What are your non-negotiables? (apart from must love cats)

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well off to etiquette school.....

unfortunately, been there done that and have the diploma.

seriously , I have a step relative ie not blood related and she was sent from the uk to Switzerland to one of theses schools since she wasn't changed in a way that was satisfactory to her step mom they had a real falling out.

well the way i look, i was trained to source and catch a rich man...

silly me

I'm still waiting for that pm.....

my partner fixes waste for smiths chips. i am who and what i am.

no not that jrpg's ....

Female

Okay with me playing violin everyday.

Hates cats but likes dogs.

Doesn't scream or yell preferably soft spoken.

Interesting.

Intelligent.

Somewhat kinkey.

Outdoorsy.

Likes guns. ( Nothing is sexier than a girl who can kill me with her little finger.)

Politics don't matter too much as long as she can stay logical.

Direct and always completely honest.

Good personality
Mutual enjoyment of each other fairly early, but not attraction
If it goes beyond that, me making her happy and happy with more intimate things and that it lasts, and her making me etc....
Not afraid of dead animals in freezers in the basement for dinner (squirrels, chipmunks, deer, moose, bear, liver, heart).
Everything else is a bonus.
(likes eccentric men)

^ y only objections to your non negotiables are that I am more than twice your age and that bears are basically overgrown cats. Otherwise, I am all for free range meat.

This isn't really a non negotiable, but a turn on of mine are girls who can speak more than one language even though I can't (yet)

no smoking
same thing about cheating and discussion of open relationship
must work with me...it's a big plus if we work together like partners to become better people....if she gets me off my @ss, i'll help her off hers
Must be female...obvious reasons
Must not manipulate me
Must not use me
must not be a b!tch lol
...seriously debating...must be vegetarian
no kids
srs tho...i could go a couple weeks w/no sex, but just cuddling

idk I don't think I'm that demanding

I think I can live with a woman, however:
- Must not want sex
- Cuddling is out of the question
- Must like cats
- Likes to dine out
- Likes to go to the movies
- Doesn't care much for TV outside of news
- Doesn't yell
- Isn't annoying
- Is a non-smoker
- Is adventurous food wise
- Doesn't lecture me about the stranger things I eat
- Must like restaurants of all ethnicities
- Is interested in camping out
- Drinks beer or wine but not hard liquor
- Won't slit my throat when I'm sleeping

- male ( ages 18-33)
- patient and tolerant
- doesn't play mind games
- good hygiene
- takes things slow
- average or above average looks
- direct and up front
- nice to everyone and doesn't focus much on social status
- Socially awkward or different
- likes animals and nature
- applies himself
- attractive voice

Last edited by slw1990 on 13 Jan 2014, 2:09 pm, edited 2 times in total.

Must be female

Intelligent (If I spend my life with someone, I have to be able to have an intelligent conversation with them. They don't have to be a super genius, just someone who loves to learn)

Kindhearted (If you know Carrie from The King of Queens, then think the opposite of her. Someone who likes to volunteer, and likes children and animals)

Religious (I want to be a minister one day, and that is kind of a prerequisite. I'm not one of those Christians that go around damming people and burning books, but religion is still an important aspect of my life)

Wants children, I cannot imagine not being a father someday

At least mildly affectionate

Likes my cooking (I'm only a novice, but by the time I get married I'll be better)

Someone who will listen when I need to talk, because all my life I've been surrounded by people who ignore me because I'm autistic. I need someone who takes me seriously when something upsets me, and to that effect I need someone around whom I feel comfortable expressing my thoughts and feelings. Someone who I can look at and feel calm

Last edited by Asperger96 on 13 Jan 2014, 2:57 pm, edited 2 times in total.

A lot of people have some very long lists here. I've narrowed mine down to three

1.) Must be fairly attractive. (White, maybe hispanic or asian, not to fat or to skinny)
2.) Must have their life together to some degree (No train wrecks)
3.) Must not be boring (If your idea of life is sitting at home day and night, don't bother me.)