What kinds of things do guys do that make you feel good?

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hugs

i think that is what ive been missing most... i nice strong ALMOST crushing hug from a guy you trust... very comforting and assuring.

Never understood this.
Something my wife always wanted.
I like a gentle touch, much more.

but hard times call for hard hugs

If he isn't the right guy, he could lasso me the moon and it might bring a happy smile to my face ... but it wouldn't increase or change the nature of my feelings for him.

Now I've found someone who is utterly enchanting and intriguing to me, inside and out. He makes me happy just by breathing! I'm pleased and honored beyond belief by the fact that he shares who he is, with me.

in other words, a "good provider". Security. Its an instinctive desire.

Thinking more widely, would a guy who hunts and brings back lots of dead critters be a turn on as a good provider too?

Thinking more widely, would a guy who hunts and brings back lots of dead critters be a turn on as a good provider too?

I hope LPP continues to be just as openly bitter and hateful towards women as he is now.

That way, they'll all run when they see him coming, and none of them will have to put up with his misogyny.

Well then buy yourself the diamonds, and get your girl a pretty sapphire

I must admit though, coloured diamonds are kind of cool.

This is what I loved about being a teenager (well, I didn't REALIZE I loved it back then -- just compared to now, in adulthood). When you're a teenager, it's easier for girls and guys to just look into each others eyes, and consider the most simple and mundane things about each other to be enchanting wonders, while dismissing literally every other thought.

There was this girl I *almost officially* dated when I was 19 and she was 17. I had just moved out of my Dad's house, and was living "on my own" for the very first time ... ah, what memories...
The girl was stunningly gorgeous. And she didn't care that I had a messy, 275-sq-ft (one room) apartment, a messy '79 Pontiac with no air conditioner (in Texas, where the summer reaches above 110º ), she didn't care that I was poor ... it was just incredible. I was a poor slob, she was a stunning goddess, and she was head-over-heels in love with me. We even alluded briefly to having children one today together. She would just beam from ear to ear at me, as if she was off in another world.

And then she was gone. Ah, such is life. C'est la vie!
I told her about Jesus, and she left me.
But I'm very loosely in touch with her on Myspace -- she has a boyfriend. Truth be known, I wouldn't really want her anyway, in a relationship, because I don't think we're truly compatible. But that's the kind of comfortable illusion teen romance can bring... and that's why I liked that simpler version of romance more than this $$$-centered, nit-picky-out-everything, "grown-up" version. (Why do we get more immature in some ways as we get older?)

Ah, the memories...



Just kidding, that's just the new Ben Stiller movie.

After doing a reading to LPP's posts, I see that I have to agree with you to some degree, although he was making a generalization with that list and overreacting to it, didn't especifically sound like prejudice against women exactly, mostly it seemed about how society may work were he lives. So I am taking that into consideration, I asume that is true in some cases, but it is not always like that. However he must be careful about not blaming women for this.

exactly Bazz , you said it right and that what most women deny and I do respect this instinct somehow ....the origin of this instinct is from the nature's law!




In stone age , yes . But today critters= money .

... and that single women, as we get older.... become less and less desirable even if we are wealthy or pretty.

Here the list:

-pay for a good car so you can pick her up
-pay for dinners
-pay for flowers
-pay for gifts
-pay for a diamond ring
-pay for a house
-pay for the babies
-a kiss

for the tit for tat side of things....

it's the same concept of men being attractive to younger bustier girls (yes there's variation... but you get the idea)... and that single women, as we get older.... become less and less desirable even if we are wealthy or pretty.

You're a guy, yet you feel compelled to inject more of your preconceptions before anyone else has gotten a word in (note the original poster was asking the women here). You're so damned focused on money and material things. It's rather unpleasant to see your blather (at least save it until after others have had a turn to speak).

ive seen his negative attitude towards women lots of times.... over a long period of time.

i'd say he's an opportunistict misogynist... meaning that he'd hate on women all day (say on wp) yet should one present herself before him... she'd be hearing very different ideas from him.