Being Single Is 'Not a Crisis'

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(Runs around like his hair is on fire!)

Helpeth Me Helpeth me! Every where I go females are chasing me wanting to have my babies! its so hard to resist their all so pretty! But no, no, I MUST resist! HeLp! I am in crisis and don't know what to do!!

Giant lol, AspergianMutantt.

never had a boyfriend, just accepted the fact that i will always be single

Oi! No necro bumping!

It's cool to see eq in a much happier place than when he started the thread.
The first two posts in this thread are a positive reminder that we are not limited as a species to pairing off and mating.

Being single is definitely not a crisis. I am perfectly content in being single. I feel that if one can be content in being single to be more of a blessing than a crisis. I have a hard enough time in actually finding someone where I can actually feel like I can be myself around and not become totally drained from interacting with. So finding that special someone definitely feels like a needle in a haystack. I do not know what my future holds, but being single is definitely the right choice.

I've been in relationships. Currently single, for awhile now. Like it, gonna keep it .

Being single is definitely not a crises. There is nothing wrong with people wanting to live that way. All this talk about it being bad for people to not be in a relationship has started to bug me. If people are content and happy with being single then there is no need for it to be considered a crises.

It doesn't have to be a crisis.

Just that I am 24 and I almost don't have any experience and I feel that the train is leaving the station and probably I'm not going to be able to catch it.

Only if you think so for yourself.

I've been single my entire life. There's been depressive times where that's bothered me. I've still had an amazing sex life & I do have PLENTY of friends, so whatev's. Being single allows me to be on the go around the clock all Summer long with more than full time work, beach time nearly every day, kiteboarding, other exercise etc & just being home 5-6 hours per night to sleep. Being in relationship would likely change those priorities. In the Winter, I'm able to also do whatever the F I want.. be it sleep more, learn new things etc. Being in a relationship would change those things, too. I currently have a long term plan of returning to part time & then full time studies over the next decade. Being in a relationship could complicate those things. Further, I can get laid pretty much whenever I feel the urge, soooo even though I sometimes think I might want to be in a relationship.. sometimes I think it might be in my best interest if I remain single so I can carry on doing things I like doing & pursue other goals. I'm kinda indifferent or on the fence. If it happens, great, if it doesn't, whatever, I'm still making the most of my life on my own terms.

One thing is for sure: Being single, for me, is NOT a crisis. It just is what it is.

I wouldn’t mind being single much either if I had lots of friends and a sex life. Those fill two of many humans’ basic needs. But when you can’t acquire friends or sex, it gets very hard to appreciate your current situation. For me, anyway.

Imagine if you had been single all your life as you have had but also had an inexistent sex life. Maybe you will not feel so fulfilled.

Yeah being single is good for independence and very probably if someday I have a relationship I will miss that a lot.

Maybe. But I've lived my life, not others. Sure, I remember being a teenager thinking I might never have sex blah blah but now I've had far more sex than most people do in many lifetimes so it's irrelevant to me.

For anyone not having the sex life they want, go work on changing that until you have it - wether that's a one off experience or you become the full time slut that you know you can be!! lol to each their own.

Thank you for sympathy.

same here.besides,the kind of sex life i'm ever going to have are with giant teddy bears,giant stuffed tigers & giant stuffed gorillas ,while using them as sex toys .the only kind of sex that i"m ever going to get ,regardless of my aspergers

Is that you in the picture?

Looking amazingly fit man!

Not me but as fit as him