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19 Feb 2013, 3:59 pm

I won't dare. Bet she's just round the corner waiting to pounce...

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19 Feb 2013, 4:05 pm

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You haven't explained what leads you to think you might have Aspergers


Trust me, I am.

I think analytically, black and white, friendships are very difficult, like routines...etc. etc.


Who's to say that it's not possible to still be a NT but be more sensitive than average and have asperger-like traits?

How are friendships difficult? You're good looking = Nts love you = end of story

That's how it's always appeared to me

You evidently have friends and most NTs dont' find friendships easy anyway - they're always moaning about each other on the NT forums I look at eg Digital Spy and TSR - a student one

it's constant angst!



No, NT's don't just love me because of my looks. It's a very wrong assumption. Social skills mean so very much more actually. I do not really connect with them, and they definitely feel that.

I view the world fundamentally differently.



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19 Feb 2013, 4:06 pm

qawer wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
qawer wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
You haven't explained what leads you to think you might have Aspergers


Trust me, I am.

I think analytically, black and white, friendships are very difficult, like routines...etc. etc.


Who's to say that it's not possible to still be a NT but be more sensitive than average and have asperger-like traits?

How are friendships difficult? You're good looking = Nts love you = end of story

That's how it's always appeared to me

You evidently have friends and most NTs dont' find friendships easy anyway - they're always moaning about each other on the NT forums I look at eg Digital Spy and TSR - a student one

it's constant angst!



No, NT's don't just love me because of my looks. It's a very wrong assumption. Social skills mean so very much more actually. I do not really connect with them, and they definitely feel that.

I view the world fundamentally differently.


Do you feel more at home on WP then?



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19 Feb 2013, 4:10 pm

aspiesandra27 wrote:
I won't dare. Bet she's just round the corner waiting to pounce...

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Since you are also in Europe, you have my permission 8)



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19 Feb 2013, 4:12 pm

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Do you feel more at home on WP then?


Waaay more. So nice to be here :D



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19 Feb 2013, 4:16 pm

qawer, where in Europe are you?



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19 Feb 2013, 4:18 pm

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qawer, where in Europe are you?


Scandinavia...something tells me there are very few of those in here



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19 Feb 2013, 4:32 pm

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qawer, where in Europe are you?


Scandinavia...something tells me there are very few of those in here


More than you'd think

A fair few people from all over the world

I thought you were English



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19 Feb 2013, 4:34 pm

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Speak for yourself Boo.

Speak out. We are all gay friendly.


Ok ok, I am gay.

Now, hug me, Miss gay-friendly.

((( strong hug)))

ooo sandra...you have a squeezable ass.



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19 Feb 2013, 4:46 pm

nessa238 wrote:
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qawer, where in Europe are you?


Scandinavia...something tells me there are very few of those in here


More than you'd think

A fair few people from all over the world

I thought you were English


English, how come?



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19 Feb 2013, 4:51 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Speak for yourself Boo.

Speak out. We are all gay friendly.


Ok ok, I am gay.

Now, hug me, Miss gay-friendly.

((( strong hug)))

ooo sandra...you have a squeezable ass.


I'd say she was obliged now!!



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19 Feb 2013, 4:51 pm

qawer wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
qawer wrote:
aspiesandra27 wrote:
qawer, where in Europe are you?


Scandinavia...something tells me there are very few of those in here


More than you'd think

A fair few people from all over the world

I thought you were English


English, how come?


How you looked, dressed, the background scenes in the photos, and how you spoke



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19 Feb 2013, 4:56 pm

nessa238 wrote:
qawer wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
qawer wrote:
aspiesandra27 wrote:
qawer, where in Europe are you?


Scandinavia...something tells me there are very few of those in here


More than you'd think

A fair few people from all over the world

I thought you were English


English, how come?


How you looked, dressed, the background scenes in the photos, and how you spoke


Daaayyum, I'm really proud of that last part :D



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19 Feb 2013, 4:58 pm

qawer wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
qawer wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
qawer wrote:
aspiesandra27 wrote:
qawer, where in Europe are you?


Scandinavia...something tells me there are very few of those in here


More than you'd think

A fair few people from all over the world

I thought you were English


English, how come?


How you looked, dressed, the background scenes in the photos, and how you spoke


Daaayyum, I'm really proud of that last part :D


Why?

What's so good about sounding English?



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19 Feb 2013, 5:01 pm

nessa238 wrote:
qawer wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
qawer wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
qawer wrote:
aspiesandra27 wrote:
qawer, where in Europe are you?


Scandinavia...something tells me there are very few of those in here


More than you'd think

A fair few people from all over the world

I thought you were English


English, how come?


How you looked, dressed, the background scenes in the photos, and how you spoke


Daaayyum, I'm really proud of that last part :D


Why?

What's so good about sounding English?


A nice compliment when I'm not native :wink:



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19 Feb 2013, 5:04 pm

qawer wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
qawer wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
qawer wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
qawer wrote:
aspiesandra27 wrote:
qawer, where in Europe are you?


Scandinavia...something tells me there are very few of those in here


More than you'd think

A fair few people from all over the world

I thought you were English


English, how come?


How you looked, dressed, the background scenes in the photos, and how you spoke


Daaayyum, I'm really proud of that last part :D


Why?

What's so good about sounding English?


A nice compliment when I'm not native :wink:


Not if you knew what a lot of English people are like!

This should give you some idea:-

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/home/index.html