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to whom are you talking to, me or blammo

lol@ biting eyes

Now there's your problem.

Firstly, arrogance and not taking resposibility are very offputting traits for a lot of women, especially clever ones. Secondly, if there are that many women that you find "faulty", you yourself are most likely to blame.

I really don't understand this concept of "cool" that you keep going on about. If somebody doesn't do it the way you fancy it, it doesn't make her any worse person.[/quote]
What are talking about? I take resposibilty, It not my fault women don't put in any effort. Nothing is stoping a women from liking me.
How am i to blame. I don't have a gun or calling a women a slut or something like that. So it my fault I always talk to wrong type of women.
Ok, Believe what you ever want.

if you're blaming them for not putting effort then you're not taking responsability

It's rather a fact of life. But of course to accomplish something one has to deal with it (because most girls won't).

if you're blaming them for not putting effort then you're not taking responsability[/quote]
What are you saying? I go up to women and talk to them. I can carry on a conversation with a women.
How is it my fault that alot of women don't know how to talk to me?
If a man go up to a women and say ''hey how is it'' and the women just ignore him.
How is it his fault?
If I went up to a women and say something like ''hey slut want to see my c())'' now I can understand
women being upset and That would be stupid of me.
Look, women can talk too. I've no idea why women are so quiet around me.
Women are never rude to me or even call me creepy or anything like that.
women have no idea how to talk to me.

and last. Even if I go up to a women and the women is not interest in me for whatever reason.
Then how is it my fault? she's just not into me, that's all.
the women could be a lesbian or even married. If a women not interest me I don't go ''gee Im a loser, I have no confidence, and
every women hates me, wah, wah, wah''
I just go ''well, better luck with next lady''. like I said before you are not dealing with a typical dateless man. You are dealing with confidence dateless man.

I go "which one to try next"

they dont talk because they dont know how, they dont talk because they dont want to. youve not given them a reason to want to talk to you. Talking about adam sandler does not make a beautiful conversation.

The problem here is that they perceive being with someone who they don't think is "hot" as the equivalent of dog s**t. I'd say it's more like... Do you want green beans, or do you want ice cream? The ice cream might be more fun, but it's likely to melt before you get to enjoy it all, and it's not really all that good for you in the first place. But the green beans are better for you. They're just not as readily appealing.

Also, how would you like to be referred to as dog s**t by someone you just want a chance to love? That's pretty sh***y, dude.

well, how am I suppose to know if a woman likes adam sandler or not?.
your logic escape me. You act like no woman like adam sandler, Im sure there is alot female adam sandler fans out there. Maybe I could get lucky and find an female adam sandler fan that would love talking about adam sandler, please stop stereotyping women.

Its your logic that is dazzling. in an attempt to appear as someone with a right sense of self youve simply ignored all personal blame and sent it elsewhere. For example the comment you just made about me bundling women. What did you achieve out of it? Because last I checked what i had told you is to try and do more than just dump information on someone. Try to engage them in conversation if you want them to have one. If anything im surprised they stay around to listen to you, which is how i know theres potential here if you're willing to make changes. But until you accept that it is you in the wrong and try to change yourself then you will get nowhere and no ammount of advice will help you, because you wont use it.

It not my fault that the woman I talk to don't like adam sandler, maybe I should join an adam sandler fan club or something? Of course I do talk about others thing other than adam sandler, so I don't always talk about adam sandler. Im not wrong, no not at all. You are not first person I had conversation about this subject. I doubt you be the last one. Im a crazy guy that like talking about random stuff, If a woman like me, cool. If woman hates me, oh well. Your problem is that you act like there is no ''crazy woman'' that like me out there. Who can say I could up to a woman who also like to talking about random stuff like adam sandler,family guy, whatever. I said before 90% of women are just quiet around me but there are that minority of women that I do talk to about random stuff and they do talk back to me and start talking about something else.

I went to a woman at the park and start talking about the olympics and guess what, she talk more stuff to me. it rare but it does happen.
I talk to another woman at my gym go to and guess what she carried on conversation. It was great. Awesome lady.
maybe 90% of women I talk to may not like my style approach but there are woman out there who don't mind or just as crazy as I am.
they may be a minority (not racialy) but they are out there.

You probably should join some sort of fan club. talking about the olympics in a place people go to exercise is far more "normal" interesting than talking about some comedian. You might think its the women, but all women respond to something they like. as i said before, you sound like a good person but need to work on conversational skills with regard to doing more than being friendly.

Maybe I should talk about channing tatum around women,lol. You got a point there, like running club alot of woman there would talk about the olympic. Women do like twilight and all them weird cw shows, so maybe I should talk to women about them awful shows.
cause god forbid a women to ever say anything, but anyway, have a good night

i sense sarcasm here. but anyway, your call. As i said its not so much just what you talk about its more of having a conversation and not just dumping info on them.