20% of men get 80% of women?

Page 6 of 16 [ 248 posts ]  Go to page Previous  1 ... 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9 ... 16  Next

The_Face_of_Boo
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 16 Jun 2010
Age: 42
Gender: Non-binary
Posts: 33,085
Location: Beirut, Lebanon.

18 Mar 2016, 1:16 pm

^ my bad, I meant not satisfied.



auntblabby
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 12 Feb 2010
Gender: Male
Posts: 114,574
Location: the island of defective toy santas

18 Mar 2016, 1:57 pm

the 60% net divorce rate in this country tells me that American men and women are not so well-suited for each other, in general.



rdos
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 6 Jul 2005
Age: 63
Gender: Male
Posts: 6,096
Location: Sweden

18 Mar 2016, 4:08 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ my bad, I meant not satisfied.


Which means that the fantasies of men that women enjoy sex just as much as they do is just that. Fantasy.



kraftiekortie
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 4 Feb 2014
Gender: Male
Posts: 87,510
Location: Queens, NYC

18 Mar 2016, 4:34 pm

Many women, in my experience, happen to enjoy sex--a lot.



rdos
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 6 Jul 2005
Age: 63
Gender: Male
Posts: 6,096
Location: Sweden

18 Mar 2016, 4:36 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Many women, in my experience, happen to enjoy sex--a lot.


But the study indicated that many women faked enjoying it in order to please their guy. What that means is that what they tell you might not be true.



kraftiekortie
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 4 Feb 2014
Gender: Male
Posts: 87,510
Location: Queens, NYC

18 Mar 2016, 4:42 pm

Yep...faking does happen.

But I believe I can tell when a woman's faking.

Go ahead ladies, ask away! LOL



AR15000
Velociraptor
Velociraptor

Joined: 19 Jan 2016
Age: 40
Gender: Male
Posts: 429
Location: Right behind you

18 Mar 2016, 4:48 pm

rdos wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ my bad, I meant not satisfied.


Which means that the fantasies of men that women enjoy sex just as much as they do is just that. Fantasy.


You're projecting. I personally have known and slept with women who do enjoy sex as much as men. But it does take more skill level on the part of a man to make sex enjoyable to the woman.


Now women can fake an orgasm, but they cannot fake squirting! Not all women are "squirters" but the last one I slept with back in 2014 certainly WAS. 8)



rdos
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 6 Jul 2005
Age: 63
Gender: Male
Posts: 6,096
Location: Sweden

18 Mar 2016, 4:51 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Yep...faking does happen.

But I believe I can tell when a woman's faking.

Go ahead ladies, ask away! LOL


You know what, before wife knew that I didn't enjoy sex, she talked a lot about how much sex we would have, and that we would continue with that to old age. I wonder why because she really doesn't seem to enjoy sex a lot, but now I think I know. She did like most women: She assumed that every guy wanted a lot of sex, and so she faked wanting a lot too just to please me. She did that without discussing it with me because she "knew" this was how all guys worked.

So ladies, make sure you check with your guy if he really is a sex-maniac before assuming he is because "all guys are like that".



rdos
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 6 Jul 2005
Age: 63
Gender: Male
Posts: 6,096
Location: Sweden

18 Mar 2016, 4:57 pm

AR15000 wrote:
You're projecting. I personally have known and slept with women who do enjoy sex as much as men. But it does take more skill level on the part of a man to make sex enjoyable to the woman.


According to the study, many women faked enjoying it just to get over with it. Guess what that means for skills and alike? It means women just want them to finish ASAP so they can do something more fun. :mrgreen:

AR15000 wrote:
Now women can fake an orgasm, but they cannot fake squirting! Not all women are "squirters" but the last one I slept with back in 2014 certainly WAS. 8)


Maybe they are squirting for some other reason than you think? :wink:



AR15000
Velociraptor
Velociraptor

Joined: 19 Jan 2016
Age: 40
Gender: Male
Posts: 429
Location: Right behind you

18 Mar 2016, 5:25 pm

rdos wrote:
AR15000 wrote:
You're projecting. I personally have known and slept with women who do enjoy sex as much as men. But it does take more skill level on the part of a man to make sex enjoyable to the woman.


