At what age do most Aspies kiss for the very first time?

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Passionate kiss?

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Voluntarily, about 10, both boy and girl. My first boyfriend was called Jason, and he used to show me his father's porn collection.

Not voluntarily, 6.

I was 6 and the girl was 7. It was a mind blowing experience, and we repeated it later many times. I think this was the main reason why I always was attracted to women older than myself. Until recently. My current wife is 6 years younger than I. Phew... the curse is broken

My first serious kiss was at age 8. Though I'm not sure if it counts since I had no idea what I was doing.(She was the same age in case you care) My first romantic kiss wasn't until age 14. I still had no idea what I was doing, but at least then I was into adolescence when it happened.

Sorry to revive, but I wanted to say that I finally got my first kiss in early August.

The girl was gonna take my virginity but I messed things up through some way or another and we had a conversation about it all and at the end I was just leaning over my steering wheel trying to pull myself together and told her that and she asked what I was thinking about. And then I said "Well, I won't beg for it, but could you at least maybe give me my first kiss?", and she said of course and got this really horny look on her face and then we kissed. I thought it was only going to be a regular kiss, but she started making out and sucking on my lip and everything.

Unfortunately I literally kiss and told. As in told just about everybody in our group of mutual friends. Until it got to the point where she was sick of hearing about anything related to the situation, and she won't even look at me now cuz she thinks I only want sex and I've already been seen as just the nice guy to the extreme.

I've felt terrible ever since. That would've been a great opportunity to lose my virginity and possibly become really close because of that, even if nothing resulted after. She's one of the horny but not quite slu*ty types, and now all I can do is sit back and watch her flirt with all the other guys that aren't complete failures with women.

12 years old at a picnic I was dragged to by the family of one of my best friends when I was staying over. There was a girl there who I detested and she wouldn't stop wanting to hang out with us. Toward sundown (this picnic went on forever and ever), we were playing hide n seek and I hid on the far side of the property on the opposite side of the house from where the picnic was. When the adults told us to come in, she ambushed me coming around the corner and planted one right on my mouth.

She was actually a grade ahead of me. Never saw her before or again. That's actually the beginning of a very bad pattern of short, intense relationships that continues to this day.

I remember cussing her out the entire way back. My friends parents didn't let me stay over after that.

I didn't understand what the hell she was doing, especially before the kiss. I certainly didn't understand why she felt she had the right to do it. Adult me looks back and says, "Damn, I had girls going for me from Day One." 12 y.o. me was just pissed off that she ruined what could have been a nice day of running around outside with my friends.

I was 15.

17 and never even been cuddled, let alone anything else. I've been in a long distance relationship for a year and a half, hopefully one of us will be able to afford a plane ticket eventually. I estimate I'll probably be able to kiss him when I'm 18 or 19 because that's when I'll be able to apply for an apprenticeship I've been looking at and start earning some money. I'm glad I'll get to share my first kiss with somebody I love, most of my friends ended up kissing people they didn't particularly like just because they didn't want to be the only ones who hadn't been kissed and a lot of them regret it.

I'm still waiting for my kiss.

How comes so many aspies kiss so young? How is this possible?

Those are my thoughts as well. I guess right time, right place, right people.

But, I maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay get my first one soon. Not gonna jinx it though. *fingers crossed*

Not always....I was kissed in a very grown up way (by a man of about 49) when I was 9. For whatever reason, he had the hots for me. I was butt ugly too, with big buck teeth & ears that resembled Dumbo's. I have no idea why he was attracted to something that was so hideous looking like me. Oh yeah, & his wife was very pretty.

I read your story last night when I was stalking this thread. That is really sad. My guess is that he thought since you felt bad about yourself that he could treat you whatever way he wanted because you weren't gonna say anything about it. Plus, he might have to put effort in for his wife, you were just there. I'm really sorry that happened to you, and you are being very brave and strong....as I would imagine you have overcome a lot of fear and feelings of self-doubting. However, I was talking about in the sense that they enjoyed the kiss. I doubt this was the case for you, unfortunately. Yet, I like your idea for writing a book about your experiences!

I never kissed anyone in a romantic way but I want to and i go 23 this November

I was fourteen. I leaned in to kiss her on the cheek, and she augered her tongue into my mouth. It was awkward. Next girl I "went out with" pursed her lips like a great aunt when she kissed. It was also awkward.

First good kiss was when I was in my twenties. It made up for the others.

Any kiss at all not by family: ~12, actually.
Any kiss that's meaningful relationship-wise: Still not accomplished at the age of 27.

Oooh...I had no idea that it would happen when it did. I could not forsee how it could ever really happen I was incredibly shy,,,,not confident at all about my physical appearance etc..etc...It was the best friend of the older brother of the guy I had had a crush on since Jr. High. I was a freshman, and he was either a Jr. or Senior. I had been part of a social group that liked to go and watch foreign movies and then go to IHOP......I was the ditziest and most immature member of the group, being very young for my age. I had no idea that he "liked" me. He was a tall older (in retrospect...quite ASish super extra smart guy)....One night I was invited over to watch Star Wars dubbed in French, and for some reason, none of the other members of the group were there. He wrote it on a note as a question and handed it to me "Can I kiss you?" I, having never been kissed before, and really having no clue as to how kissing was initiated said "yes"...at which time he pounced on me with his mouth..and I had to sputter between lip smothering...that I had never been kissed before. This freaked him out and he took me home. We ended up being "makeout buddies" for about a week, and then he sorta dumped me. I have a feeling that neither of us really knew what we were doing, nor had either of us managed to have ever gotten that far with a member of the opposite sex.....