question about hygiene.

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well okay-then I tip y hat and say good day

I think it happens to me once: I probably feel bad after playing chess at the net... I am thinking now that it is due to excess, and what is bad is not the thing, but the excess of it. Well, of course I used to do it excessively, turning me sad.

I am now living a very happy moment on my live, perhaps made of sand and unsustainable, anyway it is goog, and I have to let it even better and sustainable.

But I remember when I was 15 or 16 yo and I didn't knew we must try to be happy, what seems to me a great absurd, and of course the first step in order to be happy.

We easily few, reading your posts, that you are not a imserable man, anyway all of us pass through these moments in our lives, in which we feel ourselves miserable. Wish it ends soon and you get your happiness again!! !

I hate feeling all freezing and wet afterwards, and hate the feeling of my hair being wet...

But even more so...I hate the way my hair feels when it gets greasy, so I shower daily

Seeing little in the way of a future which matches
my past leads me to see my life as a mere denouement
now. But thanks for the thunks.

What a strange, these words didn't really matches with so many other you posted all around, or perhaps I didn't understand these over... I like your humor sense, and I am very sure this helps us a lot, and either the inteligence. I am sure it won't be difficult for you to soon find really good moments.

wednesday no shower
thursday no shower
friday no shower
sat no shower
sunday 2 showers, he thinks he can catch up or something.
uggghh.

there is a post about this in the general section.
i feel like he is part of the majority which i don't understand.

i take a bath every three days, i dont have a girlfriend so i dont know what its like to be in that situation but if i did, id still only bath every other day. its too much work. dont even ask me if i brush my teeth everyday, more like once a week
no ones kissing me so

Please tell me why?

I absolutely have to bathe every day--- i can literally feel the oil on my hair otherwise, and it's a creepy feeling, almost a crawley one. Besides, my job is located in a place where many people are sick and I don't like being covered in their germs.

I went through a long period
without brushing my teeth. You
really should, Richard. My wisdom
teeth are a rotting mess now. Flossing
too.


Oh, and I was getting more women then,
than I ever have.

well im usually wrapped up in my obsessions from sun up to sundown. i have no time for nothing else, including baths

I still do not get it.

and you probably never will. look, if you love the guy work around his oddities

Spamming is a bit of an art form to me.
I am though, quite miserably depressive,
most of the time, and this is my obsessive
act to drown myself in.

I am a bit happier recently, but 'tis always
a fleeting thing - when permanence is all
that I seek.

I am not some bored f*****g nitwit waiting to exfoliate. Obviously i am not happy with his "oddity" to not shower, but I do love him.
It is not an oddity in my opinion, if you think I cannot understand that it is not the easiest thing to hop up and shower- then your wrong. I understand, but I resist my wants and take of myself hygienically.
And to say "never will (understand)" is completely untrue. I already do.

There's really no excuse for not showering.

When you talk to him about it does he have some kind of logical sounding reason why he doesn't shower, or does he just ignore you and avoid the topic altogether?

All you ASers saying that she should accept his eccentricities, there is a huge difference between a guy whose socks don't match or something, and a guy who constantly smells like sour milk.

My last GF waited until we'd been together for a while then told me that I sometimes smelled a bit musty, which was odd because I am very clean and always take 2 showers a day. We finally figured out it was because I left my clothes in the washing machine too long before hanging them to dry, which was causing mildew.

I am so grateful when NTs, especially NT girlfriends, help me fix these little problems that I'm not even aware of, I am amazed that your AS boyfriend isn't more appreciative of your efforts to help him out.

And by the way, what is so fabulous about this guy that you haven't dumped his stinky butt already?