09 Aug 2011, 3:07 pm
Boo loses the argument!
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09 Aug 2011, 3:50 pm
That very big smile reminds me of someone 
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10 Aug 2011, 12:29 am
The_Face_of_Boo
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10 Aug 2011, 5:46 am
10 Aug 2011, 6:06 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
AsteroidNap wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I often hear complaints here of these kinds:
"There's no good men in my city"
"All girls in my town are shallow"
"Men in xx state are shallow and idiots"
"women in my country are are ugly"
etc...
To all those who can't find a partner and are blaming their area for it: it's you, not the area.
"There's no good men in my city"
"All girls in my town are shallow"
"Men in xx state are shallow and idiots"
"women in my country are are ugly"
etc...
To all those who can't find a partner and are blaming their area for it: it's you, not the area.
I will, and do, blame location for partial difficulty in dating. I live in LA. Lived here for nearly 10 years now. In those ten years, I found perhaps 4 or 5 love interests. But lo and behold I took some work up around San Francisco for three months...and in those three months I had about the same number of potential partners I had while in LA for those ten years! And I'm doing nothing different.
As corroborating evidence that LA is effed up, I also spent a week in San Diego with a friend, and had two separate incidences where women showed interest.
I also have a friend who was in LA for nearly the same number of years as I (an NT from Quebec) who kept striking out with relationships here. He thought it was his fault. He moves back to Montreal to find love, and boom, has a girlfriend within 9 months.
So I disagree with your premise straight away.
Don't confuse the effect of novelty with the area......
You were being the "new guy from LA" there and that gives you a lot of credits and a fresh start, girls go wild over foreigners with different accents. Also there might be some hollywood glamour about LA in particular.
And are you really sure that were doing nothing different? Even in your habits??
Most likely, if you were in a new state, you would behave more like a tourist after work. Going out to explore the new place, isn't it?
Besides, what I am noticing here that some of you have negative attitude toward the opposite gender in your area "All women in Scotland are wh*ers" , "All men in Hungary have tiny dicks". If you hold a such belief in your heart then you have little respect to the women/men in your area, no wonder you would be repelled by the women/men in you area, and most probably they would be repelled by you too.
Who is saying this? FYI Scotland and Hungary aren't towns, nor would they be considered areas.
I have been referring to my town, not my country.
The lasts parts probably true, but so what? they are still probably lots of places where people are repelled by gay and black people.
But let me guess, it must be them and not the area.
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10 Aug 2011, 7:57 am
Freak-Z wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
AsteroidNap wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I often hear complaints here of these kinds:
"There's no good men in my city"
"All girls in my town are shallow"
"Men in xx state are shallow and idiots"
"women in my country are are ugly"
etc...
To all those who can't find a partner and are blaming their area for it: it's you, not the area.
"There's no good men in my city"
"All girls in my town are shallow"
"Men in xx state are shallow and idiots"
"women in my country are are ugly"
etc...
To all those who can't find a partner and are blaming their area for it: it's you, not the area.
I will, and do, blame location for partial difficulty in dating. I live in LA. Lived here for nearly 10 years now. In those ten years, I found perhaps 4 or 5 love interests. But lo and behold I took some work up around San Francisco for three months...and in those three months I had about the same number of potential partners I had while in LA for those ten years! And I'm doing nothing different.
As corroborating evidence that LA is effed up, I also spent a week in San Diego with a friend, and had two separate incidences where women showed interest.
I also have a friend who was in LA for nearly the same number of years as I (an NT from Quebec) who kept striking out with relationships here. He thought it was his fault. He moves back to Montreal to find love, and boom, has a girlfriend within 9 months.
So I disagree with your premise straight away.
Don't confuse the effect of novelty with the area......
You were being the "new guy from LA" there and that gives you a lot of credits and a fresh start, girls go wild over foreigners with different accents. Also there might be some hollywood glamour about LA in particular.
And are you really sure that were doing nothing different? Even in your habits??
Most likely, if you were in a new state, you would behave more like a tourist after work. Going out to explore the new place, isn't it?
Besides, what I am noticing here that some of you have negative attitude toward the opposite gender in your area "All women in Scotland are wh*ers" , "All men in Hungary have tiny dicks". If you hold a such belief in your heart then you have little respect to the women/men in your area, no wonder you would be repelled by the women/men in you area, and most probably they would be repelled by you too.
