Aspie women why do you defend all women?

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I've seen it written too, but when feminists(not pointing at this article) touch this topic, it's obvious that they don't understand the issue or men in general at all.

The solution is not that men should be more feminine. That's what's been going on for the past 50 years, and it doesn't work, it actually does the oppostie.

In my humble opinion the root cause of male suicide, is that the majority of my generation have grown up without their fathers, and we lack strong bonds with other males. We don't need to open up to women, they don't understand us anyway, we need to talk to other men. But we can't anymore, because there are no "male spaces" left in our society, and that's what ruins the bond between men. We try to make everything 50/50 male/female, and we make it PC and unthreatening so that the females can tolerate being there. But that hurts men.

We even demonize typical male emotion, like anger. Men often express themselves through anger, and we tell them that it's wrong. But that's just BS. Being sad is not in any way morally superior to being angry. Both are outlets, both are ways of coping.

My problem is that I talk like Barrack Obama and Donald Trump with people. Each time something goes out of my mouth there are two possible meanings to it instead of one. I feel women focus less on what is directed and more on what is implied while men focus on what is more directed and less implied. Aspergers focuses more on honesty, so aspie men speak literally and have no idea what the figurtive implication is to some people. Aspies try hard to tell what they are literally thinking to people in as clear a way as possible, but what they don't realize is that they can sound snide and condscending unintentionally when they do. Whoever made rambling, ranting, and raving look bad is why aspies have trouble in real world, because we have a hard time expressing ourselves in as few words as we can like NTs can.

My friends husbands play soccer together. I don't know what they talk about, but they have that time together just the guys. Men need men. It's sad some men are feeling estranged from each other.

Most women here seem to break up and be in another relationship in a week. They consider 3 weeks out of a relationship a really long time lol they have no idea what a long time is.

I didn’t say Anything about broken women. Why do you consider some broken? I wouldn’t believe someone’s broken.

I said I been rejected that many times. I’ve only had maybe 5 dates in my life. Rejection is being refused a date with someone.

But as I’ve said I’ve been rejected by unemployed women living off their parents after failing to get a job after college. Why did thy reject me? I don’t habe my life together. More together then theirs is but that doesn’t matter. I only imagine unemployed women are seeking a man to save them from their being poor.


She asked what my job was within about 10 mins of the chat. I said I work seasonally at the local college. She then needed th video chat and blocked me.

Well most aspie women are usually manipulative or pushy like aspie guys we all don’t usually have the social understandings to do that and tend be more quiet and timid. Not all though. So i dont know if she suffered from anxiety like most aspies if she did she wasn’t very understanding of another aspies anxiety. She kept threatening that if I didn’t video chat with her right then she’d stop talking to me despite me expressing it makes me extremely anxious to video chat. I don’t video chat with anyone. It takes me weeks or months to voice chat people. She showed me not all aspies are the same. This was before I joined wrong planet. So she was the first other aspie and first female aspie I ever meet.

Well most aspie women are usually manipulative or pushy

That aspie woman sounds like a psycho. She doesn’t represent many people, aspie or NT. You still didn’t say what your job is. I don’t get why it’s such an issue.

Citation please. You can't expect to be able to make an assertion like this without providing evidence to back it up other than the anecdotal evidence of the single aspie woman you talked to on a dating site.

I told her my job
0.o

Do you mean my current job?
I work part time min wage as a retail floor person. You know a job for teenager according to middle class people. I’ve been told flat out I need to man up and stop taking jobs from teenagers and college students. And a lot of the employees at retailers including my store are 16-24 old women. Either working their first job, working while going to college or during breaks, or working a part time job to help with their husbands full time job income. The managers are older except one new one is a 26 year old who use to be a floor person.
Most usually move on to better paid jobs or college.
So not the middle class job real men should have.

It’s the best I can do though.

That was a grammatical error due to combination of my adhd and apple . Was supposed to be aren’t usually ......

But got corrected to are which Apple does a lot and I don’t proof read every post I make for errors.

Maybe you should consider proofreading then to prevent these misunderstandings because it seems like you make a lot of these kinds of mistakes and it makes your comments very hard to understand. I often skip them because there are so many spelling errors I can't tell what you're even trying to say. Could this be contributing to your issues with women on dating sites, perhaps? If they can't understand you that will make them more likely to reject you.

That aspie woman sounds like a psycho. She doesn’t represent many people, aspie or NT. You still didn’t say what your job is. I don’t get why it’s such an issue.

She's got a point sly. Proof reading will help you communicate better. Re-read what you've written before you post and you may be able to get your points over better.