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I agree that those upper-ear and nose piercings often make fairly attractive chicks look ugly, and it was obviously something they had complete control over too.

I think everybody else has said this already, but I think Wolfheart's post was really mean. I think it sounds totally reasonable for the girl to say that you lied about how you felt about her if you said you cared about her but then told her about another girl that you liked better.

I've never pretended like there wasn't any other woman who was prettier than the girl I was with, and I always told her the truth if it came up, but I hope I wasn't this bad. I usually tried to tell her something like, "you're good enough for me," or something like that if she was really persistent about comparing herself to other girls. I know I've certainly never shared private messages like that before.

Also I think that if I held all my partners up to my own expectations, then I would have no compatible partners. I probably can't do a lot of things that a lot of people take for granted too.

Wow, that is just plain rude. I didn´t even read past the first 10 lines to see that was really offensive.

I'm not being evil, I'm not breaking any laws or hitting women, there are men who beat women and they still get away with it. I wouldn't dare hit a woman or do anything physically aggressively, sometimes I may hurt a woman emotionally but that's because of misunderstandings caused by my AS when I can't read the situation as well and there are times I am temperamental and could act better but who doesn't experience moments like those?

Holy crap..

That was horrible and it made me sad to read it. Why did you tell her those things if you didn't mean them? ugh this thread has made me very sad/angry now..

I am curious... what is it that you want to correct? Do you want to fix the way you spoke to that woman or do you want to fix how you judged her on appearance? Also what are you looking for a FWB, a relationship, or just plain sex? Do you want someone to accompany you as you work out?

When is it going to sink in that just because it wasn't illegal doesn't mean it wasn't a really, really horrible thing to do?

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Ok. I´ve read the entire topic and came to the conclusion this must be fake. Great OP, wolfheart, very creative. I´m not buying it though. I know that even you wouldn´t say these things

Yes, you have acted "evil" and you have clearly crossed the line of what is acceptable.

Physical violence hasn't been the topic in this thread and the existence of men who beat women doesn't make you "good" or your acts any better.

Your behaviour towards that girl is not due to AS or she being an NT. You might want to remember that you are not the only person with AS on this forum and it is not down to you to tell others that hurting other people is "written" on you and out of your control due to AS.

You've been told many times enough to take responsibility. Still an epic fail it seems....

I've seen his posts, it doesn't seem too far off from his mentality.
II don't see the harm in allowing to him to have these delusions of grandeur; it's not me who will end up alone waiting for barbie in that scenario.

I know, I do take responsibility and I have the situation completely under control. I know artists can be temperamental and it appears that there was simply a clash of two temperamental personalities with a lot of passion involved.

Everyone may be justified from their own biased view, that is what I am aware of. Everyone plays one dimensional roles in a perfect world but what you aren't realizing is that characters in this play are multi-dimensional. Like I said, there are many variables and factors that come into play, there may a singular choice leading to a singular result but there are also factors and clashes of personality.

Bullpucky.

Beauty fades. Dumb is forever.

...So does this mean that you are going to apologize? Not "explain yourself," but apologize?

I was going to hold this back but just to clear things
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Yes, that's a Convo with wolf

It isn't my intention to hurt anyone, nobody plans for these types of scenarios, sometimes they happen and sometimes I make mistakes. Fortunately I have a good family and a few best friends who forgive and accept me and they have been an immense support to me, I am grateful for them and I am grateful for the love time people have taken.

I believe many kids with asperger's can benefit from athletic programs and I would like to work to help others at same point, I'm not saying that I can make someone Donald Trump or Russell Brand but if I can give someone the meaning, the reason to take a stand against intolerance and believe in themselves, it means something to me. I believe in myself and I believe in others as well but sometimes I might not express that in the most empathetic way.

Look at guys like Arnold Schwarzenegger, back in the day, they used to say some outrageous things. Nobody is perfect after all and to be honest, there are far worse incidents of domestic violence and injustice happening in the world than me telling a girl that I need someone who is compatible with my fitness goals, I sent her a text to meet for coffee.