29 Sep 2015, 1:42 pm
29 Sep 2015, 1:51 pm
Sweetleaf wrote:
So you are certain these two girls you had crushes on never dated or flirted with other guys? Did you ever actually discuss that with them? Or did you follow them around and observe if they expressed interest in other guys or not. They could have lied about not dating or flirting with other guys, simply not talked to you about it
I had selective mutism in school, so I didn't talk to anybody. So, no, I didn't talk to any of them. The one in college was in my class, so I had a pretty good idea about what she did, and if she had a bf outside of school I'm sure, she would have stopped the game with me.
Sweetleaf wrote:
And wait a second...I thought you said it was wrong to fancy more than one person at a time, yet you fancied two crushes at the same time and had non-verbal things going on with both of them?
I changed that above. It was one in high school and one in college.
Sweetleaf wrote:
Anyways did things work out with one of these crushes or did things fizzle out after those several years of the non-verbal thing not growing into a romantic relationship?
Both of them ended when school ended.
Sweetleaf wrote:
I suppose though if you can find a women who is willing to do that cutesy stuff for years before actually going into an in depth relationship and that is what you want good for you.
It was pretty easy to find girls willing to do that, and I had a great time so I don't complain even if nothing "came out" of it.
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29 Sep 2015, 1:55 pm
I am speechless..... 
29 Sep 2015, 1:58 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I am speechless.....
Have to caught selective mutism too?
I'm sure the above is truly unsatisfactory for a horny guy like you, but so what?
29 Sep 2015, 1:59 pm
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29 Sep 2015, 2:17 pm
rdos wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
So you are certain these two girls you had crushes on never dated or flirted with other guys? Did you ever actually discuss that with them? Or did you follow them around and observe if they expressed interest in other guys or not. They could have lied about not dating or flirting with other guys, simply not talked to you about it
I had selective mutism in school, so I didn't talk to anybody. So, no, I didn't talk to any of them. The one in college was in my class, so I had a pretty good idea about what she did, and if she had a bf outside of school I'm sure, she would have stopped the game with me.
Sweetleaf wrote:
And wait a second...I thought you said it was wrong to fancy more than one person at a time, yet you fancied two crushes at the same time and had non-verbal things going on with both of them?
I changed that above. It was one in high school and one in college.
Sweetleaf wrote:
Anyways did things work out with one of these crushes or did things fizzle out after those several years of the non-verbal thing not growing into a romantic relationship?
Both of them ended when school ended.
Sweetleaf wrote:
I suppose though if you can find a women who is willing to do that cutesy stuff for years before actually going into an in depth relationship and that is what you want good for you.
It was pretty easy to find girls willing to do that, and I had a great time so I don't complain even if nothing "came out" of it.
Interesting and maybe they didn't have boyfriends, though I wouldn't be so sure the flirting was only limited to you. Of course I simply don't trust people that much until I get to know them which to me involves more than say flirting and looking at each other in class and things like that, I have to spend time with someone outside a structured setting before I can determine what I think of them.
29 Sep 2015, 2:30 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I am speechless.....
If you are not satisfied with eye-contact you can go to some brothel, you piglet.
Btw, despite being an evil piglet myself, I think I still win, from when I was 12-13 to when I was 16-17 I was in love with a girl without being able to see her.
29 Sep 2015, 2:48 pm
Peacesells wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I am speechless.....
If you are not satisfied with eye-contact you can go to some brothel, you piglet.
Piglet. I'll remember that word in case I can use it some time.
Peacesells wrote:
Btw, despite being an evil piglet myself, I think I still win, from when I was 12-13 to when I was 16-17 I was in love with a girl without being able to see her.
Did you have many wet dreams about her?
29 Sep 2015, 2:57 pm
rdos wrote:
Piglet. I'll remember that word in case I can use it some time.
You're welcome.
Peacesells wrote:
Did you have many wet dreams about her?
It's been a while, but if I remember well, despite being sexual, I wouldn't dare to think about her that way.
29 Sep 2015, 2:58 pm
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29 Sep 2015, 3:04 pm
rdos wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I am speechless.....
Have to caught selective mutism too?
I'm sure the above is truly unsatisfactory for a horny guy like you, but so what?
I am speechless at your... nevermind.
I am not a horny guy at all, unless within very comfortable circumstances.
I never get boners in public for instance.
30 Sep 2015, 9:08 am
Sweetleaf wrote:
Interesting and maybe they didn't have boyfriends, though I wouldn't be so sure the flirting was only limited to you. Of course I simply don't trust people that much until I get to know them which to me involves more than say flirting and looking at each other in class and things like that, I have to spend time with someone outside a structured setting before I can determine what I think of them.
Additionally, both of them had friends / classmates trying to "help" in advancing things. Not really much of help, but still. I don't expect girls to seek / accept that kind of help if they are flirting with multiple guys, or have a bf elsewhere.
Also, I meet the high school girl at the start of college, and she still seemed kind of interested, but then she probably started on a program elsewhere because I only saw her once or twice. Maybe she was there to try to setup something different that didn't depend on us meeting regularly without planning anything? A pity it didn't work out as she was a lot more promising than the college girl that I ended up with instead.
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30 Sep 2015, 12:28 pm
rdos wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
Interesting and maybe they didn't have boyfriends, though I wouldn't be so sure the flirting was only limited to you. Of course I simply don't trust people that much until I get to know them which to me involves more than say flirting and looking at each other in class and things like that, I have to spend time with someone outside a structured setting before I can determine what I think of them.
Additionally, both of them had friends / classmates trying to "help" in advancing things. Not really much of help, but still. I don't expect girls to seek / accept that kind of help if they are flirting with multiple guys, or have a bf elsewhere.
Also, I meet the high school girl at the start of college, and she still seemed kind of interested, but then she probably started on a program elsewhere because I only saw her once or twice. Maybe she was there to try to setup something different that didn't depend on us meeting regularly without planning anything? A pity it didn't work out as she was a lot more promising than the college girl that I ended up with instead.
I don't get what getting help in class has to do with whether or not a girl flirts with guys or has a boyfriend.
Also I thought you said these relationships consisted of little non-verbal interactions in class and didn't progress any further....that's not the same thing as being with someone in an exclusive relationship at all. So how do you mean you ended up with the college girl?
I mean to me it honestly sounds more like these girls eventually got to the point of feeling the relationship wouldn't progress into anything more than courtship.....and moved on.
30 Sep 2015, 12:51 pm
30 Sep 2015, 1:24 pm
30 Sep 2015, 1:47 pm
Lukeda420 wrote:
So you're saying that over the course of three full years you would make eye contact with a girl, but never really spoke to her?
Exactly. I'm that crazy, and so was she.
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