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shadexiii
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27 May 2007, 6:25 pm

calandale wrote:
So, what's the objection to being one of those bites?
If they get addicted to you, you can lay it all on the
line, and make them leave their bf.

sh**, if any of my colleagues had decent looking gf's
I'd have become friends with them.


Eh, call it paranoia on my part. If they'll leave their guy for me, what's to say they wouldn't leave me for some other guy?



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27 May 2007, 6:26 pm

shadexiii wrote:
calandale wrote:
So, what's the objection to being one of those bites?
If they get addicted to you, you can lay it all on the
line, and make them leave their bf.

sh**, if any of my colleagues had decent looking gf's
I'd have become friends with them.


Eh, call it paranoia on my part. If they'll leave their guy for me, what's to say they wouldn't leave me for some other guy?


Nothing lasts forever.



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27 May 2007, 6:27 pm

Who said anything about forever? I'm just shooting for a good few decades. :P



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27 May 2007, 6:36 pm

Normally, i would be completely opposed to calandale's suggestion.
But he's making more and more sense to me these days.

Maybe i should try these things out, just so she knows i'm always up for it.
I'm going to be a bit more selfish from now on.



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27 May 2007, 6:39 pm

AdrianB wrote:
Normally, i would be completely opposed to calandale's suggestion.
But he's making more and more sense to me these days.

Maybe i should try these things out, just so she knows i'm always up for it.
I'm going to be a bit more selfish from now on.


well i dunno dude, but if calandale's suggestions start to make sense, then you must be at a cusp.
good luck
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27 May 2007, 6:45 pm

shadexiii wrote:
Who said anything about forever? I'm just shooting for a good few decades. :P


So that you're too old to find another, like me?



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27 May 2007, 6:46 pm

Kosmonaut wrote:
AdrianB wrote:
Normally, i would be completely opposed to calandale's suggestion.
But he's making more and more sense to me these days.

Maybe i should try these things out, just so she knows i'm always up for it.
I'm going to be a bit more selfish from now on.


well i dunno dude, but if calandale's suggestions start to make sense, then you must be at a cusp.
good luck
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Oh boy. Last time someone took my suggestions,
it ended in 5-10, with time off for good behavior.



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27 May 2007, 6:47 pm

people say that to me all the time
online and off
but never want anything to really do with me :roll:
makes me hate myself even more (well hate the AS I have even more) :evil:



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27 May 2007, 6:47 pm

shadexiii wrote:
Eh, call it paranoia on my part. If they'll leave their guy for me, what's to say they wouldn't leave me for some other guy?


Exactly. Once a cheater, always a cheater.


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27 May 2007, 6:49 pm

Kosmonaut wrote:
AdrianB wrote:
Normally, i would be completely opposed to calandale's suggestion.
But he's making more and more sense to me these days.

Maybe i should try these things out, just so she knows i'm always up for it.
I'm going to be a bit more selfish from now on.


well i dunno dude, but if calandale's suggestions start to make sense, then you must be at a cusp.
good luck
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I'm sorry but i don't understand the meaning of the word cusp..
And it's quite an essential part of your post so please explain it to me :)



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27 May 2007, 6:58 pm

MrSinister wrote:
shadexiii wrote:
Eh, call it paranoia on my part. If they'll leave their guy for me, what's to say they wouldn't leave me for some other guy?


Exactly. Once a cheater, always a cheater.


Absolutely not the case. My wife and I were mutually
infidelious, in our first year, but never cheated after
that.



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27 May 2007, 7:09 pm

AdrianB wrote:
I'm sorry but i don't understand the meaning of the word cusp..
And it's quite an essential part of your post so please explain it to me :)


Cusp = a point.


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27 May 2007, 7:10 pm

There is the fact that a good monogamous relationship is usually more appealing than running around. It's more comfortable and less stress.



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27 May 2007, 8:30 pm

Apparently being a nice guy is very unattractive.

Well, just to let you all know, today I passed a homeless guy and I totally didn't give him any money.

*Waits to be surrounded by women who now think I'm awesome.*



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27 May 2007, 9:11 pm

The person that I know, who is most
classically 'nice' is very happily married.



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28 May 2007, 3:14 am

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You're expected to show your intentions honestly from the beginning.


I think what DeepBlueLake had to say was good, seems like a good explanation for a number of situations I have been in ... and it has felt like trying to sneak in through the back door.

I get the nice guy crap a lot ... what's the explanation ? And I know ordinary guys (sure we all do) who manage to get a fair number of girls without too much hassle - what's wrong with me ?

Maybe if I took the approach that I should be honest and make it clear I am looking for a physical relationship - then that is the difference. This way you imprint on the girl from the start as a sexual object and forever in her eyes that's what you will be.