Do dateless men have a right to be picky?

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They are heartless b*****s because they go to bastards and turn nice guys down. Think about this: How many males would go to female (well known) serial killers and how many females would go the male serial killers? You know the answer. And the explanation to that is that beautiful women are heart/brainless b*****s, who get turned on by stupid, brutal and evil men. Ergo: They deserve suffering.

I have no objection to people being picky because it is them who have to live with the cnsequences of it not me. The biggest consequence is missing out on someone who could truly love you because of how picky a person can be. Imagine the fantastic personalities that must pass by every day when you are picky about the way someone looks or how much money they have etc etc. There is no point being offended by picky people, we should actually pity them in some way as they have no idea what they are missing out on.

After reading some of this, I would also like to make a point here. I have been told by a lot of people that I am beautiful, so does that make me a heartless brainless b***h? Before you answer that I would like you to consider the following:

I have 12 GCSE's, 4 A levels and a degree in Biology

My boyfriend is not a bastard, he is a nice guy. He isn't rich financially but he is where it counts, and thats his personality and I love him for it. All we ask of each other is to be ourselves and our relationship works. To me he is absolutely gorgeous because he is him and he doesn't pretend to be anyone else, and nor do I.

I have never broken anyone's heart who didn't deserve it, in fact I have had my heart broken more. I do not make a habit of breaking people's hearts as I know all too well how it feels.

As I am very caring towards my fantastic boyfriend (who is not a bastard as I do not get turned on by bastards) and as I am not brainless, do I deserve to suffer because I'm apparently beautiful? What say you Litigious?

I don't mean to sound cocky, but I can relate to this cause I've been apporached by women and somehow I always scare them away.

Like many things, it is a matter of finding a balance. Excessively picky is bad. Insufficiently picky is also bad. A balance is required. Just the right amount of pickiness.

You might be one of those rare exceptions.

This is by far the worst use of inductive 'logic' I've seen on this board. Fiz's post alone should've woken you up, but instead you've made her into an 'exception' to your rule. Why not consider that your theory is completely wrong, not to mention extremely shallow?

Seems shallowness goes in both directions these days. If you're ugly, you're no good because you're going to be a failure with low self-esteem and major issues. If you're beautiful, you're no good either because you're going to be a major bịtch, or a narcissist.

I have observed that extreme wealth and extreme beauty typically effect a person's personality negatively, but a handicap or disability or other significant difference typically effects a person's personality positively. So it seems to me that having everything has the potential to make you a B or SOB, and having a significant challenge has the opposite potential.

Amen.

I disagree, I have very nice beautiful women and some nasty not so beautiful women.

Also, no one deserves suffering.

I think I would have to agree with you here. It is natural for humans (and animals as well) to be selective to some degree, but it is when we are not selective enough or we are too selective that we find ourselves with a problem. Those that are too selective miss out on so many potentials whereas those that are not selective enough make themselves vulnerable.

If we all know about the truth of the universe we will discover that there are less people on this planet that are deserving of suffering. But we use many forms of reality control like religions and flowed man made morality to make other people seem more guilty then they really are. More often then not why many people break up is not because one person is better then another and more moral but because there are too many differences to make it work. And lack of understanding between those to people.

I don't look bad. Most women and many men, including pure heterosexuals, claim I look much better than the average man. I'm also more intelligent than most people on this planet. When I'm in a good mood, I'm considered a nice, friendly person. Those beautiful women though "smell" that I am different, despite all my positive sides. Instead, they'll go to ugly looking, stupid, mean bastards with a two figure IQ who beats them and are unfaithful. So why on Earth should I not hate them? Why should I feel something else than malicious pleasure, when some beautiful, mean, ego tripped arrogant b***h gets raped and I hear about it on the news?

So you like it when women get raped do you? If those are your fantasies I suggest you keep them to yourself as rape is a very brutal and distressing thing for anyone, man or woman, to go through. Plus its a very touching and sensitive subject for myself, but then I'm quite strong. Most people would be offended by remarks such as this. Be very careful what you say in future, this is going too far by saying you feel malicious pleasure when you hear of a woman being raped.

Plus if you would actually read what I put as opposed to trying to read something that isn't there, you may understand what I was saying. Who said you looked bad? I never said anyone looked bad, I was talking about natural selection, it goes on in many species, including humans. How was that in any way against you? I'm sure you are good looking and intelligent. However, after what I have just read from you, I would not describe what you put as intelligent, but stupid. Oh and for your information, its not just SOME women who treat men like this, men do it too. Wake up Litigious and stop causing trouble with remarks like this. No one deserves to get raped, end of discussion. I am enraged that such a comment was made.

Because they are human brings acting according to their sub-conscious impulses. The reason we forgive them is because they know not what they do.

I acknowledge that they are but rapists should be the unfortunate victim of their own sin according to the law. It is the only way to bring about a happier society in general.