Who is saying this? FYI Scotland and Hungary aren't towns, nor would they be considered areas.
I have been referring to my town, not my country.
The lasts parts probably true, but so what? they are still probably lots of places where people are repelled by gay and black people.
But let me guess, it must be them and not the area.
Man, stop playing the smart. I was just saying examples, and I wasn't referring to you in particular. The thread is about blaming the area whether it's a country, district or a huge town.
10 Aug 2011, 8:28 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Freak-Z wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
AsteroidNap wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I often hear complaints here of these kinds:
"There's no good men in my city"
"All girls in my town are shallow"
"Men in xx state are shallow and idiots"
"women in my country are are ugly"
etc...
To all those who can't find a partner and are blaming their area for it: it's you, not the area.
"There's no good men in my city"
"All girls in my town are shallow"
"Men in xx state are shallow and idiots"
"women in my country are are ugly"
etc...
To all those who can't find a partner and are blaming their area for it: it's you, not the area.
I will, and do, blame location for partial difficulty in dating. I live in LA. Lived here for nearly 10 years now. In those ten years, I found perhaps 4 or 5 love interests. But lo and behold I took some work up around San Francisco for three months...and in those three months I had about the same number of potential partners I had while in LA for those ten years! And I'm doing nothing different.
As corroborating evidence that LA is effed up, I also spent a week in San Diego with a friend, and had two separate incidences where women showed interest.
I also have a friend who was in LA for nearly the same number of years as I (an NT from Quebec) who kept striking out with relationships here. He thought it was his fault. He moves back to Montreal to find love, and boom, has a girlfriend within 9 months.
So I disagree with your premise straight away.
Don't confuse the effect of novelty with the area......
You were being the "new guy from LA" there and that gives you a lot of credits and a fresh start, girls go wild over foreigners with different accents. Also there might be some hollywood glamour about LA in particular.
And are you really sure that were doing nothing different? Even in your habits??
Most likely, if you were in a new state, you would behave more like a tourist after work. Going out to explore the new place, isn't it?
Besides, what I am noticing here that some of you have negative attitude toward the opposite gender in your area "All women in Scotland are wh*ers" , "All men in Hungary have tiny dicks". If you hold a such belief in your heart then you have little respect to the women/men in your area, no wonder you would be repelled by the women/men in you area, and most probably they would be repelled by you too.
Who is saying this? FYI Scotland and Hungary aren't towns, nor would they be considered areas.
I have been referring to my town, not my country.
The lasts parts probably true, but so what? they are still probably lots of places where people are repelled by gay and black people.
But let me guess, it must be them and not the area.
Man, stop playing the smart. I was just saying examples, and I wasn't referring to you in particular. The thread is about blaming the area whether it's a country, district or a huge town.
Wtf does playing the smart mean? are you opposed to intelligent discussions?
Yes I've gathered that's what this thread is about , why you needed to point it out I don't know. Whether it's a country or a small town it doesn't matter, it can still be the area.
People have gave very good reasons as to why it may actually be their area and not them, but you just seem to ignore them.
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10 Aug 2011, 8:45 am
Freak-Z wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Freak-Z wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
AsteroidNap wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I often hear complaints here of these kinds:
"There's no good men in my city"
"All girls in my town are shallow"
"Men in xx state are shallow and idiots"
"women in my country are are ugly"
etc...
To all those who can't find a partner and are blaming their area for it: it's you, not the area.
"There's no good men in my city"
"All girls in my town are shallow"
"Men in xx state are shallow and idiots"
"women in my country are are ugly"
etc...
To all those who can't find a partner and are blaming their area for it: it's you, not the area.
I will, and do, blame location for partial difficulty in dating. I live in LA. Lived here for nearly 10 years now. In those ten years, I found perhaps 4 or 5 love interests. But lo and behold I took some work up around San Francisco for three months...and in those three months I had about the same number of potential partners I had while in LA for those ten years! And I'm doing nothing different.
As corroborating evidence that LA is effed up, I also spent a week in San Diego with a friend, and had two separate incidences where women showed interest.
I also have a friend who was in LA for nearly the same number of years as I (an NT from Quebec) who kept striking out with relationships here. He thought it was his fault. He moves back to Montreal to find love, and boom, has a girlfriend within 9 months.
So I disagree with your premise straight away.
