If you're 27 and never had a girlfriend, is it too late?

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i think this is true for a lot of aspies and people maybe. however I'm a social creature. so i don't get fun from doing things alone. battlefield 4 alone is lonely and sad, shooting alone is lonely sad and dangerous, hiking same as shooting. camping alone, sad, dangerous, creepy and scary. I get enjoyment from being around others. I'm one of the few aspies on that end of the spectrum I guess



men lose sex drive as they age. so your husband likely has or wants less sex than he did when he was 20ish.

never meant not being close. just for the majority older relationships aren't the same as relationships at 20 which is what I desire. I don't think I'll be alive at 50 nonetheless running around through the woods or doing long hikes.

not to say I don't want the relationship one has in 50s I just want the younger one too like most other people get.
I know a few older people they'll cool but far less active than they use to be. they just cant do the things they use to do when in their 20s. airsofting in my 60s won't be a thing. i can hardly keep up with eh 15 year olds as is. many older shooters can't handle a shotgun anymore. reality is bodies age and get weaker. part of life. people get new hobbies and adapt. not so much of negative view of aging but wanting to experience all of life not just the last 10 to 20 years of it.



periods, childbirth, pms, menopause, trying to be a gamer, joining the military, joing police, fire department, any male dominated job force, goes on. I don't see why if they have it harder in some areas of life while its unreasonable the'd have it easier in others. life is give in take everyone has something easier and somethings hard then another.



thats not what one of the people above said. think she said we are a losers for not being finacnely stable and having a good job. something I've found many women think.

what do you mean saving your spot?

nope I can never get funding again. the new changes obama made are very limiting and put an end to the career students. you get a certain amount of funding for a limited amount of credits and then you're cut off. I actually still owe 11k for that degree I won't even use.

I like possessions. I have a bit of them and am attached to them. they have practical purposes though. I have few items that are just for looking at. I don't get that and its odd I have them. I don't have many posters or pictures on my wall, those don't serve a purpose. excerpts are I have few mlp stuffies and pop figures. I guess my dvds count as I don't watch dvds. I want to but its hard for me I enjoy watching them but so hard to start one.

getting another 9mm pistol but it's going be my new carry gun for economic practically

buying new things brings me happiness for a bit. but its short term cause eventually I'll reach a point where my needs are met. I hit this with electronic devices last year. I have no need for more as I have more then enough for my needs. could likely do without the vita even, but that was a mistake. though it did seem it might fulfill a purpose but I hardly go out so it doesn't

Ya there are times I hate, despise, loathe the cards I was dealt with for being born a guy, in which it makes me feel bitter and resentful

Yes, it's possible. Winning a lottery jackpot is also possible. Many things are possible, but some are so unlikely that we never hope they'll happen.

Personal attacks are against the rules. Please post within the forum rules.

Why haven't you banned her/him already? Can't you see she's the same person of the banned Katekay?

Well this is the first time I see her being reported, I'm not sure how we were supposed to know that she maybe is her next reincarnation.

I checked the IPs, they don't match, but do point to the same country, so thanks for the info...

two more of such warnings and she's out, whoever she may be.

Now please let's return to the topic.

Exactly. Things tend to even out.


Being a woman is not a ticket to happiness.
If you feel bitter and resentful ask yourself why. When I feel that way I blame humanity. Lol. Men and women. What do you think would be different if you were a woman?

Remember: men DON'T lose their sex drive when they get older; neither do women. I know from experience!

I'm 54, and I have at least as much of a sex drive as I did at 24 (perhaps more!)

I've met some pretty frisky older women. Some women actually feel "liberated" because they've experienced menopause, and know they can't accidentally get pregnant.

Personality check is way more accurate than IP check. They are the same person, with the same attitude and same way or writing, I have zero doubt in that.

Most IPs change.

I can see what you mean, but we can't ban her on assumptions however accurate or not they may be. She'll be monitored closely though.

The pressure, on us is not placed on women to be the initiators in dating and relationships, they don't have to make the first move, do the asking out

Is that bad? I've thought it would be empowering to be in that role. Mostly because being in the role of the pursued is stressful for me. I tend to think successful relationships evolve naturally from circumstances. Doing social activities leads to meeting more people which increases the chances of encountering someone you connect with.

Dating is not shopping. You don't decide you want a girlfriend and go out and get one. It's in the hands of the gods, so to speak.

I'm pretty shy, and was more shy when I was younger.

Still.....I would feel uncomfortable, somehow, if a lady asks ME out.

I used to think much the same thing. But now think it's nowhere near as black and white as that. With there being a strong sense of the grass on the other side of the fence being greener on the part of both men and women.

More that these roles tend to be imposed on people socially without consideration of things like personality, even consent.
Things might suck rather less if people could identify as 'asker', 'askee', 'ether' or 'not interested'. However the only form of non-verbal communication which would work equally well for NTs and ND's would be to wear something fairly obvious, like a wrist band... Kind of the opposite to engagement/wedding rings. (Possibly in addition to one indicating their orientation.)