Kiseki wrote:
For those of us who posted here, do you consider yourselves attractive and reasonably with it socially? Or neither of those? What do you think are your main difficulties in getting into a relationship?
I'm average looking, maybe a bit below average looking. On the other hand, I know of three women who were attracted to me so my problem isn't my looks. I would never have been really successful with the women, but I should not have been so completely hopeless.
I was so shy and insecure in high school that I missed a couple of great opportunities.
The third case I didn't mess up, but our personalities were so incompatible that it would have been a disaster.
I'd say that my main problem is social and psychological. It doesn't help that I work in a male-dominated field, and most of the people that I know are male. It doesn't help that I'm short and not particularly attractive. I was also prone to severe depression, which also made dating difficult.