Don't confuse the effect of novelty with the area......
You were being the "new guy from LA" there and that gives you a lot of credits and a fresh start, girls go wild over foreigners with different accents. Also there might be some hollywood glamour about LA in particular.
And are you really sure that were doing nothing different? Even in your habits??
Most likely, if you were in a new state, you would behave more like a tourist after work. Going out to explore the new place, isn't it?
Besides, what I am noticing here that some of you have negative attitude toward the opposite gender in your area "All women in Scotland are wh*ers" , "All men in Hungary have tiny dicks". If you hold a such belief in your heart then you have little respect to the women/men in your area, no wonder you would be repelled by the women/men in you area, and most probably they would be repelled by you too.
Who is saying this? FYI Scotland and Hungary aren't towns, nor would they be considered areas.
I have been referring to my town, not my country.
The lasts parts probably true, but so what? they are still probably lots of places where people are repelled by gay and black people.
But let me guess, it must be them and not the area.
Man, stop playing the smart. I was just saying examples, and I wasn't referring to you in particular. The thread is about blaming the area whether it's a country, district or a huge town.
Wtf does playing the smart mean? are you opposed to intelligent discussions?
Yes I've gathered that's what this thread is about , why you needed to point it out I don't know. Whether it's a country or a small town it doesn't matter, it can still be the area.
People have gave very good reasons as to why it may actually be their area and not them, but you just seem to ignore them.
Ok then move to another town and spare us the drama.
10 Aug 2011, 8:54 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Freak-Z wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Freak-Z wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
AsteroidNap wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I often hear complaints here of these kinds:
"There's no good men in my city"
"All girls in my town are shallow"
"Men in xx state are shallow and idiots"
"women in my country are are ugly"
etc...
To all those who can't find a partner and are blaming their area for it: it's you, not the area.
"There's no good men in my city"
"All girls in my town are shallow"
"Men in xx state are shallow and idiots"
"women in my country are are ugly"
etc...
To all those who can't find a partner and are blaming their area for it: it's you, not the area.
I will, and do, blame location for partial difficulty in dating. I live in LA. Lived here for nearly 10 years now. In those ten years, I found perhaps 4 or 5 love interests. But lo and behold I took some work up around San Francisco for three months...and in those three months I had about the same number of potential partners I had while in LA for those ten years! And I'm doing nothing different.
As corroborating evidence that LA is effed up, I also spent a week in San Diego with a friend, and had two separate incidences where women showed interest.
I also have a friend who was in LA for nearly the same number of years as I (an NT from Quebec) who kept striking out with relationships here. He thought it was his fault. He moves back to Montreal to find love, and boom, has a girlfriend within 9 months.
So I disagree with your premise straight away.
Don't confuse the effect of novelty with the area......
You were being the "new guy from LA" there and that gives you a lot of credits and a fresh start, girls go wild over foreigners with different accents. Also there might be some hollywood glamour about LA in particular.
And are you really sure that were doing nothing different? Even in your habits??
Most likely, if you were in a new state, you would behave more like a tourist after work. Going out to explore the new place, isn't it?
Besides, what I am noticing here that some of you have negative attitude toward the opposite gender in your area "All women in Scotland are wh*ers" , "All men in Hungary have tiny dicks". If you hold a such belief in your heart then you have little respect to the women/men in your area, no wonder you would be repelled by the women/men in you area, and most probably they would be repelled by you too.
Who is saying this? FYI Scotland and Hungary aren't towns, nor would they be considered areas.
I have been referring to my town, not my country.
The lasts parts probably true, but so what? they are still probably lots of places where people are repelled by gay and black people.
But let me guess, it must be them and not the area.
Man, stop playing the smart. I was just saying examples, and I wasn't referring to you in particular. The thread is about blaming the area whether it's a country, district or a huge town.
Wtf does playing the smart mean? are you opposed to intelligent discussions?
Yes I've gathered that's what this thread is about , why you needed to point it out I don't know. Whether it's a country or a small town it doesn't matter, it can still be the area.
People have gave very good reasons as to why it may actually be their area and not them, but you just seem to ignore them.
Ok then move to another town and spare us the drama.
There you go again, you just seem to brush off any legitimate reasons anyone may have.
What drama? I would hardly call having a negative opinion about my town as drama, and moving to another town isn't always that simple.
10 Aug 2011, 9:50 am
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