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22 Jul 2012, 6:52 pm

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I just want to move to where me and our son will have a better life. Not far, an hour from where she lives. just I want to transfer his schooling and therapy along with me. she feels I am doing it out of spite, where thats far from the truth, I just want to get on with our lives. nothing will change custodial wise then they have been for the last couple years. I been handling our sons education anyways. she is just paranoid.



Unfortunately I do not have much in the way of input for such a situation as the emotions associated with it were likely forged in the past....it does not sound as if the divorce was amicable. What does your son want?



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22 Jul 2012, 7:39 pm

He will go to better funded schools, more social opportunities, and I will have more and better paying work opportunities. and so on and so forth. we will be much better off with the move. and he is a daddies boy. we will be fine. now enough said of such matters.



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31 Jul 2012, 9:30 pm

Hey Mutant-

i agree with that one gal- there is SOMETHING going on where you are choosing/attracted to women who are users. maybe there's a strong, capable, independent woman right in front of you but you are not attracted to her so you don't even see her turn to your left and say, "What a gorgeous woman" to the meek, glamour puss who is using her sexual wiles to get herself a man/meal ticket....d you get what we're saying here? Once could happen to anyone, twice- maybe a co-inky dink. Thrice- a PATTERN!

I myself look for men who are controlling, often they do this with money. Any guy who brags about his money is suspect. I always think a) He's prob lying about how much he has and b) He's obviously got something really wrong with him to have to brag about his money.

I'm not saying you are doing ALL that, but you need to examine carefully what is going on. Ask a trusted friend for their input. If you don't have one- get one of them before you get your next woman!

Also as ppl mentioned- SLOW things down. TIME REVEALS ALL. I laughed when someone said they waited a WHOLE
MONTH before having sex!! I need to know if I can trust my guy. I dont want diseases and I need to know what they are about. I personally have found that 6 months seems to be the magic number- (sometimes sooner). That's the longest it has ever taken me to see a guy's true colors. Arent you and your energy worth that much of a wait?