"You Just Haven't Met The Right Person Yet (But You Will)"

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From another thread, but related.m

Lol seeing my own post from another topic here, haha

For me, childish means the opposite of mature. You can be mature and fun, just because someone isnt childish doesnt mean they are boring. There are things you can get away with when being 18, but 10 years later in life would be expected to know better and be more responsible

Fun is by definition childish
Mature is serious

Not sure about original definition, but calling someone childish doesnt always means they are 'fun'
Like:
- "I'm so sick of his childish behavior" (he is not being funny, just annoying, most likely lacks responsibility/acting stupid)
- "He is having one of these childish tantrums again!" (again its not being fun, he is most likely making a huge deal out of something that shouldnt be, and acting like a 5 years old)
- "Thats such a childish thing to say" (saying something stupid, you wouldnt expect from someone at his age)

Any of you kids want to hop on a bicycle and challenge this 62 year old to a 50 mile race?

Okay sly, if all the women where you live follow the same pattern that you describe, I'm sorry to hear that. Perhaps you should move somewhere else.

Indeed. And screw what people think. The older i get, the more likely i am to dance in the streets. Looking weird doing it? Really, who cares!? Being older doesn't require one to sit on a porch with a broom yelling at hoodlums and their shenanigans while being uber serious and only able to discuss funeral arrangements.
And 40-50 is far from old and decrepit. It seems it when you're 20..the same way 20 seems it when you're 10.

If anything, relationships are better with age.

Yes, because many if not most 26-30 year old women are adults who want adult relationships that, yes, involve commitment and maybe even kids down the line. That being said, there are plenty of girls your age who like camping and aren't necessarily into insta-commitment. Being 26+ doesn't automatically make girls boring and serious.

If you want to have the sort of relationship people tend to have in their late teens/early 20s then your best bet is to date girls in their late teens/early 20s - who are unlikely to care that you don't earn much since they're not necessarily thinking long-term.

(nobody begrudges anybody the occasional hot, like, 19 yo, but nothing but hot, dopey, high school age girls when you're in your late 20s tells the world that there is something serious off about you that girls your age want nothing to do with you).

You attitude that 2) getting a girlfriend is a ton of terribly difficult work that you suck at and don't even want to get started on and 2) girls your age are old and boring might be part of the reason why you're not having much luck. You make it sound like effort you're disinclined to expend.

Sure, so you better go for the aspies then and ignore the NTs. Problem solved.

I know a whole group of 30+ old women that are everything but super-serious, and that love to play games. Stop complaining and go find them instead.



Well, if you do get kids, you have a legitimate reason to be like a child.

ya, oh well, since some people are late bloomers, that's part of life not being fair I guess.