According to the study, many women faked enjoying it just to get over with it. Guess what that means for skills and alike? It means women just want them to finish ASAP so they can do something more fun. :mrgreen:

AR15000 wrote:
Now women can fake an orgasm, but they cannot fake squirting! Not all women are "squirters" but the last one I slept with back in 2014 certainly WAS. 8)


Maybe they are squirting for some other reason than you think? :wink:




Lies, DAMNED LIES, and statistics.

Believe what you want, but I have no trouble finding women who do like sex and I never had. In fact, I've even had a woman practically rape me because she was so turned on that she jumped on top of me and was unzipping my fly. Mind you that I totally LET her do it. Actions speak louder than words, brah. :wink: And to make matters worse for your case, there was thread by an NT woman complaining that her ND husband wasn't interested in sexual intercourse and she of course was getting desperate due to sexual frustration.

So what other "reason" are they squirting for and what is your evidence that they didn't have an orgasm? You and your wife have low sex drives and you've decided to interpret your stats about neurodiverse women and apply them to all women even though ND *people* are a minority. Not sure what you're trying to prove here, but you fail to convince me. Carry on :!:



AR15000
Velociraptor
Velociraptor

Joined: 19 Jan 2016
Age: 40
Gender: Male
Posts: 429
Location: Right behind you

18 Mar 2016, 5:29 pm

rdos wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
Yep...faking does happen.

But I believe I can tell when a woman's faking.

Go ahead ladies, ask away! LOL


You know what, before wife knew that I didn't enjoy sex, she talked a lot about how much sex we would have, and that we would continue with that to old age. I wonder why because she really doesn't seem to enjoy sex a lot, but now I think I know. She did like most women: She assumed that every guy wanted a lot of sex, and so she faked wanting a lot too just to please me. She did that without discussing it with me because she "knew" this was how all guys worked.

So ladies, make sure you check with your guy if he really is a sex-maniac before assuming he is because "all guys are like that".


However....

she's the ONLY woman you've ever been with.

I've been with 3 and slept with 2 of them. The first was very likely autistic but the second was Borderline and definitely not autistic in the slightest bit. I had an opportunity to sleep with another woman back in 2007 but I didn't because she was totally wasted and strung out at the time and I just wasn't up for it.

Stop acting like you're an expert on women just because you've been married to 1(ONE/ EINS/ UNO/ YEDIN/ ICHI) woman.



Laundryhampers
Butterfly
Butterfly

Joined: 5 Mar 2016
Age: 43
Gender: Female
Posts: 10

18 Mar 2016, 5:39 pm

Ti think the belief that 20% of men are "getting" 80% of women is an ego-saving lie men who cannot be bothered to exert effort to date tell themselves. I think it's easier to believe you're being left out along with MOST men, then to think that you're being left out for being YOU.



AR15000
Velociraptor
Velociraptor

Joined: 19 Jan 2016
Age: 40
Gender: Male
Posts: 429
Location: Right behind you

18 Mar 2016, 5:41 pm

Laundryhampers wrote:
Ti think the belief that 20% of men are "getting" 80% of women is an ego-saving lie men who cannot be bothered to exert effort to date tell themselves. I think it's easier to believe you're being left out along with MOST men, then to think that you're being left out for being YOU.



Hi Katy! :mrgreen:



MarbleRye
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker

User avatar

Joined: 15 Mar 2016
Gender: Male
Posts: 68

18 Mar 2016, 7:02 pm

Laundryhampers wrote:
Ti think the belief that 20% of men are "getting" 80% of women is an ego-saving lie men who cannot be bothered to exert effort to date tell themselves. I think it's easier to believe you're being left out along with MOST men, then to think that you're being left out for being YOU.


Maybe it's a little bit of both. 20% of men getting 80% of women only works for casual short term relationships anyway because polygamy isn't very popular/legal.



yellowtamarin
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 5 Sep 2010
Gender: Female
Posts: 3,763
Location: Australia

18 Mar 2016, 7:39 pm

There's a lot of misinterpretation of that article going on. An article about a survey with 71 respondents, too, meaning it probably doesn't warrant much attention.



Nocturnus
Deinonychus
Deinonychus

User avatar

Joined: 22 Jun 2015
Posts: 354
Location: England

18 Mar 2016, 10:55 pm

People will be inclined to different attitudes towards sex and that is largely dependent on many factors.

Cultural perception and social norms play a strong role when it comes to sexual practices.