some lady got mad at me

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eww. Oh, now i know why i said eww

In short women don't like being yelled at!

long time ago I was at party and there a young woman there and she would grind her ass against guy dick there.
without permission, she would just go to them and start grinding.

at the same party, I was lying on the bed and she went up to me and wrap her legs me. and stay there.
and at the time I had a gf. and it was very ackward for me. I wasn't sure what I was suppose to do.

yeah, is that party girl creepy. come on ladies be honest. If a woman sexualy grab a man, and say sexual things towards a guy, is she creepy. or us men just suppose to enjoy women grabing us without our permission.
''because as a man, every women has every rights to touch me and if I don't like it, then gee I must be a f-- than.''
I want to hear you ladies answer on this. Probaly going make some excuse for the women who sexualy harrassed me.
(oh,they just playing. oh,you should man up, oh what are you a homo or something)

If a girl makes sexual advances toward you that are unwanted, then yes, that is creepy. If she yells "hey, sexy" and you are creeped out by it, then yes, that is creepy.

It wasn't creepy, it was sleazy.

and ladies. I had a guy grab my d-ck once. and he also grab my ass (which I did not like) but I don't want get into too much detail on who he was or where it happen at.

and legit creepy guy or at least weird guys always want to talk to me. I be minding my own buisness and some weird/creepy guy start telling me all these weird s**t. so ladies, don't think for one moment that legit creepy guy only bother you ladies.
they can bother us guys too.

I am also nervous around certian people. Like teenagers, If I see a group of teenagers I always walk in different direction.
I've walk by group of teenagers before who would yell thing at me and try to start a fight with me.

just become I am guy doesn't mean I don't go threw bs.
Look I am tough, but I come across as wimpy.

I agree it's sleazy, and gross. And to me it doesn't matter what you look like, it's still sleazy and gross. Some people might call that creepy too. I've notice the word creepy can have several connotations, creepy as in scary, or something that that instils a sense of fear. Or creepy as in an unwelcome gesture or comment that just makes you feel generally uncomfortable or uneasy.

Okay, but how is all this hollering at women working out for you? Not very well. So why not just change your approach? Because if not we'll be seeing a thread that reads 'I grabbed some lady's butt and she got mad at me'. Guarantee I won't reply.

I personally, get more pissed off then scored when I get hot on. You've known me for almost 2 minutes and want my number? What the hell is wrong with you?! You don't know me, and why would I give my number out to a total stranger? It especially pisses me off because it make e uncomfortable. It's great you want to get laid, but try at a bar, where women go in with te expectation of giving their number to a total stranger.
Side note: Last 4 times I was uncomfortable being asked out:
1) Brand new room mate. Knew him 2 hours before th as*hole wants to date ('bang,' really). Move out of there in 2 weeks & spent as little time as possible there before I left
2) Downstairs neighbour asked me out after knowing me for 5 minutes. No, creepy mothereffer. No.
3) Guy at the corner store asked me out. I don't go there anymore. It sucks because it is right by m house (he asked if he had my number after knowing me maybe 2 minutes)
4) Guy at 7-11 around the corner wanted my number. Understood I have a boyfriend. Seems nice, like he won't keep harassing me, but I am not taking chances.
Th last two guys are cashiers, so there is every chance I will run into those bstards if I go back All of this has happened over the last 2 years.

I am not in it just to get laid, lol. I have my own issues about comfort level as well as lack of living space to have my boyfriend stay overnight, mixed in with a good taste of "I don't know what I want," so I don't communicate my desires because they all conflict

To be honest, even if the girl on the street gave you her number, would you really want it? Yeah, easy lay, but how many other people did she do it to/with? Did she use protection with every one of them? And does she even care about you as a human being?