Anyone terrified of being alone for the rest of their life?

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03 Mar 2021, 5:43 pm

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If Blabby's defective, then I'm defective.

And no, I don't believe I'm defective.....so Blabby's not defective.


Personally do not think Auntblabby is defective , either,


Is there any factual evidence supporting your supposition? :scratch: [joking] :mrgreen:

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beside am sincerely hopeful that most all broken toys can be mended ,
with the right tools . And applications. :)


How good are you at mending broken skunks? 8O



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03 Mar 2021, 5:46 pm

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I was when younger so literally went from relationship to relationship which wasn't healthy. Now older and wiser I think I would be contented never being in one again. If the right person comes along I wouldn't say no though.


External Locus of Identity issues?



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03 Mar 2021, 5:51 pm

The title of this thread , all by itself is enough by itself to create empathy.......it would be wonderful if each one of us could find that special someone to go through life with .


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03 Mar 2021, 5:56 pm

Jakki wrote:
The title of this thread , all by itself is enough by itself to create empathy.......it would be wonderful if each one of us could find that special someone to go through life with .


"Fairy tales can come true, it can happen to you
If you're young at heart." :mrgreen:



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03 Mar 2021, 6:19 pm

Great many Women swooned at the voice of Frank Sinatra . PePe. Must have a not so well hidden Romantic side .


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03 Mar 2021, 6:58 pm

Jakki wrote:
Great many Women swooned at the voice of Frank Sinatra . PePe. Must have a not so well hidden Romantic side .


Not any more.
I don't believe in 'Romance' in principle, because it is evolutionary trickery 'designed' to encourage the reproduction process.

I do value closer connections in the form of platonic relationships, but unfortunately, I am being gang-stalked and every attempt at a meaningful connection is stymied.
C'est la vie. [shrug]

Yes, I know how 'victim mentality' this sounds, but it is actually the Truth. ;)

Being a practical man skunk, I simply have to accept this and embrace a hikikomori lifestyle if I don't want to be a performing animal. :lmao:
My 'minders' constantly interfere in my life via hypnotic trance induction.

Yes, it sounds crazy, but then life is crazy, no? :wink:



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03 Mar 2021, 8:18 pm

Pepe wrote:
Jakki wrote:
Great many Women swooned at the voice of Frank Sinatra . PePe. Must have a not so well hidden Romantic side .


Not any more.
I don't believe in 'Romance' in principle, because it is evolutionary trickery 'designed' to encourage the reproduction process.

I do value closer connections in the form of platonic relationships, but unfortunately, I am being gang-stalked and every attempt at a meaningful connection is stymied.
C'est la vie. [shrug]

Yes, I know how 'victim mentality' this sounds, but it is actually the Truth. ;)

Being a practical man skunk, I simply have to accept this and embrace a hikikomori lifestyle if I don't want to be a performing animal. :lmao:
My 'minders' constantly interfere in my life via hypnotic trance induction.

Yes, it sounds crazy, but then life is crazy, no? :wink:


You poor little Skunk ........ my heart would go out to you , but it might induce a trance . So will keep my heart in its place. May all your detractors find their own way into that dark place down below . And yes life can be crazy !


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03 Mar 2021, 8:25 pm

Jakki wrote:
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Jakki wrote:
Great many Women swooned at the voice of Frank Sinatra . PePe. Must have a not so well hidden Romantic side .


Not any more.
I don't believe in 'Romance' in principle, because it is evolutionary trickery 'designed' to encourage the reproduction process.

I do value closer connections in the form of platonic relationships, but unfortunately, I am being gang-stalked and every attempt at a meaningful connection is stymied.
C'est la vie. [shrug]

Yes, I know how 'victim mentality' this sounds, but it is actually the Truth. ;)

Being a practical man skunk, I simply have to accept this and embrace a hikikomori lifestyle if I don't want to be a performing animal. :lmao:
My 'minders' constantly interfere in my life via hypnotic trance induction.

Yes, it sounds crazy, but then life is crazy, no? :wink:


You poor little Skunk ........ my heart would go out to you , but it might induce a trance . So will keep my heart in its place. May all your detractors find their own way into that dark place down below . And yes life can be crazy !


So, you are saying the wedding is off, then. [sigh] :(

Give me my coffee back. :mrgreen:



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03 Mar 2021, 9:34 pm

i need to somehow invest in a yacht to take my buddies Jakki, IB and KK to my private island :ninja:



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03 Mar 2021, 10:21 pm

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i need to somehow invest in a yacht to take my buddies Jakki, IB and KK to my private island :ninja:


Have you ever notices that Jakki and KK both have 2 'Ks' in their name?
Could it be some kind of code? 8O



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03 Mar 2021, 10:24 pm

Never mind the secret code..... and busy waiting one day to go for a ride on a yacht .......! .. :D


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04 Mar 2021, 12:43 am

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Never mind the secret code..... and busy waiting one day to go for a ride on a yacht .......! .. :D


Do you two have a secrete handshake also? 8O



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04 Mar 2021, 4:09 pm

No secreting handshakes yet ....


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04 Mar 2021, 4:26 pm

I've had a partner for 18 years and don't see that changing but I'm fairly certain that if anything happened to our relationship, I probably wouldn't have another one.

I love my own company and regularly yearn for the freedom of single life (not to go dating or anything, just to be able to do whatever I want, whenever I want). So yeah, the grass IS always greener and everything. Maybe after 18 years of single life I'd change my tune again.

But f I did ever have another relationship, I don't think I'd ever agree to cohabit again which would probably put the kybosh on most relationships!


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04 Mar 2021, 7:11 pm

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Btw in my local atheist group they did a gender poll; 70% are male. Atheists are disproportionally single according to another poll done there.


I hope I am not attacked for saying this, but women are more into feelings and men tend to be more into logic.
Religion caters for emotional considerations. [duck]


Personally I'm an atheist. If I do find someone, I hope she is agnostic or an atheist. Religion is something that I simply can't relate to anymore nor is it something I believe in. Being with someone religious would just remind me of how much I hated it being forced on me at an early age. Our perspectives would be too different, it would cause a rift between us. I don't have anything against religious people...although I will admit to having an easier time getting on with people that either aren't religious or are but not in an organised religion. Leaving religion when I was twelve was a significant part of my life. I don't feel spiritual in any sense of the word.


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04 Mar 2021, 9:29 pm

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Pepe wrote:

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Btw in my local atheist group they did a gender poll; 70% are male. Atheists are disproportionally single according to another poll done there.


I hope I am not attacked for saying this, but women are more into feelings and men tend to be more into logic.
Religion caters for emotional considerations. [duck]


Personally I'm an atheist. If I do find someone, I hope she is agnostic or an atheist. Religion is something that I simply can't relate to anymore nor is it something I believe in. Being with someone religious would just remind me of how much I hated it being forced on me at an early age. Our perspectives would be too different, it would cause a rift between us. I don't have anything against religious people...although I will admit to having an easier time getting on with people that either aren't religious or are but not in an organised religion. Leaving religion when I was twelve was a significant part of my life. I don't feel spiritual in any sense of the word.


Not all religious people are accepting of non-binary-gender people.
I was a committed Christian until I was around 21 and wasn't brought up to think this way, however.

Australia wasn't as fundamentalist as *perhaps* the American bible belt was.
I don't really know what it was like there when I was a kid.
Just a guess.

I have no idea what the UK was/is like, in regard to the values of religious people there.

Ideally, finding a partner with a similar ideology would seem to be a better bet, imo.
But it depends on the person you meet.
Being a couple always mean a compromise in some areas, after all.

My sixpence worth. 8)