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I disagree. The OP never acted on these thoughts. There is a big difference between thinking something and doing it.
I think Love and Dating was the wrong forum, though. This topic couldn't have less to do with love and dating.
That isn't the point. The point is the high concentration of "creepiness" of aspies in society is brought on by threads like this.
I disagree. The OP never acted on these thoughts. There is a big difference between thinking something and doing it.
I think Love and Dating was the wrong forum, though. This topic couldn't have less to do with love and dating.
That isn't the point. The point is the high concentration of "creepiness" of aspies in society is brought on by threads like this.
I have seen many examples of creepiness on this site. This one doesn't seem remarkably so.
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I disagree. The OP never acted on these thoughts. There is a big difference between thinking something and doing it.
I think Love and Dating was the wrong forum, though. This topic couldn't have less to do with love and dating.
That isn't the point. The point is the high concentration of "creepiness" of aspies in society is brought on by threads like this.
What is this I don't even...
People are very aware of being able to not stereotype. If you feel that you're going to be thought of as a rapist because one aspie posted that he's thought about raping someone in real situation, then perhaps you should check how you perceive others yourself, as you seem unclear as how to distinguish a person from a group, thinking that everyone else will do the same to you. What you should be upset about is stereotyping...
You have NO RIGHT to get upset at someone for talking about themselves because you feel that is misrepresents you. How self-centered are you??
I too find it more towards the brave side that the OP posted about this. I don't know why people are aghast, we KNOW rape happens, rapists exist. That's why I'm not like 'omg, horror!' Perhaps the OP's post is going to help some poor young guy who's feeling something similar to go find a prostitute instead now. Anyways, I'm not sure how having a discussion about such a topic is a bad thing. Unless you think people are going to feel like it's suddenly more acceptable to rape people or something.
Rape's wrong, it shouldn't happen, but people have violent and criminal thoughts and sometimes actions too. Not talking about it doesn't change that.
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Did you see that other "rapist" thread? Well threads like this online encourage the stereotype that aspie like people are rapists in the media.
In my country we had a case with a supposed aspie (according to court psych experts) going into a home and raping a woman in front of her 3-5y daughter. And for years there have been loads of news about the notorious trusemannen\the panty man who harass young girls.
You really think this thread have any impact whatsoever compared to all the bad press in real medias planet over? On a now long disclosed Norwegian forum an aspie girl complained about the aspies in news stories where too ugly too unstylish and where losers, she wanted only attractive successful aspies to be featured in order to make asperger look better.
I have not gone to a psych since I got this diagnosis 10y ago, and I have no interest in wasting money on nothing, infact what I would have to pay for a shrink I can f**k a ok looking student for in eastern Europe. I started this thread out of curiosity and I am not into pretending I am any more sympathetic than I am (yes I am stupid). I don`t think this is just personal either, rape is a common thing, while assault rape is not that common most places, here like everywhere in the west quite a few boys rape sleep drunk girls at parties and nachspiels I don`t think that is usually a power thing but a way to get p**** easy there and then and without that much risk depending on situation, and I would guess most who have done it and where not too drunk themselves did a calculation before putting it in.
8 yes, a bit unclear about what they account as similar though
35 no
But yeah it`s just me halebopp
Well being of other humans is not best served by people having these kinds of attitudes and thinking that's acceptable. Thanks for pointing out how much you disrespect Eastern European students. I hope when your trial comes around that you find yourself facing a judge who was that student once.
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Did you see that other "rapist" thread? Well threads like this online encourage the stereotype that aspie like people are rapists in the media.
In my country we had a case with a supposed aspie (according to court psych experts) going into a home and raping a woman in front of her 3-5y daughter. And for years there have been loads of news about the notorious trusemannen\the panty man who harass young girls.
You really think this thread have any impact whatsoever compared to all the bad press in real medias planet over? On a now long disclosed Norwegian forum an aspie girl complained about the aspies in news stories where too ugly too unstylish and where losers, she wanted only attractive successful aspies to be featured in order to make asperger look better.
I have not gone to a psych since I got this diagnosis 10y ago, and I have no interest in wasting money on nothing, infact what I would have to pay for a shrink I can f**k a ok looking student for in eastern Europe. I started this thread out of curiosity and I am not into pretending I am any more sympathetic than I am (yes I am stupid). I don`t think this is just personal either, rape is a common thing, while assault rape is not that common most places, here like everywhere in the west quite a few boys rape sleep drunk girls at parties and nachspiels I don`t think that is usually a power thing but a way to get p**** easy there and then and without that much risk depending on situation, and I would guess most who have done it and where not too drunk themselves did a calculation before putting it in.
8 yes, a bit unclear about what they account as similar though
35 no
But yeah it`s just me halebopp
Not brave then, but stupid. Shame. Guess it is it's own form of bravery.
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Did you see that other "rapist" thread? Well threads like this online encourage the stereotype that aspie like people are rapists in the media.
In my country we had a case with a supposed aspie (according to court psych experts) going into a home and raping a woman in front of her 3-5y daughter. And for years there have been loads of news about the notorious trusemannen\the panty man who harass young girls.
You really think this thread have any impact whatsoever compared to all the bad press in real medias planet over? On a now long disclosed Norwegian forum an aspie girl complained about the aspies in news stories where too ugly too unstylish and where losers, she wanted only attractive successful aspies to be featured in order to make asperger look better.
