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Does a person have to be physically attractive for you to date him or her?
Poll ended at 14 Oct 2013, 5:05 am
It's not just about phys. attraction. There's much more to a relationship than just phys. attraction 49%  49%  [ 31 ]
Phys. attraction isn't necessary for me. It's his or her inner beauty that matters to me> 13%  13%  [ 8 ]
I only date hot chicks. 8%  8%  [ 5 ]
It's so hard for me to find s.one, I'd be happy with a girl, as long as she's reasonable -looking (not ugly). 30%  30%  [ 19 ]
Total votes : 63

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08 Oct 2013, 7:41 am

The concept of a "good body" changes over time

The concept of a "good mind" and a "good heart" are eternal



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08 Oct 2013, 8:11 am

it's so personal though. There are a ton of attractive men I know that I am not attracted to. They are lovely and nice and wonderful, but I just don't feel it. I am sure a lot of people feel that same way about me. It's weird how attraction works really, you can't second guess it, it either happens or it doesn't.



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08 Oct 2013, 8:14 am

leafplant wrote:
it's so personal though. There are a ton of attractive men I know that I am not attracted to. They are lovely and nice and wonderful, but I just don't feel it. I am sure a lot of people feel that same way about me. It's weird how attraction works really, you can't second guess it, it either happens or it doesn't.


Are there ugly men that your attracted to?



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08 Oct 2013, 8:41 am

i'm the Brad Pitt of mongooses



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08 Oct 2013, 1:00 pm

Codyrules37 wrote:
i'm the Brad Pitt of mongooses


Cody, you make me lol. xD

Yo people, overall, pursue what you value most and find someone with similar interests.



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08 Oct 2013, 3:27 pm

Just thought this might be intereresting to post here. It's something that I remember coming up in a Sociology class I took, and it's fascinating enough to have stuck with me ever since.

CONCLUSIONS: The phi mask model supports averageness or prototypicality of the face as being the major component of the facial attractiveness gestalt and is a first step in producing an objective system for measuring facial attractiveness.

What this (and some other studies) has shown is that while people can have preferences for certain traits, there are some traits that determine objective attractiveness. This has been found to span across all cultures and throughout time.

The things that do factor into objective attractiveness, for both males and females:
- Facial configuration (the "phi mask" in the link above)
- Large eyes are typically seen as more attractive than small eyes
- Round face is typically seen as more attractive than a long face
- Body ratio ('V' shape for men and hourglass figure for women always increases objective attractiveness)
- Looking generally physically healthy (things like smoking, drinking, and doing drugs can all have a negative effect on one's objective attractiveness as they start to have a visible physical effect, as well as anything else that results in an unhealthy appearance).

The things that don't specifically factor into objective attractiveness, but can be found to be subjectively attractive (the preferential variables), often based on social conditioning:
- Skin, hair, and eye color
- Height
- Weight (note here that being being either too overweight or underweight can both have a negative affect the objective body ratio point above though, making it typically best to be at your natural body weight)
- Basically anything else not listed in these lists