4TW wrote:
This is a great post. I must say I am disappointed by the responses in here, in general. I have experienced what the information on the first page is referring to first hand and it seems very much on the money.
Most of the women in this thread fail to realise that the generalisation is referring to the majority, see majority, but not all neurotypical women. Some have even admitted that parts of it ring true with them.
I say stop taking it so personally and realise that you are in the minority. It is not worth getting upset over. You would think people would be used to looking past generalisations for what they can learn by now. Especially those that have known about their AS for a long time.
In my case, the information just describes why I have had limited success with women and why I will continue to have such. Autism is a natural turn off to most women in the world. It does not build attraction very well naturally with women.
Now I realise that in order to do a lot better with women I would need to lie constantly about who I am and behave in ways that are completely unnatural for me. I am not prepared to do this, because the sacrifice is simply not worth it.
As such, I agree with the earlier point that was made, that this knowledge serves mainly to make me more concious of why most women will be inclined to reject me.
I fullyagree. Like you, I value my self-respect and sense of personal disgnity more than I value sex, hence I will not be doing a cocky-funny routine and treating women like I was a caveman. I don't even have the faintest clue on how to create sexual tension.
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