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14 Jan 2012, 8:20 am

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It's actually a turn off for a lot of guys, from what the ones I know tell me anyway. :/


Unless they're just looking for sex, then they don't mind too much (though they'll speak disparagingly of them later).


Really? Whenever I see stupidity I get turned off immediately. I assume this doesn't happen to men then? I find that's hard to believe. :/



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14 Jan 2012, 8:23 am

Erisad wrote:
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It's actually a turn off for a lot of guys, from what the ones I know tell me anyway. :/


Unless they're just looking for sex, then they don't mind too much (though they'll speak disparagingly of them later).


Really? Whenever I see stupidity I get turned off immediately. I assume this doesn't happen to men then? I find that's hard to believe. :/


Some people like people who are not as smart as them, so they can feel more intelligent.

Also, it doesn't matter if it's just a quick f**k - it's not like they're going to be having a political debate afterwards. :P



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14 Jan 2012, 8:34 am

emlion wrote:
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Tequila wrote:
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It's actually a turn off for a lot of guys, from what the ones I know tell me anyway. :/


Unless they're just looking for sex, then they don't mind too much (though they'll speak disparagingly of them later).


Really? Whenever I see stupidity I get turned off immediately. I assume this doesn't happen to men then? I find that's hard to believe. :/


Some people like people who are not as smart as them, so they can feel more intelligent.

Also, it doesn't matter if it's just a quick f**k - it's not like they're going to be having a political debate afterwards. :P


Apparently I have a different idea of pillow talk. :lol:



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14 Jan 2012, 8:41 am

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Also, it doesn't matter if it's just a quick f**k - it's not like they're going to be having a political debate afterwards. :P


Perhaps they could integrate angry political arguments into their rough sex? ;)



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14 Jan 2012, 8:42 am

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Really? Whenever I see stupidity I get turned off immediately.


Some men don't care that their women are stupid - in fact, some misogynists like their women that way so they can be abusive about them later.



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14 Jan 2012, 8:47 am

Tequila wrote:
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Also, it doesn't matter if it's just a quick f**k - it's not like they're going to be having a political debate afterwards. :P


Perhaps they could integrate angry political arguments into their rough sex? ;)


Hahahaha "Oh you right-wing bastard, don't stop!" :lmao:



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14 Jan 2012, 8:54 am

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Hahahaha "Oh you right-wing bastard, don't stop!" :lmao:


Or, indeed, from a right-wing perspective: "F*** me! F*** me as hard as your lot are f***ing my country!"



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14 Jan 2012, 9:00 am

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Hahahaha "Oh you right-wing bastard, don't stop!" :lmao:


Or, indeed, from a right-wing perspective: "F*** me! F*** me as hard as your lot are f***ing my country!"


Shouldn't that be from the opposite perspective?



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14 Jan 2012, 9:18 am

Tequila wrote:
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Really? Whenever I see stupidity I get turned off immediately.


Some men don't care that their women are stupid - in fact, some misogynists like their women that way so they can be abusive about them later.


*siiigh* I don't get that mentality. Then again, abusive people are hardly human in my eyes. They're beasts.



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14 Jan 2012, 11:18 am

Personally, I cannot stand girls who act dumb. I don't even want to talk to them.



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14 Jan 2012, 11:24 am

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Personally, I cannot stand girls who act dumb. I don't even want to talk to them.

I find them funny & really cute sometimes. Maybe it's because I'm immature


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14 Jan 2012, 11:26 am

nick007 wrote:
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Personally, I cannot stand girls who act dumb. I don't even want to talk to them.

I find them funny & really cute sometimes. Maybe it's because I'm immature


Maybe. A lot of guys do like it for some reason, but I just don't get it.



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14 Jan 2012, 11:46 am

Asp-Z wrote:
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Personally, I cannot stand girls who act dumb. I don't even want to talk to them.

I find them funny & really cute sometimes. Maybe it's because I'm immature


Maybe. A lot of guys do like it for some reason, but I just don't get it.


I'm with you, Asp-Z. If anyone, man or woman, does the dumbdown act in front of me, I just feel sorry for them.



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14 Jan 2012, 11:52 am

The tragic thing is, even guys who are attracted to it will make fun of it. I remember once my male group of friends were on about how this girl is obviously making herself seem stupid on purpose, and, though they still found her attractive, they made her a figure of ridicule.

I didn't join in with that, but I still didn't talk to the girl in question because I cannot stand that sort of behaviour.



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14 Jan 2012, 12:01 pm

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The tragic thing is, even guys who are attracted to it will make fun of it. I remember once my male group of friends were on about how this girl is obviously making herself seem stupid on purpose, and, though they still found her attractive, they made her a figure of ridicule.

I didn't join in with that, but I still didn't talk to the girl in question because I cannot stand that sort of behaviour.


But, see, she did that to get attention, and it worked. There were some genuinely attracted to her, and even the ones who made fun of her were still talking about her (more attention, though negative). This is why I feel sorry for those "dumb down" people, they've taken a very negative, lazy way to interaction. And it reflects badly on the rest of us.



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14 Jan 2012, 12:06 pm

mv wrote:
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The tragic thing is, even guys who are attracted to it will make fun of it. I remember once my male group of friends were on about how this girl is obviously making herself seem stupid on purpose, and, though they still found her attractive, they made her a figure of ridicule.

I didn't join in with that, but I still didn't talk to the girl in question because I cannot stand that sort of behaviour.


But, see, she did that to get attention, and it worked. There were some genuinely attracted to her, and even the ones who made fun of her were still talking about her (more attention, though negative). This is why I feel sorry for those "dumb down" people, they've taken a very negative, lazy way to interaction. And it reflects badly on the rest of us.

Those guys aren't like me. I sometimes act stupid with em because it's fun. I act like I'm stoned when I'm around the rite people for it but I'm not like that most of the time


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