I have not gone to a psych since I got this diagnosis 10y ago, and I have no interest in wasting money on nothing, infact what I would have to pay for a shrink I can f**k a ok looking student for in eastern Europe. I started this thread out of curiosity and I am not into pretending I am any more sympathetic than I am (yes I am stupid). I don`t think this is just personal either, rape is a common thing, while assault rape is not that common most places, here like everywhere in the west quite a few boys rape sleep drunk girls at parties and nachspiels I don`t think that is usually a power thing but a way to get p**** easy there and then and without that much risk depending on situation, and I would guess most who have done it and where not too drunk themselves did a calculation before putting it in.
8 yes, a bit unclear about what they account as similar though
35 no
But yeah it`s just me halebopp
lol
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I disagree. The OP never acted on these thoughts. There is a big difference between thinking something and doing it.
I think Love and Dating was the wrong forum, though. This topic couldn't have less to do with love and dating.
That isn't the point. The point is the high concentration of "creepiness" of aspies in society is brought on by threads like this.
I have seen many examples of creepiness on this site. This one doesn't seem remarkably so.
lol
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I disagree. The OP never acted on these thoughts. There is a big difference between thinking something and doing it.
I think Love and Dating was the wrong forum, though. This topic couldn't have less to do with love and dating.
That isn't the point. The point is the high concentration of "creepiness" of aspies in society is brought on by threads like this.
What is this I don't even...
People are very aware of being able to not stereotype. If you feel that you're going to be thought of as a rapist because one aspie posted that he's thought about raping someone in real situation, then perhaps you should check how you perceive others yourself, as you seem unclear as how to distinguish a person from a group, thinking that everyone else will do the same to you. What you should be upset about is stereotyping...
You have NO RIGHT to get upset at someone for talking about themselves because you feel that is misrepresents you. How self-centered are you??
I too find it more towards the brave side that the OP posted about this. I don't know why people are aghast, we KNOW rape happens, rapists exist. That's why I'm not like 'omg, horror!' Perhaps the OP's post is going to help some poor young guy who's feeling something similar to go find a prostitute instead now. Anyways, I'm not sure how having a discussion about such a topic is a bad thing. Unless you think people are going to feel like it's suddenly more acceptable to rape people or something.
Rape's wrong, it shouldn't happen, but people have violent and criminal thoughts and sometimes actions too. Not talking about it doesn't change that.
lol
What trial? He hasn't committed any crime. The OP mentions having disturbing thoughts but he never acted on them.
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Did you see that other "rapist" thread? Well threads like this online encourage the stereotype that aspie like people are rapists in the media.
In my country we had a case with a supposed aspie (according to court psych experts) going into a home and raping a woman in front of her 3-5y daughter. And for years there have been loads of news about the notorious trusemannen\the panty man who harass young girls.
You really think this thread have any impact whatsoever compared to all the bad press in real medias planet over? On a now long disclosed Norwegian forum an aspie girl complained about the aspies in news stories where too ugly too unstylish and where losers, she wanted only attractive successful aspies to be featured in order to make asperger look better.
I have not gone to a psych since I got this diagnosis 10y ago, and I have no interest in wasting money on nothing, infact what I would have to pay for a shrink I can f**k a ok looking student for in eastern Europe. I started this thread out of curiosity and I am not into pretending I am any more sympathetic than I am (yes I am stupid). I don`t think this is just personal either, rape is a common thing, while assault rape is not that common most places, here like everywhere in the west quite a few boys rape sleep drunk girls at parties and nachspiels I don`t think that is usually a power thing but a way to get p**** easy there and then and without that much risk depending on situation, and I would guess most who have done it and where not too drunk themselves did a calculation before putting it in.
8 yes, a bit unclear about what they account as similar though
35 no
But yeah it`s just me halebopp
leafplant is referring to this.
Nordmann's thoughts are just chilling and disturbing in my opinion
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What trial? He hasn't committed any crime. The OP mentions having disturbing thoughts but he never acted on them.
True that, but I think she believes, based on his tone and attitude, that he will commit something bad some time in the future.
Ummm, prostitutes exist, that's what nordmann's comment was about. Using a prostitute. I'm guessing prices vary drastically depending on where you are. It didn't seem like a racially biased or hateful comment to me at all. No wait, it was a hateful comment about psychiatrists. And as medical professionals who are probably just as subject to the whims of big pharma as other doctors, which affects everything from their studies to what they prescribe, I concur.
But it doesn't surprise me that the same people who are horrified that someone bring up their own dark thoughts about something that, to the OP, is a non-issue now (that's why they even could manage to bring it up in the first place I gather), would then get upset at the much more healthy way the person deals with their sexual urges as that too being too horrifying also.
Face it nordmann, nothing you can say will change their minds now, you're an evil person, any sexual thoughts or urges you have are evil, the way you have sex with hookers is evil and your opinions about disliking rape yourself will be ignored.
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But it doesn't surprise me that the same people who are horrified that someone bring up their own dark thoughts about something that, to the OP, is a non-issue now (that's why they even could manage to bring it up in the first place I gather), would then get upset at the much more healthy way the person deals with their sexual urges as that too being too horrifying also.
Face it nordmann, nothing you can say will change their minds now, you're an evil person, any sexual thoughts or urges you have are evil, the way you have sex with hookers is evil and your opinions about disliking rape yourself will be ignored.
Seconded. If people were prosecuted for their thoughts we'd all be in jail.
And with regard to this being brought up and sullying the "public space;" this is a support forum. I can't think of a better place. (Although I still think L&D is the wrong subforum.)
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