Dating a Stripper

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I would advise any man to stay away from dating strippers. One of my friends "rescued" a stripper by marrying her. She got a regular office job. 3 years into the marriage, she left him for another man, went to work in a bar, and started using cocaine again. My friend was a good husband to her and an excellent provider, but she never loved him.

Then why even post this here? All you've done here is attack others because of the disappointment (and likely anger) you felt upon learning what your girlfriend does for a living when you didn't get the response that you wanted.

I have no need to be self-righteous or judgmental here, it's not my intent. All I've said is that you're jumping to a lot of conclusions, and this is going to get in the way of your happiness at some point. I'm not saying this out of anything except genuine concern, but I think you have a long way to go before you should be in any relationship. Your current level of hostility and anger will preclude any sort of a healthy interaction. If you become this angry and verbally abusive toward complete strangers for merely having a difference in opinion, I hate to think of what might happen if you were in a long-term relationship with a woman who did something you vehemently disagree with.

I sincerely hope you're able to make peace with yourself and the world around you. No one needs to be filled with so much negativity.

Seriously Mikomi, Why are you picking on me?? Its LePetitePrince who is the most negative towards strippers.
You're confusing anger with annoyance. Yes I am jumping to conclusions; but its turning out that some of those conclusion are right. You see, I never openly condemned stripping or the people who do it! What I did was point out that like it or not, having a relationship with a woman who makes her living that way is more difficult than you seem to think it is.

I've developed a habit of scrolling past LPP's posts without reading, as if they were advertisements.

You may wish to give that a shot yourself. It saves both time and aggravation.

^^ I am 100% sure that if you read all my posts and all hers in this thread , this time you will stand with me.You are just support her without reading anything just because she's a woman and just because I am LePetitPrince (a guy who has an extreme evolutionary view on relationships so people misunderstand him for being misogynist) , you are the one who's really sexist.. If you really care about the womankind in the world then you should be against stripping because it's a disgrace for the whole womankind in the world as much it's a disgrace for mankind (malekind).

Yes, I am rudely honest ....toward women and men alike. I am not a 'women-hater' and not going to repeat what proves otherwise, ...I just did in another post as reply to you ( where I explained why I hated Islam for its gender inequality , i was raised by a worker math teacher mother....etc) but I doubt that you even read it and I am not gonna waste my time to convince you any longer .
You simply don't know me in person , you know s**t about me and you are just a limited-minded human being who has a complex from women-haters in her life and who thinks that all men are women-haters. You have also double standards: you've said in many post that you dislike many of women's behavior and that you can't be along with women , yet when you see any guy here criticizing some of women's common behavior you quickly jump to conclusion that this guy is women-hater and you start attacking him.

Yes, i have an extreme evolutionary view on human attraction and on life as a whole but that doesn't make me a women-hater neither a human-hater. If you don't like to read my posts ...well helas....your loss.

She did that not because she was a stripper but because she's one of the kind who's willing to work as stripper. Poverty may obliges many girls and guys to work as stripper but there are others who just love to work as strippers and such people are very materialistic (ie. fabshelly) , they justify everything they do for money.

Ah, so it isn't because of sexism or religion that you make all these statements, it's because you're a narcissist...

That would also explain your unprovoked "I'M NOT BEING SELFISH" statements as well...

Mikomi, would you date a stripper man?

Still waiting for that explanation...

^^ it's clear.

No, it isnt clear at all.

You have stated that the strip-club environment is no place for a 'true' aspie. It is a place which you clearly despise, and presumably have no experience of whatsoever.

What then makes you such an authority on the subject, that you would be able to confidently make such a strong statement? It just doesnt add up - unless theres something your not telling us, the only explanation is that your promoting biased uninformed opinion as fact, which damages your credibility.

^^ ok let me clear it up for you, stripper's advocate :

Extra-bonus in stripper'case = a jerk man bangs her in his place or any place outside the club after work for extra-money.

Yes, it's not ...strip-clubs are so crowdy and noisy with annoying lights , any aspie won't handle it. Besides, the job itself demands a lot of boldness ..... not an aspie thing. , no shy person would do it.

PLease explain how you KNOW for fact that the majority of girls strippers also recieve payment for intercourse, or admit that there is no way you could possibly know such a thing, and you were wrong to give that impression.

Don't hold your breath.

From what I hear from other guys ...a lot of strippers do it , I didn't launched a survey for that.
Well , it doesn't matter really if I am wrong or right abou that , it might be 90% of strippers do it or it might be just 10% of strippers do it and I am just wrongly estimating.

In both cases, Practicing stripping still and will still = Selling your nude body to the public (not necessarily tangibly). Period.
That's why I said that Stripping ,porn acting and prostitution are in the same basket.

Julie , would you answer this question just for this time?

Would you date a male stripper? Just say yes or no.

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