Aspergers & Love

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Colton, I am thrilled for you! Welcome to the (soon-to-be) NT spouses club!

^ I really wish there was a "like" button lol.

My hubby holds my hand so hard I lose circulation in my fingers. I think part of it is he is hypo-sensitive to touch, but part of it is like you described. He's holding on like I am the life preserver in the middle of the ocean.

Her: I feel like I have found the love of my life with you. I wish I could fall asleep in you arms every night. I hope that one day I will become your wife and you become my husband. I want to be the person that make your life complete.

I make little notes and cards to give her at work. I gave her this one today ...

No bro, it isn't. And i don't want to be a**** but seriously this is like the eleventh thread you've complained in.

F*cking grow a pair. Seriously, man up. You need to have a spine, NO ONE respects a door mat, and you'll NEVER get a relationship without respect. Realize that YOU are in control of your own destiny and women don't OWE you s**t, not a relationship, a bj, love, respect, sympathy, NONE of it.

You gotta EARN it. EARN it by realising that you don't NEED to have a chick to validate your existance, realize that people try to help you all the time, but your LAZY ass ALWAYS blames society instead of taking initiative and making yourself more attractive the opposite sex. ADAPT! Don't cry about women not wanting you, find out what they want and use that to make yourself more attractive.

If you dig dogs? Volunteer at a shelter. Line dancing, learn a language, be a tutor for college kids, DAMN ANYTHING. Get involved in life, don't watch it from the back seat, maybe then a woman would want to be your co-pilot.

Oh, and Be a Man.”

that guy from Plentyoffish who said that to me, boy i would love to kick his ass really bad, harcore!! !

Uhhh ... is that directed to me for some reason?

I think that one ended up on the wrong thread. You haven't complained about anything.. either that or it was in response to someone back a few pages.. I didn't go that far back. I actually thought it was a comment on another thread I am reading... and it was appropriate there lol. As much as I get that social experiences are more diffiuclt as an Aspie you do have to at least step out of your comfort zone and make an effort on your own behalf... but that could not have been directed at you Colton.

Her: I can't belive you have a king size bed to your whole self.

Me: Just need someone to share it with.

Her: I hope I will be able to be the one to share it with you for the rest of our lives.

Me: Yes ... just you and me.

Her: You are the best boyfriend ever. You don't ever have to worry about me ever leaving you. I will always be there for you. I thought I would never find the love of my life and that I would be alone the rest of my life. I have always wanted someone that would love taking care of me. Now that I have found you. I won't have to just think about it anymore. I want you to be the first and last person for the rest of our lives. I love you so much. You mean the world to me. I can't wait till we are alone again.



I may be going out on a limb here, but I think she likes me.

Maybe just a little lol.... I am seriously so happy to read a story so similar to my own. Makes me believe in fairy tales again. Have you met her parents yet? Enjoy every second... Because ya know what... You ain't seen Nuthin yet. You think it is great now? You already can feel how this is so much different than an NT new girlfriend saying these things. Not that an NT doesn't mean it when she says it. She does mean it but the feeling the deep pure honest feeling... Nothing better than an AS/NT relationship. I have always required a certain amount of time alone. No matter how much I love someone I needed time to myself. Although I am not clingy or expect my bf to never leave the house without me... We both have jobs and activities that take us away from each other for a bit but truly I prefer to be with him. I am most relaxed with him and I don't need time apart. He had to go out of town for 4 days. We had only ever spent one night apart and I tell you I was empty without him and he felt the same. It was so nice to get him back home last night. There is nothing better than a love like this. Now if we could gather up all the people we know who complain about not having someone and Olay match maker with some of the great people here

It does make women look pathetic. They just get away with it a little longer than men

We're spending a lot more time alone and she just wants to cuddle (no problem!). She wrote this when she got home ...

"I will never leave you so you don't have to be afraid that you will scare me off. You are my first and only serious boyfriend that I will have. There will never be anyone else in my life beside you. You have made my life much happier then ever. It's really hard for me to say this face to face. It's hard for me to express my feelings in front of you but I hope soon I will be able to say how I feel about you face to face. I never want to loose you out of my life. I love you so much that words can't express I much I love you. You make my life complete. I thought I would never find someone so loving as you."

Meeting her parents next weekend.