The hardest thing about being single

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I guess you should contunine using the flea repellent then so you don't have the headach of dealing with fleas everyday. Am out of ideas your poor dogs

Ha! Don't I wish.

If I had the money to afford it, I'd have cats, dogs, birds and a pasture of wild animals. I'd be like one of those "witches" who lives alone in the woods given a name like Agnus the Hag or Alice the Hag.

Hey me too

sleeping alone. it is lonely.

but

hogging all the blankets and snoring is allowed !
I've never elbowed myself for snoring, and never had all the blankets torn off of me while asleep.

I have managed to elbow my self while sleeping, lol.

So have I...

for snoring ?

I sometimes wake myself up with my own snoring.

That's.... impressive

I used to snore like a train and wake my parents up until I started sleeping on my side.

I don't know, I was sleeping. And my elbow wouldn't tell me why.

Me too. I bet I would toss&turn aLOT less if I was with someone

for me its cuddling. i long to hold someone i care about more than anything else in the world. cuddling with my pillow is hardly the same.

iuno.. it just really sucks that i know i have the potential to make someone really happy, but no one seems interested in me. i've decided that i would never cheat, or lie, or hit a girl in a million years, no matter what they did or said to me. meanwhile we have girls getting cheated on, beat up, and / or demoralized, and they all still love their BF's and dont want to leave them!

heck, even the girl i like doesnt is too stuck on the guy who dumped her for someone who lives 100000 miles away!

SIGH.

and, honestly? how am i supposed to keep a girl interested or intrigued in the first place? the only thing i can really talk for days about is video games and not a lot of girls play those. and if they DO play video games, they dont seem to live anywhere near where i do!

'hey, i really like you but... sorry.. im boring as **** and i havent the slightest idea how to interact with you at all. i'll try super hard but.. would that even matter?'

any decent surgeon, on a first c-section with no previous scarring/adhesions, will be able to be in and out ["skin to skin"] in a half hour, tops. when i worked in L&D that was the average surgery time for most first c-sections. there is a uterine surgical incision and staple system which cuts time drastically, they make a small uterine incision, then they insert the device and it makes the bilateral incision and seals off the incision edges simultaneously. all that is left is to sew the uterus closed once the placenta is extracted and the endometrium is policed of any remaining placental tissue. you might ask the surgeon for a "plastic closure" [careful edge-to-edge tissue approximation using close-order fine sutures]. they can also suffuse the area with a local anaesthetic during the closure to minimize post-surgical pain if they give you a general. you should discuss this with your anaesthetist/surgeon during the pre-op. the thing to remember concerning c-sections, are that they will [unless it is emergent] give you regional anesthesia [something like a spinal or epidural] and you will be awake [but numbed from the abdomen down] during the procedure, and because of this they will at least give you a good look at your newborn, and they generally won't rush the infant out unless s/he is in need of neonatal intensive care for one reason or another. the present practice is to keep you and baby together from the get-go, as much as possible. you will have matching ID bands you will both wear for the duration of your hospitalization. during your recovery you will become acquainted with your belly pillow and encouraged to walk. you will make it through alright.

I think I'd be more motivated if I had to do things for someone else besides myself. I have no interest when it comes to cooking for me alone. It's not that I can't cook, it's just that I have no reason to put more than the least possible effort into it, which means I'm eating the same things all the time and not having a healthy balance.

don't knock it 'til you try it. it may be more effective than you imagine, on a counterintuitive level.