Red Flags

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I'm peeking in your back window now. ^
Hope you don't mind if I moan.

^ I prefer arias.

I like Ariana Grande.

- Some punk-assed weasel on the internet makes you wear red leather in your avatar

- insists that his views are right and better than yours even if he knows nothing about the topic and it’s one that you’ve studied and researched

- implies that women are irrational

- insists on giving unsolicited advice constantly (probably related to the previous red flag)

- Is an animal on the internet - huge red flag

^ That’s a given

- is obsessed with some random in a band to the point of worship.

same for you ^

Denies what they said and call you the liar.

Doesn't believe someone's abuse and trauma experience, makes them repeat the details a billion times, and randomly messages others to b***h about it.

Supports slimy sleazy tiny dicks.

An unhealthy fixation / obsession / admiration for certain fictional characters, such as the punisher, the joker, rick sanchez, scarface, tony soprano, rorschach, etc

Treating other people like game pieces or tools.

"Only the strong survive..."

Laughs at, mocks, or otherwise dismisses others' trauma.

Inappropriate jokes at inappropriate times regarding inappropriate topics. "It's just a joke!"

Thinks everyone / everything else is the problem.

Acts like they'll literally die if they don't get sex, right now, from a supermodel.

Thinks being "manly" means being an aggressive predatory assh*le.

- mocks you when you cry, usually after they’ve done something awful

- uses fear and intimidation to their advantage

- does all the taking and none of the giving in the relationship - even when you are sick

- demonstrates no empathy

- is so obsessed with stereotypical gender roles that he needs constant validation (stated and implied) that he’s a “real man”

- thinks bacon and eggs can cure anything, even if it makes you sick

- uses repetitive, clichéd tropes or metaphors to dehumanize women and their bodies

- hosts elaborate "pity parties" for self, but doesn't celebrate others' real achievements

- gives everyone the same advice, no matter the problem

- is obsessed with frothing milk which is past its expiration date

- is a self-appointed gynaecologist and / or sex therapist and / or trauma therapist

- has the same MO with everyone they fancy

^ - pursues an extremely specific and vulnerable subset of women.