sweetleaf wrote:
albertwesker wrote:
all guys care about looks, if he told you he didn't care he was lying because he knew that is what you wanted to hear, kinda like how women say money isn't important but we all know it is


are you serious? all guys only care about looks.......if thats not a load of bs I am not sure what is. maybe its true for you but I can think of plenty of guys I know that care about a lot more then looks.



when did i use the word "only"?

personality can only be attractive if he likes your looks

a guy cannot be talked into liking a girl, men are too visual for that to happen

ellen degeneres is funny and has a good personality, how many guys have described her as attractive? see my point now?



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07 Apr 2011, 8:06 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
Here is an accurate summary of albertwesker's posts in here.

Bethie wrote:
It just makes you look stupid

Bethie wrote:
It just makes you look stupid

Bethie wrote:
It just makes you look stupid

Bethie wrote:
It just makes you look stupid

Bethie wrote:
It just makes you look stupid

Bethie wrote:
It just makes you look stupid


so my posts are stupid?

keep telling yourself that if it will help you sleep better at night? that's your only hope

guys GREATLY care about a females appearance, deal with it



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07 Apr 2011, 8:08 pm

Bethie wrote:
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Men often judge women based on their looks when discussing them.


Think I'll pass on those men.


than you will die alone

i will repeat once again, LOOKS ARE EXTREMELY IMPORTANT TO MEN

do you think guys look at internet porn because the women look so friendly and intelligent?



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07 Apr 2011, 9:17 pm

albertwesker wrote:
Bethie wrote:
Exhumed wrote:
Men often judge women based on their looks when discussing them.


Think I'll pass on those men.


than you will die alone

i will repeat once again, LOOKS ARE EXTREMELY IMPORTANT TO MEN

do you think guys look at internet porn because the women look so friendly and intelligent?

That's not what the poster said. They said they would pass on men who judged women by their looks when discussing them, not judging on looks when picking a mate. But I suppose it is possible that the only context women are ever discussed in is from a sexual point of view.

looks matter to me and i'm not even interested in dating and whatnot. but if I were I don't think I'd be able to date somebody I found hideous. but my standards are a bit different.



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07 Apr 2011, 9:34 pm

albertwesker wrote:
Bethie wrote:
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Men often judge women based on their looks when discussing them.


Think I'll pass on those men.


than you will die alone

i will repeat once again, LOOKS ARE EXTREMELY IMPORTANT TO MEN

do you think guys look at internet porn because the women look so friendly and intelligent?


Yes >_> I mean DAMN glasses do a woman good.


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07 Apr 2011, 11:12 pm

albertwesker wrote:
Bethie wrote:
Exhumed wrote:
Men often judge women based on their looks when discussing them.


Think I'll pass on those men.


than you will die alone

i will repeat once again, LOOKS ARE EXTREMELY IMPORTANT TO MEN

do you think guys look at internet porn because the women look so friendly and intelligent?


Why do you CONTINUE to presume to speak for 3.5 billion people, exactly, Albert?

I'd also like to know why you declared this:
albertwesker wrote:
all guys care about looks, if he told you he didn't care he was lying because he knew that is what you wanted to hear, kinda like how women say money isn't important but we all know it is


Is making asinine, unqualified declarations about not one but both sexes part of your mojo?


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07 Apr 2011, 11:20 pm

I wouldn't get so offended it's just a (slightly dumb) personal opinion. You are looking for a minority here though. I am everything you listed and more :twisted:


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07 Apr 2011, 11:22 pm

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I wouldn't get so offended it's just a (slightly dumb) personal opinion. You are looking for a minority here though. I am everything you listed and more :twisted:


Who is this to/about?


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07 Apr 2011, 11:24 pm

There is only one post between my two....the poster in the middle *must* be the one my post is addressed to.


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07 Apr 2011, 11:32 pm

Pistonhead wrote:
There is only one post between my two....the poster in the middle *must* be the one my post is addressed to.


Oh, in that case, I don't understand your second one.


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07 Apr 2011, 11:35 pm

It's a direct response in chronological order to what you said....well at least before you edited out all the specifics.


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07 Apr 2011, 11:42 pm

Pistonhead wrote:
It's a direct response in chronological order to what you said....well at least before you edited out all the specifics.


I still don't get it....

:?

Whatev.


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