What Kind Of MAN Do You Not Want?

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Don't want:

Easily offended - fights will happen and make me feel uncomfortable to speak

Chauvinist, treats me and other women as some hivemind other species instead of as individuals - will annoy the s**t out of me

Homophobe - just gotta be very gay friendly to get along with me

Judging and critical towards everyone - will make me insecure and i will go nuts

Speaks in code, words do not match actions, denial over own emotions, not completely up front and honest - i can't trust this behavior and will go nuts

Strong belief in an established church - don't want someone trying to convert me

Wants children - i don't

No interest in my interests or hates my interests - what's the point?

Someone who doesn't respect that I need a lot of me alone time - i will go nuts

I try to keep myself open to all kinds of people, but there are a few whom I definitely wouldn't get along with, such as:

Conservatives (people who are anti-abortion, anti-gay marriage, etc). I'm pretty left-wing in my views and we would no doubt clash horns!
People who are racist, homophobic, sexist, or otherwise stand firmly against the march for equality I believe in.
Someone who's just a plain old jerk and has little or no respect for the feelings of other's.
Really intense "gamers". I enjoy some video games but I play maybe three a year and they're short ones at that, so somebody who's main hobby is playing video games is not for me.
People with really low self-esteem. Everyone has their hang-ups and that's okay but if you are always putting yourself down or wallowing in your own self-pity I don't see a relationship blossoming anytime soon (this is mostly because I have moved passed that point in my life and want to be around people who are at my level).
People who smell rank all the time or whom I have to constantly remind to shower daily.
Anybody who "hates animals". It creeps me out.

That's it really, I'm pretty flexible with everything else, though having a creative outlet of some kind and being physically attractive to me (this is circumstantial) is a huge bonus.

I don't want a MAN that doesn't start with the letters WO!

Ok, you got me there. Congrats.

An as$hole.

women seem to want me till I open my mouth

I woudn't date a person who cares about other peoples feelings.

I would not date a tall, dark, and handsome man.

I would not date a nice dressed, non smelly man.

I would not date a non-smoker.

I would not date a guy who doesn't watch Spongebob






Actually I take that back. I woudn't date any guy cuz im straight.

- homophobic/racist/sexist/ableist/transphobic/etc.
- has lots of body hair or muscles, hnnnngh
- no interests in common (such as anime, video games, books, etc.)
- listens to dubstep (I am sorry, just... no)
- does not agree that gackt is the most beautiful human being on earth >.> <.<

Blue_bean Does Not Want a guy who:
- Is willfully unemployed
- Still lives with his mother
- Avoids me when problems arise because he's too anxious/scared/feeble to face me
- Can't show interest in me or care about me as a person
- Is self-centered
- Has a victim complex and it's related emotional baggage
- Loathes themselves
- Has kids
- Separated from their wife/partner last week
- Doesn't share the same principles as me
- Is unreliable
- Has an unstable relationship history (tally of batshit insane ex-gf's? birds of a feather and all that...)
- Does drugs or drinks heavily

- somebody with a crazy possessive mother
- Christian (by my term)
- not in touch with thier emotions (or mine! LOL)
- cant manage money
- has a limited idea of how to enjoy thier day/life
- not philosophical or thought provoking
- mundane
- doesnt know how to feed himself
- isnt "conscious" of anything or aware of themselves even
-lost
-terrible at communicating (even with AS I'm a better communicator than alot of people)
-passive
-lazy
-extroverted to the extreme of not being introspective
-overly productive
- not in touch with things aesthetically
- not sensual
-clingy
-doesnt like touch
-thoughtless
-emotional void
-younger than me
-under atleast 3 years older than me

WANT
-philosophical
-abstract mind/perceptions
-sensual
-enjoys life aesthetically
-riddled with little quirks
-thoughtful
-compassionate to smaller, weaker, vulnerable things
-serious, but playful (it exists)
-child-like
-extreemly future oriented and self motivated
-inventive
-kinda ridgid
-gives me my space and doesnt take me personally
-interested in people
-perceptive and watchful
-owns an intimidating bookshelf
-questions me, questions EVERYTHING
-deflates my ego, and doesn't let me push him around (god, I love that in a man)
-skinny
-deep
-has great taste and finds everything at a good deal if not for free!
-has long hair
-and gandalf hands

Someone who is selfish, manipulative, and unappreciative. Also, someone who isn't loyal.

I'd really like someone who I can have a nice conversation with, who's fun to hang around, and is basically my best friend - who knows when to make jokes, and when to be serious, and has above-average intelligence. It'll help if he's fairly attractive, as well

I certainly wouldn't want a guy with the 'women only date jerks and never the nice guys' complex. I also would not want anyone who believed in the whole 'pick up artistry' thing.