nick007 wrote:
Rexi wrote:
There are people who never fall out of love. I have yet to be proven im Not one of them. I had many partners of both genders and not short relationships[4 yrs and 7 months my longest, online]. They lose the puppy love in maximum 5 months and start being emotionally non present.
Their motivation decreases and to quote 'being with you is like a chore'.
Most people fall out of love. Get lazy. Stop working and become more like roommates. They do their own thing. They don't have sex with partner and don't even jack off together. They don't even watch porn together. They are just 'gone'. They don't have the interest, drive and value of creating moments together.
That's not someone I would want to be with, anymore.
I believe these people are no longer in a commitment.
Me & my girlfriend have been living together for over 8 years now & we were a couple for half a year before that. We are still very affectionate with each other & spend most of the day together sometimes. We hang out a lot & do chores together a bit or keep each other company while the other is doing em. She's sitting next to me rite now playing a vid game while I'm on my phone typing this & slightly watching TV & we are talking a little too. However we have not had sex in close to two years now do to her having various health issues, phsyical & mental stuff. I've gotten out of shape over those years as well thou. Having sex has never been a priority for either of us. We both care aLOT more about our relationship & each other than our sex lives. She just got up & I reached & patted her.
Yeah that was something I wanted to point out, love can exist independently of sex and does not require sex in any way, shape, or form. Sex is just extra!
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