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30 Nov 2012, 7:54 am

Vigilans is a dude, dude :P



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30 Nov 2012, 7:59 am

blue_bean wrote:
Vigilans is a dude, dude :P



Not sh*t, sherlock!



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30 Nov 2012, 8:09 am

Oh I see, you were joking like he was. Carry on.



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30 Nov 2012, 1:38 pm

When he has cried in front of me, I've held him and tried to comfort him. I would be extremely offended and outraged if anyone ever said that he is less of a man for crying, in front of me or not.


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30 Nov 2012, 8:32 pm

AspieRogue wrote:
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They should smack him upside the head until he mans the f*** up! :P


Is that what your boyfriend does? If she did that to me then I'd return the favor by socking her in the mouth next time she cries and then exclaim: "Shut up, woman! Or I'll REALLY give you something to cry about!" :mrgreen:


Aww, AspieRogue still feeling butthurt? They have a cure for that you know. It is probably out of your reach though, as it involves not being a s**t for brains, angsty-virgin twat all the time. How is that pedophile look working for you, btw? You lure any children into your van lately?


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30 Nov 2012, 9:53 pm

Vigilans wrote:
AspieRogue wrote:
Vigilans wrote:
They should smack him upside the head until he mans the f*** up! :P


Is that what your boyfriend does? If she did that to me then I'd return the favor by socking her in the mouth next time she cries and then exclaim: "Shut up, woman! Or I'll REALLY give you something to cry about!" :mrgreen:


Aww, AspieRogue still feeling butthurt? They have a cure for that you know. It is probably out of your reach though, as it involves not being a sh** for brains, angsty-virgin twat all the time. How is that pedophile look working for you, btw? You lure any children into your van lately?



Not a virgin, kid. Nice try, though.



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30 Nov 2012, 10:48 pm

Vigilans wrote:
Aww, AspieRogue still feeling butthurt? They have a cure for that you know. It is probably out of your reach though, as it involves not being a sh** for brains, angsty-virgin twat all the time. How is that pedophile look working for you, btw? You lure any children into your van lately?


Dude... harsh!



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30 Nov 2012, 11:29 pm

I've seen my boyfriend cry before, twice, and both times I held him close and wrapped my arms around him and reassured him many times that things were going to be okay, we'd figure out a solution somehow, and/or negotiate, etc. (situationally depending, of course). But mostly, I ended up trying to console him as best as I could with things that work for me, as I didn't really know what else to do. Especially the first time I saw him cry, as I'd never seen him cry in front of me and it caught me off guard. I 'pet' his head/hair, also. I kind of grab his head (if we're sitting) and pull it towards my chest/under my chin area and just pet his hair.

I don't really care if crying is manly or not. It really doesn't matter to me. We're all humans, we all have tear ducts, and sometimes crying happens; after all it is a natural reaction. Regardless of gender, I'd be there for the person I care about.



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01 Dec 2012, 5:50 am

AspieRogue wrote:
Vigilans wrote:
AspieRogue wrote:
Vigilans wrote:
They should smack him upside the head until he mans the f*** up! :P


Is that what your boyfriend does? If she did that to me then I'd return the favor by socking her in the mouth next time she cries and then exclaim: "Shut up, woman! Or I'll REALLY give you something to cry about!" :mrgreen:


Aww, AspieRogue still feeling butthurt? They have a cure for that you know. It is probably out of your reach though, as it involves not being a sh** for brains, angsty-virgin twat all the time. How is that pedophile look working for you, btw? You lure any children into your van lately?



Not a virgin, kid. Nice try, though.
Guys what is up with the personal attacks?!


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01 Dec 2012, 7:43 am

AspieOtaku wrote:
AspieRogue wrote:
Vigilans wrote:
AspieRogue wrote:
Vigilans wrote:
They should smack him upside the head until he mans the f*** up! :P


Is that what your boyfriend does? If she did that to me then I'd return the favor by socking her in the mouth next time she cries and then exclaim: "Shut up, woman! Or I'll REALLY give you something to cry about!" :mrgreen:


Aww, AspieRogue still feeling butthurt? They have a cure for that you know. It is probably out of your reach though, as it involves not being a sh** for brains, angsty-virgin twat all the time. How is that pedophile look working for you, btw? You lure any children into your van lately?



Not a virgin, kid. Nice try, though.
Guys what is up with the personal attacks?!



He's NT and on WP to troll aspies. That's what's up.



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01 Dec 2012, 8:26 am

Enough!! ! Knock of the trash talk and grow up!


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01 Dec 2012, 10:55 am

AspieOtaku wrote:
AspieRogue wrote:
Vigilans wrote:
AspieRogue wrote:
Vigilans wrote:
They should smack him upside the head until he mans the f*** up! :P


Is that what your boyfriend does? If she did that to me then I'd return the favor by socking her in the mouth next time she cries and then exclaim: "Shut up, woman! Or I'll REALLY give you something to cry about!" :mrgreen:


Aww, AspieRogue still feeling butthurt? They have a cure for that you know. It is probably out of your reach though, as it involves not being a sh** for brains, angsty-virgin twat all the time. How is that pedophile look working for you, btw? You lure any children into your van lately?



Not a virgin, kid. Nice try, though.
Guys what is up with the personal attacks?!


AspieRogue is pretty much a complete and total as*hole who sends threats to people via PM and trolls their old posts (he figures they won't notice so he can get away with not having to deal with repercussions) when they argue him back into the twisted little corner he lives in. Somehow he has slipped through the cracks but I am confident the moderating team will get rid of this douchebag eventually


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01 Dec 2012, 10:55 am

BlueMax wrote:
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Aww, AspieRogue still feeling butthurt? They have a cure for that you know. It is probably out of your reach though, as it involves not being a sh** for brains, angsty-virgin twat all the time. How is that pedophile look working for you, btw? You lure any children into your van lately?


Dude... harsh!


You have no idea


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01 Dec 2012, 10:56 am

AspieRogue wrote:
Vigilans wrote:
AspieRogue wrote:
Vigilans wrote:
They should smack him upside the head until he mans the f*** up! :P


Is that what your boyfriend does? If she did that to me then I'd return the favor by socking her in the mouth next time she cries and then exclaim: "Shut up, woman! Or I'll REALLY give you something to cry about!" :mrgreen:


Aww, AspieRogue still feeling butthurt? They have a cure for that you know. It is probably out of your reach though, as it involves not being a sh** for brains, angsty-virgin twat all the time. How is that pedophile look working for you, btw? You lure any children into your van lately?



Not a virgin, kid. Nice try, though.


"Preventative buttrape" doesn't count, fuckface! :)


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01 Dec 2012, 11:13 am

That's enough for now thanks. The situation is being looked into.


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