How to talk to Asian girls?

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Your last writing is really biased as you would not really know the answer to that. You told me that he had the right to like what he wants and I have the right to say what I want too. I never said anything about him and his preference. And a girl biased to tall guys is wrong too! I never said that was okay either. I am currently with a short guy (my size 5'4) to whoever said that! I simply was telling him to open up to the types of girls he likes. The one who loves him back could be asian, white, watever! Just advising him to not be so choosy. But you are taking offense to that and being stubborn that oh, he only like this type of girl when he clearly said he likes other types too and was curious about asians, which cleared everything up.

Yes, you are right, I don't look at height either, so why do you tell me this? I'm with a short guy.

Did I ever say to NOT like them? I simply said to like like them for race? Why are most of you not understanding what I wrote? It's up there and reread. If you only aim for a girl for her race is wrong is what I said. Calm the heck down.

I like asian food, culture...but is that a reason to fall in love with someone, for their food, culture? To be honest, I would feel really weird if I found out that a guy went out with me just for my culture and the food I eat! I would want to know that he is with me for the kind of person I am. I'm just saying, what you right doesn't sound like love, but a love of things and culture, which is cool. You can definately fall in love with someone, but I would say if this is what you are falling for, then it is still superficial. I say look for a good personality girl that also takes care of her body and all of that, if she happens to be asian that's great, but it not, then so what?

And finally, to OP, you already clarified that you don't just look at girl for race and at least you understand what I am basically trying to say. I think it's great that you really aren't the superficial guy I thought you were when I read this thread. (MY brother is really superficial with girls, it's so annoying)

Very good point.

You really saw through that one, didn't you?

Naw thats just a bonus I go for the personality if things click they do and if they dont they dont.I grew up around alot of the influence born and raised in California and right now currently reside in the bay area.When it comes to NTs I get approached more by Asian girls than others.The main things I look for in a woman first are personality, intelligence,common interests, followed by looks and the culture thing. It goes in that order.You must have forgotten to read what I just put in bold text, the culture part is followed after that with and.

And, if she can cook, that's always a plus.

Well I mean I may like Asian girls some percentage better, I guess my favorite girls are Asians and Eastern European girls, and there's always "aha, build your dream girl/guy" type of thoughts we all have, but overall that type of thing is for naught, since we cannot build people (only Realdolls, lololol.) That said, there is a stereotype of guys who like Asian girls, whether or not I fit it, well, hell if I know. Probably. But I like what I like.

As far as ladder theory and all that business, technically I fit well on the "ladder" and I've been told I'm quite attractive and I do involve myself in athletic stuff. So... yeah. My problem with women is more or less me, and not the women being evil b*****s or anything like that. I do feel like Asian culture would be a bit more suitable for me and the way I am, and even like, let's say the Asian market, whenever I'm there I have this weird feeling of "safety" and it'd always be the place I'd go as a teenager, like 16-17 years old, I'd ride my bike there daily, now I'm farther away and can't go whenever I want. That and I always feel more comfortable around foreigners in general for some reason. Also, for some reason, people think I'm a foreigner in the place I've lived all my life, I apparently have an accent, and my mannerisms and whatever make people think I'm a foreigner. Maybe it's cuz I don't call people "bro" and talk about going to clubs and stuff like that. Who knows.

. . . Why the hell would them being Asian make a difference. Culture and upbringing is what makes the differences a Irish person is different to a English person in manners. A Asian brought up in England would be very much alike the english, but still Asian.


Also I think it's along the lines of "Ooh No Su sung no eat kitty, Go ray for forgivenus"

I pretty much refuse to have any longterm relationship with a girl who cannot cook/will not learn to cook. I saw how much hell it caused in my family, my mom refusing to learn to cook. I'm not expecting June Cleaver for my wife or anything, I just want the ability to cook, even if I do cooking the majority of the time (it's a hobby/special interest of mine) I'd still want my wife to be able to cook, if I'm sick or tired, or away or whatever. I don't want frozen food and TV dinners and the like in my house, that stuff will kill you, so if a girl relies on that type of stuff to feed herself, I'd see that as worse than even like, smoking, for her health.

If going to Japan, there seems to be a tradition called Nanpa

http://www.japanfortheuninvited.com/articles/nanpa.html

It does look like fun. Here is one in action.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HbTkR8li7Mg[/youtube]

I like the way you think.

Not even frozen veg (which is better in some ways?)

Your right it does look like fun! That wouldnt fly here in the states though, women would just be creeped out or just walk away faster.In Japan its different a lot of it has to not only do with culture but the men to women ratio is very disproportioned many more women than men in Japan hence higher demand for men in Japan. I am fairly shy in person when it comes to asking women out and 99.9% of the relationships it is the women who ask me out.I wish it was that easy oh my god!!