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appletheclown
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29 Apr 2013, 8:26 am

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If you believe you are a broken man, you are a broken man. Believing you can do with what you have the things that NT's do, that is what I think I can do. They will think I am a 'broken man'? Wolfheart, seriously you believe that load of rubbish? Being an aspie just means you will have a harder time with with these things, it doesn't mean there are not women out there who don't think of you as a normal person. I am in no way broken, and will not waste my time with women who consider asd and autistic people as such, unless they are willing to learn. I am not broken, my no means at all. Asperger's break me? No I will break it.

Not broken in that sense but people do expect you to act or be a certain way if you fit a certain look when you are on the spectrum. In other words, the girl will see you as different and might try to change that instead of accepting your individualistic traits and talents, that is a difficult compromise. My Asperger's syndrome make me who I am in creativity and I do what I love creatively, that defines me but it is still difficult not being able to make friends easily.

The thing is, I'm actually quite good at making friends, and I apologize for forgetting some people on this site have not gained that ability or have that experience. But for all those who haven't, once you learn these skills, it is like being freed of a weight you've carried for along time, and makes you feel much more included. Not only that, when I make these friends, they don't look at me as some outcast, they enjoy my company. When I let them know I was not afraid of doing fun things without worry about how awkward I would look, they usually looked past these things. Also letting go of things like teasing, allowed me to grow my sense of humor, and let them know that I wasn't going to be all shy and offended and start crying. I have experience with making friends, which has made me very couragous in social situations for an aspie. I tend to think because people are aspies they must know how this stuff feels and how freeing it is to be able to make friends, and I apologize. But I still urge everyone, not just aspies, to get off your arse and make something of the day. If not off your arse then make something like a craft, or carve wood. Just suggestions, but they all helped me.

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29 Apr 2013, 9:20 am

The fact that you are thinking about this issue at 15 puts you at least 10 years ahead of me and I'm doing alright.

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29 Apr 2013, 9:58 am

I am fine with making friends, but not at keeping them or having close friends. I am a lonely island stranded in a sea of associates.

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29 Apr 2013, 10:31 am

I missed out the boob talk? Damn.

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29 Apr 2013, 11:05 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I missed out the boob talk? Damn.

I am eighteen. You are 31. The fact that you are interested in my boobs is extremely creepy.

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29 Apr 2013, 6:18 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I missed out the boob talk? Damn.

Boo drop it there, wolfheart got banned a bit ago for bothering her about her boobs, knock it off please, thanks.

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01 May 2013, 10:51 pm

Hey guys. I don't think like this anymore. It is all a misunderstanding. This doesn't worry me anymore. Sorry for posting this.

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02 May 2013, 10:38 pm

Nevermind. I do not apply to why I said anymore. I am fine the way I am. Nothing to see here people and what I said is now outdated and no longer in my mind.

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03 May 2013, 11:57 am

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PS I will also add this--

If all one wants to do is get laid, you can simply pay someone. However, many girls will not go near a guy who they sense is just looking to get in their pants. If they do, they play games with guys like that, or they outwardly reject them. A girl wants to sense she is valued as a human being first, appreciated and admired for her good qualities. But she doesn't want a guy who has no other prospects. This is where it gets tricky. Because it's that old stupid Marx saying that "I wouldn't want to be in a club that would have me as a member." If you exude some confidence (not desperation) that if the girl isn't your last resort or only hope, then she will likely see YOU as the prize and look to win you over the competition. Even if there is nobody else, you must have the confidence AS IF you had them lining up. Just don't be an a$$hole about it. It's about attitude. Be real and don't make it into a game otherwise you might not like the outcome.

Also, about having sex... Just because you CAN have sex doesn't mean you SHOULD. If you are unable to deal with the emotional ties or get too obsessive about it, then you shouldn't do it. Because that will creep a girl out and you might not make the best decisions, or worst yet, decisions that may get you into trouble with the wrong girl. So, you must be intellectually and emotionally ready these days to do that. Otherwise you may regret it. Just sayin.

Work on #1 and then the rest will follow. Don't let the people here set the example for you. You are the captain of your own ship. Envision a reality and go for it.

actual the guys who just want to get into ''women pants'' are more succesful than the guys who aren't (look at the nice guy vs players)
and confidence does not work. it only works if the guy is good looking or just happen to be the girl's type.

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03 May 2013, 12:08 pm

PsychoSarah wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I missed out the boob talk? Damn.

I am eighteen. You are 31. The fact that you are interested in my boobs is extremely creepy.

The hell with you and with your SICK mind!! ! My post was simply a joke about something happened, not a sign of interest in you.

I am in no way nor form interested in anything about you. Did I ever pmed you? No I didn't and I won't, so don't attempt to throw me in the same basket of the pervs who were messaging you.

The last thing I need is a constant attention-seeker drama-queen teen and another teen white knight drama-God (who was one of the pervs!!) like you two trying to paint me as a pedophile or perv.

Now go back to your Sims and legos.

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03 May 2013, 2:49 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

PsychoSarah wrote:

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I missed out the boob talk? Damn.

I am eighteen. You are 31. The fact that you are interested in my boobs is extremely creepy.

According to what the facts are, I never pm'ed her any inappropriate things, nor did I take part in the thread that got wolf heart banned. I was one of the guys that misunderstood her, and she thought I was perverted for understandable reasons because of it. I know you are not a pervert either.
I'm an adult, 19, less than a year I'll be 20.

But keep calling me a white knight, the drama I create is a side effect of my presence, it can't be helped.

She painted me too, and it wasn't very good art.

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03 May 2013, 3:58 pm

Ah sorry ok about the perv part, appleclown, I thought you pmed her or posted stuff, yet I still think you're a drama boy :p.

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03 May 2013, 4:35 pm

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Ah sorry ok about the perv part, appleclown, I thought you pmed her or posted stuff, yet I still think you're a drama boy :p.

That is ok, it's just part of the experience...

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06 May 2013, 9:34 am

appletheclown wrote:

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Ah sorry ok about the perv part, appleclown, I thought you pmed her or posted stuff, yet I still think you're a drama boy :p.

That is ok, it's just part of the experience...

What exp?

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06 May 2013, 11:17 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

appletheclown wrote:

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Ah sorry ok about the perv part, appleclown, I thought you pmed her or posted stuff, yet I still think you're a drama boy :p.

That is ok, it's just part of the experience...

What exp?

of experiencing me...! :lol:

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06 May 2013, 11:21 am

appletheclown wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

appletheclown wrote:

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Ah sorry ok about the perv part, appleclown, I thought you pmed her or posted stuff, yet I still think you're a drama boy :p.

That is ok, it's just part of the experience...

What exp?

of experiencing me...! :lol:

Eww

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